How to ask a wealthy boyfriend for gifts and allowances?
My goal has always been to marry a multi-millionaire. I’m now on the cusp of a relationship with one; I have a date set for Saturday.
I don’t want this to be like a “sugar baby” arrangement, where the man knows you’re only in it for money and gifts and agrees to that…I want him to think I am actually wife material, not just a sugar baby.
I don’t know how to describe what I want except in terms of what I’ve seen: for example, what turned me on to this goal of marrying a multi-millionaire is a documentary called “The Secret World of Haute Couture”, which is basically a bunch of old rich millionaire and billionaire wives collecting couture gowns. I want to be like that one day.
So I’m not going to discuss anything related to money on the first date. Assuming this lasts…
When and what is the best time to bring up the subject of pampering, allowances, etc.?...In a way that doesn’t feel like I’m pressuring him, and doesn’t put me in sugar baby category (remember, I want to stay in future wife category).
I want him to basically shower me with gifts and money out of love, not out of agreement or obligation.
How do I make this happen?
Thank you.
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sophianz
READ THIS DARLING, MIGHT BE OF HELP XO
I read it, thank you for the link...but that is about a sugar baby arrangement, which is what I'm trying to avoid.
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Answer: Don't bring it up. If a man likes you and offers you, then accept.
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The advice still stands for both
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sophianz
The advice still stands for both
I hadn't gotten to the second page where your advice was, it's pretty useful, so thank you!
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LaBeaute
I want him to basically shower me with gifts and money out of love, not out of agreement or obligation.
I think that if something is done out of love it's done without needing any provocation. You need to date guys who consider showering a woman with money and gifts to be an expression of love and affection. I don't think you can 'make' that happen, if you try to you're just going to end up being a hustling sugarbaby(not that there's anything wrong with hustling sugarbabies, just sounds like what Beaute is trying to avoid).
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To elaborate I feel like you are basically saying that you want a guy who will automatically be very generous with you, but at the same time you're saying 'But how do get him to be generous?' You wouldn't need to bring it up if he's the kind of guy you're seeking, and if you have to bring it up he's not the kind of guy you're seeking.
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Just ask....
If you are lucky you get with a man who is already accustomed to offering without you having to do much asking. Yeah most men are notoriously bad at taking hints. I mean you can be subtle if you don't want to be direct, just be prepared to drop multiple hints before he gets the clue. I'd say the best time is to ask in person especially when you know he is already in a good mood.
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I'm confused about why this is posted in the Stripping section? This isn't really about stripping at all... If this is something you want to do, whatever, but posting it in this section seems to imply that you think this is what a stripper inherently does..?
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BTW just a little off topic side note as I am also a huge lover of HC.
The "mistress" (I will call her that for want of a better word) who mentored me, has a collection of her own HC.
She was given her own appointments and channels for it, along with Furs that had their own refirigerator (LOL!)
Also a ridiculous collection of Hermes, bulgari, Chanel RTW etc etc etc
My point is.... you wanting to be part of the "club" of it all means you need to really be from the correct breeding-I assume you are not.
If you are really there for the love of the art that is HC, with enough iorn clad balls and smarts you could get it yourself without being owned= be a mistress.
Your first task is to decide what exactly it is that you want.
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You don't. Especially not at the beginning.
men give gifts and money to their wives out of love and desire to take care of them. if you start asking for these things, he will either not consider you "wife material," brand you for being a gold digger and run for the hills, or put you in the sugar baby category.
It sounds like you want a genuine relationship with a millionaire/billionaire? Then you need to be genuine yourself and make him fall in love with you. Men with that much money are used to women using them, and they will also be pretty guarded at first. Straight up asking for gifts and an allowance will not get you very far.