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How similar is your camming persona to your true personality?
So I've noticed some girls on here keep their camming persona very different to their own. Change their accent, wear wigs, contacts, act dominant when irl they are submissive, or the other way around. Which is fair enough - this is a job that always involves a fakery!
Personally I have naturally curly/crazy hair so I let it out. Wigs make me sweaty so I'd rather keep my natural hair out. I don't change my accent either but I do speak a lot more high-pitched and am a more friendly, optimistic, confident and less cynical, shy and bitchy than I am in real life. Since starting camming, I've started tying my hair back and going without make up in everyday life, so when I go on cam I feel super hot.
How different are you to your alter ego?
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My alter ego is somewhere running free drinking babies blood and skinning cats. She enjoys running from the police, its her favourite after school activity that and getting drunk and falling down. The average freeloader isn't ready for her.
I am my same evil self on cam as I am off, I am just less with the bullshit, always sober, more slutty looking and in between fucking my best friends man I am always catching my brother with my panties. and I also suck a shit load of dick, yet to do it IRL but I am a pro on cam.
I perform a good show based on their need/wants, I personally don't see it as fake if I'm doing something on cam that I dont in real life, I just see it as good customer service. I'm paid to be entertaining and s/he, they set the tone of what that is. I am just open to how I get my fucking money.
But all and all I am still me, even a catfish is still themselves.
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I'm me in free chat. A few variants but mostly I just chill. I don't wear lingerie. Most days what I'm wearing in the streets is what I go on cam with. Now paid chat is another story. That's when they get to see the out of work actress come to life. If u wanna see me work then fucking pay me. I'm like this in mainstream world as well. Girl next door with a sweet demeanor who will eat you alive when it comes to making money.
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I'm too lazy to change my appearance much apart from wearing full on makeup and lingerie. But my personality is almost psychopathically different! I would not let them know a single thing about the REAL me.
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My cam "persona" is basically just me, the way I am around close friends. When I'm on cam I'm pretty bossy and direct, silly and crass. I don't really act that way around anyone other than friends/family. I'm usually kinda quiet around new people. So my guys get to see a very intimate part of my personality that they wouldn't see otherwise...for better or for worse!
I look about the same on cam as I do in normal life, although I usually save my makeup experiments for cam days.
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Like me but with full who're make up, my hair out and a lot more dirty talk and teasing I need to channel my inner sex goddess to cam.
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sexysusie
I'm too lazy to change my appearance much apart from wearing full on makeup and lingerie. But my personality is almost psychopathically different! I would not let them know a single thing about the REAL me.
^^^ This!!
I am 50 shades of grey, for every guy i am different but for none i show the real me, i am too 'complex & complicated' to most people, it's all smoke and mirrors on cam & IRL sometimes teeheee ;)
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I really go for it with cleavage and I love me some smoky eye shadow.
Otherwise, I am pretty much just myself on cam - just amplified a little. I really like to try to make my guys laugh in free chat.
One thing that is definitely different is the tone of my voice and laugh while I cam. I have no idea why, but sometimes I catch myself talking and I don't even recognize the pitch - definitely higher and more feminized. But, I get compliments/tips/comments on my voice all the time so yeahh. It's the weirdest thing!
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My camming persona is exactly to my true personality.
It used to be opposite. But I now live in a small town, and renting from a crazy conservative beatch that doesnt know I cam.
Soooo, I feel free when I'm camming,cause I have to look plain irl, and look like the'virgin mary', who never has sex.:-XX
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I'm just myself....nothing less and nothing more.
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I'm being myself,just my make up is more.I did cam with wigs and colored lenses for a change,I did cam without make up, but my personality never changes ,just my appearance when I get bored and I want to try something different.What I am irl is what I am on cam too.I don't like faking my personality like I don't like faking my orgasms.I always enjoyed giving my customers a real experience and that only brought me long term regs who like me for what I am.
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On cam I dress like a total slut (in the sex-positive meaning of the word of course!). Full face makeup, hair styled, lingerie, heels... In real life I dress like a combo of 'college girl in study mode' and 'mom sitting in for her kid's soccer practice'. Sure I might do my brows and pull up my hair but that's about as much effort as I'm willing to go these days outside of special occasions. Putting on makeup on my days off cam just seems so tedious!
I kinda relate to the 50 shades of grey comment that Kat made- I let the parts of me that are most compatible with my client come out, and other than that I just apply a layer of decorum, enthusiasm, and understanding. Kind of like acting different roles really. I'm someone new with ealmost everyone.
