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Based on this and your other post I really think you should look for something non-adult because everything is traceable and you are so worried about anything sexual.
Try http://realwaystoearnmoneyonline.com/
You can try customer service. Writing articles, Blogging, etc.
please read the forum carefully, this job is not easy money!
I suppose it depends on how much you're really trying to make. Do you have any admin/secretarial/computer skills? I started working at temp agencies at your age and was never paid less than $12/hr, because I exceeded the average on all of their typing/admin/office-related tests.
In order to make more than minimum wage in any industry (whether that be office work or PSO or camming or whatever), you'll need to have certain skills, traits, and/or experience to succeed.
If you're that worried about it, don't do it. There's no cut and dry yes or no answer to that, the answer is: "it can".
It also depends on what type of career you plan on having. If you'll be working with children or plan on ever running for any kind of public office then the answer is probably yes, it will.
if you are lazy then you will never make decent money whatever your career, you seem to want the easy option. This job is not easy
Tsani I think you meant to say "then the answer is probably yes" in regards to whether or not PSO will affect future child-related/public office jobs.
You've opened two similar threads, Candies... judging on both of them, I don't think you're cut out for this. At least not as a short term option. Frankly you sound too inexperienced, desperate, and overly concerned.
if a guy asked you to tell him about the dirtiest sex you have ever had, what would you say?
Yes, sex work is likely to impact your future if someone wants to dig deep enough to find it. And I really don't think it is worth it for you. I say this because you really don't sound like you have the type of experience that it takes to make it in this business. Yes, innocence sells. But not REAL innocence. Guys interested in that sort of persona need girls that can fake innocence well, while understanding exactly what they are looking for. You have to be intuitive. You have to anticipate their wants through the subtle cues they give you, because they don't spell it all out for you. And the ability to do that comes from experience. If you don't have those kinds of skills, any money to be had will run out as soon as your new girl status is up, which is not long at all. And you will likely be left with a short failed stint in sex work that paid almost no bills and that could haunt your chances of employment forever.
Phone sex and camming isn't quick money, either. And insinuating that it is is actually kind of insulting. Even for seasoned professionals it is a whole lot of work. There is much more that goes into it than logging on and taking calls or doing shows. I put about as much effort into marketing in order to get calls as I do taking them. There is no such thing as easy money, even in sex work. But I suppose at 18 I didn't really understand that either.
This, precisely. Candies, you're a virgin who's never even had her first kiss, let alone done anything remotely sexual. Unless you do a LOT of research and have a very creative mind (not to mention a tough shell), there is no way you'll be successful in sex work.
I'm assuming the only reason you even considered this industry is because you believed all the false hype that it's easy money. Listen to all of us when we tell you, it's not.
Oh honey. If it was that easy to find a non-sexual sugar daddy we would ALL be doing it.
Every thread you start boils down to "how do I reap all the benefits of sex work without any of the negative consequences," and that just isn't going to happen. Please, listen to the advice everyone here has been giving you. It is HARD to make money doing any kind of sex work! This is not a get rich quick scheme. And it has unavoidable consequences.
My advice? Be a waitress. Maybe even go somewhere like Hooters if you want to have some kind of flirty/sexy aspect to your job. But it's obvious that camming, stripping, sugaring, phone sex, escorting, porn, etc is not going to work out for you right now.
I myself worked at a fast food restaurant when I was 18, getting paid $7.25/hr and yelled at by customers and managers everyday. Yes it sucked. I worked almost full time and still never made more than $300. But honestly, worse things would've happened if I got into sex work at that age, and I had sexual experience. Sex work is not easy money. It takes a lot of street smarts, willingness to learn, marketing skills, among a host of other things. Have you considered tutoring? How about working as a lifeguard? Are you going to college this fall? Can you get on-campus employment?
The reason that sex work CAN SOMETIMES be so lucrative is because of the SEX connection. If you aren't willing/happy to do anything that gets men off - whether that be real, virtual, visual or audio - then you won't make very much money.
Listen to the others. Find a different job. Sell on eBay. This isn't a quick money biz if you aren't willing to put the hours or sex in. And even then it ain't a guarantee.
There is a difference between FAST money and EASY money. In the sex industry you can more money in a less amount of time compared to other jobs but it is not easy.
Also be careful meeting men from sugar daddy sites like Seeking arrangements. Many of those men have been blacklisted from escorts so they are preying on girls who lacks street smarts. Many of these sugar babies are nothing but discount escorts.
If you're looking for quick money and want the greatest odds of remaining anonymous, dancing would be your best option IMO.
I don't think so, especially if you go independent and play characters. Most companies use DBA (Doing Business As) names so awkward things don't show up on your taxes. I've been doing phone sex off an on for over 14 years (when I was underage too, lol) and I've never had anything stop me from getting hired at vanilla companies, etc.
If it's that much of a problem try Second Life.....you can be a voice escort or offer skype shows and they pay you in Lindens, which you then cash out through Paypal and it comes up as LindenLabs so no trace of any 'adult activity.'
One of the things that you need to understand about the sex industry is that when you are working a commission-based job. There will be hours where you work and make over minimum wage but there is also hours that you will work that you will make $0.
Unlike working a minimum-wage job there is no guarantee of a certain amount of money on payday and that makes budgeting really hard to do.
What the other girls are trying to express to you is that there is a lot of consequences that come with this line of work and there are no guarantees that you will even be better off when all is said and done then if you just would of stuck with a minimum wage job.
Here is a piece of advice I wish someone would of have given to me when I started...unlike most minimum wage jobs this is not a job that you can just 'go through the motions' and work. It is emotionally exhausting to have to pretend to be happy and flirtatious and when you are your own boss and have no one to answer to yourself it is very hard to keep yourself motivated to work.