Re: Reasons for banning a reg?
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LoraDoll
I have a guy just like that, i m wondering maybe they are the same. (On Jasmin) However i don t bann him. He just come > asks if he can come - again and again. Sending his email, phone number endlessly. Whatever i say his answer: "fuck that" and start to ask again if he can come. He shows pics about other cam girls, who he dates with.
Sometimes he jumps into the room, while i do pvt with someone else. I just stop and kick him out. Never get dressed down to him.
On Jasmin, u can t bann anyone, they relog, and they can come back.
once i had a fucking cheap - disgusting guy > I ve banned him when i was like about to cry. (all his pvts were like 10 seconds, no need to tell what he wanted to see...) 5 mins later, customer support came to my room, because a member complained about me... They questioned me how i imagined that, i MUST do whatever he asks. *.* Uhumm okay. That happened years ago, when i started to work there.
I was just telling someone the other day on another forum that this is just one more reason to avoid LiveJasmin. To not be able to ban annoying members sucks, and I'll be damned if some cam site is gonna tell me I "must" do whatever some asshole asks.
Re: Reasons for banning a reg?
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TheBrownFox
I was just telling someone the other day on another forum that this is just one more reason to avoid LiveJasmin. To not be able to ban annoying members sucks, and I'll be damned if some cam site is gonna tell me I "must" do whatever some asshole asks.
The last time I streamed on LiveJasmin an admin interrupted my show and said my room was too dark so he docked me -5%. I set up my room with mood lighting and I had my background brightly lit with colored lamps. I wanted to do what I did on other sites that worked out well for me. After that, I logged off and haven't streamed there in 2 years. I'm not going to stream on page 6 with a -5% handicap when I used to be front page and popular in my category. It's totally unfair. They don't seem to care about their models (and I used to defend them). Their admins treat models like chattel that can be replaced when they "get out of line" by daring to show any individuality.
Back in 2012-2013 I did really well on the LJ and the admins left me alone for the most part. I made a little more on LJ than I did on SM when SM was really good to me--more privates than I could handle with lots of multiples in premium at the time. Models complain about LJ freeloaders, but they are no where near as bad as freeloaders on token sites. LJ's problem is their overbearing admins and ridiculous penalty system that seems to be nothing more than an excuse to extract as many nickels out of models as possible. I don't think I could go back to LJ if they won't let me run my shows the way I need to. The micromanaging by admins with self-inflated egos is out of control.
Re: Reasons for banning a reg?
Reasons for banning a reg?
I'm sorry but do I really ever need a reason? I'm quick to block and rely little on why. :bullwhip:
Re: Reasons for banning a reg?
I had a regular who was my biggest spender at the time, but God this dude wanted a lot of attention, would hang around silently in my chatroom for hours before going private, making me feel self conscious. I'd already lost patience with him when he came in drunk one night and told me one day he'd tie me up and turn the tables on me whether I wanted to or not. So I banned him. Hope he enjoyed that hangover - dude was fucking obsessed with me. I hate it when guys dangle large amounts of money in front of you, you know - when they flash some cash OCCASIONALLY so you'll let whatever shit they put you through slide. Fuck that. I may be a broke bitch from time to time but I don't need that shit.
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If they get out of line and don't know their place with a warning. If they expired. Just keep coming in and out or worse- staringgggggggggg. suddenly asking for things I don't do.
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I've banned a lot of well paying regulars on SM for various reasons. I try and do it so that they don't realise it's happened though i.e. I'll click the 'block this person' button so the pop up comes up but they are still in my room and then I'll pretend I'm just going downstairs to get something so they leave, I come back and I hit the button. I like that you can block them but leave the messages open so it makes it look like I haven't banned them completely. They just end up wondering why I don't appear in their faves list anymore. I don't like to come across as harsh and my reasons for banning them they would think 'wtf why?!?!?!' lol
I just get uncomfortable with some regulars. Or one's that just sit around in free chat with me thinking we are pals and they literally kill the sexual energy in my room by just talking about boring shit that no one else who comes to a cam site wants to hear! Just a total mood killer when they start conversing with me about every day nonsense while I'm trying to maintain the sexiness in my room. One well paying regular complained that I put my price up by $1 and I was like 'right that's it, you're going on the block list'. Have also blocked regulars who have been great in the past but then they try to push my limits by pestering me to do anal when we're in private, I clearly state I don't do it but they keep being pushy!