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When I first started, I was kind of a chameleon and I would change my personality based on what I thought the customer wanted and it seemed that I would do this more on private based sites.
Now that I'm on token sites exclusively, I find that having a strong, consistent persona is more important for gaining regulars. I'm the drunk version of myself on cam, uninhibited, no filter, no shame, don't give a shit about anything and laughing all the time. It's very liberating.
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Its all a blur. I'm not even sure who I am anymore!
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I'm on MFC, so I keep a consistent persona in order to gain regs. I am myself, but kind of like a fantasy version of myself. I wear things and say things and do things I would NEVER do IRL. But for me, that's what makes camming so much fun!!
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I'm pretty much myself but with a higher sex drive . I tried giving myself a sexy persona but it came off as ridiculous.
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I have always been myself when camming, but with just a few little tweaks such as different name.
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I did shit pretending to be someone else. I tried the whole "girl next door" and it was a total failure. I can't be that. Audri is me, I'm just as loud, witty, outgoing, sexual, sarcastic, and blunt. I do my makeup the same as I usually wear it. And I wear my normal clothes.
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I really do have an awful personality IRL, which is why I prefer to be dominant and humiliate men and tell them how small their dick is etc. etc. I look very different off cam though so guys wouldn't be able to stalk me. Off cam I have a big fro and I look very plain. On cam I have straight hair and I'm very polished.
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I'm not that different, more formal on initial approach but less keen to deal with bullshit. I think keeping up a fake persona is exhausting - I tried the whole "sex kitten" thing back when I did vanilla camming starting out, it REALLY didn't work. I can't even pretend to be excited about some guy's dick. Now that I mainly do dom/fetish stuff I don't have to pretend as much in free chat, and as for the play acting in paid chat - it's no skin off my back, it's a fun role to play. That's a huge part of why I switched to domming, it's just way less emotionally exhausting to sit around looking collected and sadistic. But naturally I don't walk around in real life calling people cock hungry little sissy sluts. I mean, I'm a lot more serious and sexual on cam - I could never be as silly on there as I am in real life and I don't want to be. But that's just withholding a side of myself, not adding on something that's the opposite of my real life personality.
My look on cam isn't that different from when I goth up IRL but it takes a lot for me to be that made up off cam. In real life I usually roll around in thrift shop clothing, to be honest, my clients would be so disillusioned if they saw me walking down the street looking like a pile of mismatched rags.
I don't mind giving a bit of my "real self", it's never anything more intimate than what I'd give an entertaining stranger at a party. It's a nice break from boredom to talk about things that interest me (I draw the line at anything that might get someone off, unless they're paying me). Tonight I've just been talking about classical music since that's what I've got playing in the background, hah.
I speak in a sultrier, darker voice on cam, now that I think of it.
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I'm exactly the same on cam as IRL. Same make up, same personality. I find this works well for me as one thing people always comment on is how 'real' I am. They love that.
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I am me on cam, no faking it here at all, it works for me too! My personality is attitude, sarcasm, goofy, talkative and dirty minded, just like the real me! I do my hair and makeup the same as if I were going out, otherwise if its the food store, hair is up, cam its always down and curled. Makeup a little sluttier than I normally would wear if I went out. My cam wardrobe is about the same, comfy, I do tank tops and panties. Dress up is putting on cute thigh his or heels :)
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I'm the total opposite on cam as I am off cam. I can be kind of abrasive irl and I normally only do my eyebrows, eyelashes, and foundation if i'm out and about. I lead a rather low energy existence & love it. On cam I'm giggly, bouncy, extra high energy, wear heavy make up, and am quite the exhibitionist. I work token sites and I knew going in that my normal personality wasn't going to work for a chat room style cam site. Normally I chug a red bull or 2 before I log on & when I start crashing, I log off. It has worked for years & because I get to be my bratty grump of a self in clips or during intermittent fetish privates, I really don't have an issue balancing camming and my personal life. Sure there are days I just want to be myself, but I know I wouldn't thrive in a free chat environment if I did.
As far as wardrobe; I do like tight clothes a lot, but there's no way I could get away with the amount of cleavage I show on cam in a public setting :p
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I have extreme social phobia, so I am not really my genuine self when around people unless it's family or people one on one.
I can actually be my quirky, fun & genuine self on cam which is nice. Usually, in public or in groups, I'm perceived as the 'awkward, weird' or even 'stuck up' girl because I don't talk much and try to avoid.
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I'm me on cam. Im not paid to be an actress, Im paid to do sex acts. I found out people like the real you better than a fake version any day.