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1. I'm curious to know if she's actually a female. I recently got into a reddit argument with someone who said "there are plenty of girls who pay for cam-sex!" and I was like, nah, they're just pretending to be girls. They NEVER turn on their cam, in my experience. I've seen three women on cam: two were sleeping, and being shown on cam nonconsensually, and one was fucking another guy, so it was a couple's thing.
2. What makes you think she has any interest in being a camgirl? Did she say something about it? When I go to the doctor, I highly doubt the doctor feels guilty because I can be a doctor too.
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1. That sucks that you had to experience that gross nonconsensual bullshit. S/he may very well be pretending, but s/he's a paying customer so I'll "believe" whatever she tells me.
2. Yeah she said she was curious about being a camgirl but wanted to see what it was like first.
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I've had a handful of girls... None with there camera on..I only think one might of been a actual girl but I think most like to pretend there a girl. I wouldn't feel bad if she really is a girl she liked u wanted to get off and liked you enough to pay you to get off on. Ive seen a couple girls I wouldn't mind tipping :)
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In my experience, I've had a few women but with the exception of one - whose true identity remains a mystery, they eventually revealed that they were either men who got off on playing girls or were sissies.
Also, call me cynical, jaded and hardened but in camming and in the 'conventional' work world, people say all sorts of things to get favourable treatment. If I had a dollar for every time someone said they had a disability/was a parent/was a woman in a male-dominated field, etc. etc. I would be very wealthy.
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I don't think I ever had female customers but I was one.I had to stop because I was spending all the credits I was earning on AW .LOL.
IMO female customers are rare and I would only believe they are females if they c2c.I always turned on my cam in pvts with other girls.I think everyone has a cam nowdays and unless they are shy...no reason to hide.
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Its usually a guy pretending to be a girl. You can tell by the way they talk, it screams guy. I had one on SM named MillyH and you could tell it was a guy but I just went with their fantasy.
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I had kind of a unique experience when I first started camming. My biggest tipper for about 3 months straight had a male profile on chaturbate but was probably a chick. The only reason I found out was because she sent me a gift card and it had her name on it. I didn't confront her, but a few months later CB started doing this thing where they would keep a picture of you if you'd streamed your cam in the past like 60 days (like if you clicked on someone's name, even if they weren't currently streaming, it would show a screen shot of their most recent stream). Anyway, the clearly accidental screen shot matched the name ( which I had googled).
To this day I'm not 100% sure whether it was a female, or just some dude who had used his wife's credit card and happened to have his wife get suspicious of the bank activity and see what cb was all about.
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I've had a few who claim to be girls, but never send a pic or turn their cam on, so of course I always wonder. Some seemed genuine. I usually ask them what kind of toys they're using, if any, and we end up just chilling out, casually masturbating while talking about real life girl sex experiences.
What throws me off is, I can't dirty talk to girls at all; for some reason my sexual linguistics are geared towards dirty talking to men about their cocks. The most I can do that doesn't feel contrived is ask a girl how wet she is. It just feels weird to tell a girl what to do to her pussy, or talk about what we can do together... which always ends up reminding me of Mrs. Garrison's lesbo scene in South Park. "Oh yeah, scissor me timbers!" Lol. (I actually do enjoy "scissoring" (tribbing) in real life, but I would never say the word "scissor" in bed, hahaha.)
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I've had female customers over the phone before but generally it's usually guys pretending to be girls on cam. Unless I can physically see them on cam and they do my "test" it's most likely a male. Either way at least he/she took you private :)
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Yeah I've had a few short term gf's so I know how to turn a girl on haha. It's just rare that I get a woman as opposed to a man in general, so was pretty exciting for me. This shift went from hate camming to love camming in about 7 hours. Streamate is pretty damn rewarding in the end :D
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Guys who pretend to be girls talk about phallic things.
No C2C then I don't believe. But if they are paying, I'll buy into it and laugh about it later.
I've had "women" take me to exclusive and comment me. Only to change there screen name the next day to a male name.
Dudes like to pretend they are girls on the internet in general. This site alone is a testament to that. lol
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I've been a cam customer before, so I know at least one camgirl has done a show with a female. I mostly tip into gold shows for research purposes, but I definitely get some personal "enjoyment" too! :)
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Saying that I have tipped a few girls on MFC before, but never a pay per min site. it wasn't for perving purposes (honest!), i was trying to find other UK gals and check out how they made things work for them on mfc. i found one girl that was so cute and engaging and had barely anyone in her room, and I made it "rain" with a yellow screen haha :) I told her who i was and linked her to my twitter to verify (via private message)
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I've only had one girl I know was a girl ever on cam that wasn't part of a couple. She cammed in and it was by far one of the most disturbing experiences I've ever had. She wanted me to scream at her like her mom used to while she was being molested by her while sniffing her own daughters panties..........noooooooooooooooo thank you.
