Camming with another person
Hello ladies!
So I've been wanting to do a b/g or g/g show and have been putting feelers out. I was approached by a fellow CB'er who wanted to do a b/g show with me! He is cute, I've verified he is a real person :D and he's close by. Besides the typical "let someone know" what other precautions should I take? I'm taking my time and talking to him a lot on Kik to make sure we're on the same page too.
TIA XOXO :heartbeat
Re: Camming with another person
I think testing for STDs and such should definitely be high on that list...
Re: Camming with another person
-Absolutely, the both of you NEED to show each other RECENT STD tests.
-Give his information - full name, address, phone number, photo, etc to one of your trusted friends. Let your friend know when you're meeting with this fellow and where and have them text you periodically for your initial meetings. You never know...but it's better to be safe than sorry!
-You need to figure out how you are going to share your tokens, if he has a verified account you will need to decide what the split is 50/50 or otherwise (unless you cam under your own accounts at the same time). Do NOT cash out the tokens and pay him out of your pocket. You will have to pay taxes on those earnings if you do!
-Remember, if you cam with him and you've been camming solo you're going to get a LOT of questions about who he is, how you met, and why he isn't there with you all of the time. I cammed with my SO and people ask me all of the time where he is and why I don't cam with him anymore. (I want to say FUCK OFF and tip me, but I can't). It's going to get annoying and there's a chance people will like him more than you and vice versa.
-Decide if it's worth it to cam with another person. You might lose regulars that you currently have. They might like that you cam alone and if you bring him in they will get jealous or not tip while he is there, or not come back. Maybe y'all should make a NEW account for camming together?
-If you decide to cam with him advertise a specific date a week or two in advance for people to prepare. Some might buy extra tokens to tip you during this time. Make a graphic/goal to put up and show people it's happening (what date, time, etc) so they aren't shocked or under-prepared.