Other reasons for banning:
+ Guys who become 1sec peepers.
+ Want to meet me, keep pestering me to meet up. This makes me uncomfortable as F.
+ The type of guys that want to just chat and get to know me in private sessions and just talk. These are my least fave type of shows. Jeez just let me give you a sexual experience! I don't want to get to know one another!
+ Guys who ask for specific requests that I would do for them but over time I just don't want to do them anymore. Like one guy likes me to strangle myself and pretend I was dying, the money was great but I really didn't enjoy this type of thing and would dread it whenever he came in my room.
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I banned a regular that was there from day one, and honestly, I don't know why I didn't do it sooner. He contributed nothing; never took me private or exclusive. Hell, he didn't even tip 5 gold to see my tits or ass, but he would sure reap the rewards when someone else did. He would pop in my room and ask, "have you made anything today?" or if I went private or exclusive and came back, he'd ask if I had a good session. He would constantly talk about my weight, and even ask really personal questions. The only thing he ever did was talk.
What pushed me to ban him was he popped in my room one day (like, a few days ago) and said "I have you muted so I can listen to music." In my room I have a rule in my room topic that says "talk or be blocked." Well, after not talking for a while and saying he has me alt-tabbed so he can browse the internet (seriously, asshole?), he chimed in, "hey, feel free to kick me if I'm bothering you."
So I did - and I blocked his ass.
If you're not buying a show, talk. If you're not talking, and only have my room open so you can alt-tab and check every once in a while to see if anyone tipped in hopes of free goods, then get the fuck out. If you're going to treat me like an animal in a circus, then you need to pay up, because even the circus costs money.
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^^ girl he wasn't a regular... To even get that title they have to be spending money (at least for me lol) round here we call those thangs freeloaders lol
Re: Reasons for banning a reg?
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Melyssax
^^ girl he wasn't a regular... To even get that title they have to be spending money (at least for me lol) round here we call those thangs freeloaders lol
Ah, yes, that's the word I was looking for!
Well, I guess my post was pointless, but it was good to blow of some steam, lol.
Re: Reasons for banning a reg?
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Melyssax
^^ girl he wasn't a regular... To even get that title they have to be spending money (at least for me lol) round here we call those thangs freeloaders lol
well this guy described is surely a reg, regular freeloader lmao
Re: Reasons for banning a reg?
If you have spent more than 100 dollars on me I'll let you come and go as you please. I am very good to my customers in that regard. Even if they never spend again. But if they ask me for a free favor, times up. Now, one customer in particular is a solid. They found me after I was gone for years. I did lower my rate, which was still high, and offered them a block session only though as years ago I know this person spent thousands on me (their cut) and they were so happy to see me again. So yes, I'll do that. But that's for special people.
Other than that as long as they don't stalk me, and they can't as I'm very particular with my personal info, I'll never ban a reg. No matter how annoying. Money is money. If they regularly spend money it's a reg. If they don't they aren't a reg. To me it is also acceptable to cut a deal with a solid reg on your terms. Once it was a slow night, a reg had some financial issues and was feeling really bad. So... I offered a discount rate to perk them up. I knew they couldn't afford my rate. You have to pick and choose who is and who isn't truthful and deserving. They remained a reg for a long time as well.
Re: Reasons for banning a reg?
I ban my regulars if they:
-Excessive nagged, bitch, or complain all of the time.
-Want to meet me in person
-Keep saying they love me or want me to be their real life girlfriend without paying me. (Girlfriend experience is extra money)
-Stop paying me.
-Don't respect boundaries.
- Or all of the above :)
Re: Reasons for banning a reg?
Hell, I block folks in private for not being able to read english aka my profile... That said, for every one client you ban there are 25 more waiting to take his place.
Also they do have a shelf life it could be 6 months it could be 1 year but they expire once they figure out you'll never date them/fuck them/ meet up... it happens. It's the nature of the business.
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I usually ban regulars as soon as I go "ugh" when I see them...
There are a couple I've banned for 6 months or so & then un-banned. They eventually come around again all sheepish like "Hey, I haven't seen you around lately!!" and step their game up.
Re: Reasons for banning a reg?
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Originally Posted by
xKikox
I've banned a lot of well paying regulars on SM for various reasons. I try and do it so that they don't realise it's happened though i.e. I'll click the 'block this person' button so the pop up comes up but they are still in my room and then I'll pretend I'm just going downstairs to get something so they leave, I come back and I hit the button.
I do this too.