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I've had one female customer ever. C2C. She told me she was lonely (lived out in the middle of nowhere in Western Australia) and just wanted to talk to someone who was her age, so we talked for about an hour. Nothing sexual.
It's the same as the guys who say they're a couple or multiple guys. I've had that happen C2C once (with two guys jerking off) and that was one of the more awkward sessions I've ever experienced. They're always lying for attention or for a fetish.
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Once I had an older-looking woman who just wanted to talk, it lasted about 10 mins. We chatted about the weather and food. Any other female I've had has been in a couple, only 3 times.
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Ive had 1 on one of my pso lines, and I hated it. She was submissive, and hearing her orgasm sounds made me cringe. (PROB why I mute porn).
Ive had a few SAY they were women on cam, but like others have mentioned, they NEVER turn on their cam.
Fine with me... You're paying to worship me, it's all good.;D
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I had one on the phone, she was super nice and although im not a lesbian i had fun with her. we talked about our female celeb crushes and what we would do with them lol
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I've had one female customer ever. C2C. She told me she was lonely (lived out in the middle of nowhere in Western Australia) and just wanted to talk to someone who was her age, so we talked for about an hour. Nothing sexual.
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Once I had an older-looking woman who just wanted to talk, it lasted about 10 mins. We chatted about the weather and food. ...
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I had one on the phone, she was super nice and although im not a lesbian i had fun with her. we talked about our female celeb crushes and what we would do with them lol
Makes me wonder if there's maybe some kind of under-served market here somewhere. Hubby said something about "psychic friends" being a thing a long time ago, and I saw some really weird stuff for Japan in this market, but nothing popularly advertised that I know now. Would models be willing to take a small pay hit to do longer shows for this kind of work? I think I personally would actually.
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I once did a long cam to cam private with a group that was having a threesome (2 girls and one guy) and the other I believe was a wife with her husband. The husband and wife team were pretty comical. The husband looked bored to tears and wasn't really that interested which was surprising but the wife was super into it. He left the room after awhile LOL but the wife stayed and got off with me. Go figure. Anytime a "female" announces she is a female but doesn't turn on the camera.... I call bull shit but play along anyway.
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Like seicento, I've paid using credits on adultwork, it was for advice from another camgirl regarding a situation I couldn't handle tbh. It was well worth it.
I don't actually have a problem, if it's a one off, with someone being in my room and maybe being a man whose fantasy is to pretend they're a woman. However, if it was a long term customer, I'd have a problem with them not telling me and keeping up a long running thing of something based on untruths.
I often wondered why there aren't more lesbian/bi/female customers... I think part of this is that, generally speaking, most lesbians seem to be very anti-porn and also anti-sex work. Also, women know what it's like to be talked to like shit/treated like shit by men (often, from general life experience) and I think they would find the atmosphere where I work massively offputting and also get shitloads of hassle themselves if it was revealed.
I know this is a massive generalisation and it's just from personal experience of hanging out with friends who are all lesbian/bi/trans, but my perception is, broadly speaking, they are way less likely to want to pay women for sex work. A lot identify as strongly feminist (whch is a good thing). Personally tho, I don't think feminism and sex-work are incompatible :).
I hope I haven't offended anyone with these thoughts. I just think it's a possible reason. I could be wrong.
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I have had two in all my years of camming that did c2c with me. A few couples as well. If they say they are female and are paying, I just go along w it. Unless they are trying to get attention from the other guys in free chat.
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I know this is a massive generalisation and it's just from personal experience of hanging out with friends who are all lesbian/bi/trans, but my perception is, broadly speaking, they are way less likely to want to pay women for sex work. A lot identify as strongly feminist (which is a good thing). Personally tho, I don't think feminism and sex-work are incompatible :).
I hope I haven't offended anyone with these thoughts. I just think it's a possible reason. I could be wrong.
I agree, I think feminism and sex work are totally compatible! I've been a feminist since my late teens and I had a bit of a warped view on sex work too before I realised that many people are having happy, fulfilled careers doing sex work.
Camming all about taking control, learning to love yourself and be confident doing with your body exactly what you want to. Of course, there are a lot of places where the sex industry exploits people, some pro-amateur porn girls are usually forced into doing things they don't want to do, have to fuck on demand and stuff. And prostitution is another story for me, as you sometimes have to bend to the will of the customer and I wouldn't like that. On cam, if someone asks for anal/deepthroat/something you don't want to do you just say no and/or block. People feel free to disagree with me though!
Humans are sexual creatures and I don't think over-sexualisation is always a massive problem unless it's being exposed to underage people.
Camming rocks because it's all completely consensual. Hell, this job exploits me less than every fast food/cafe/hostel job I've ever had.
Off topic a little sorry! Rant over haha.