What a newb. Doing TOO much for $20
So I finally started dancing the other night after contemplating it for too long. I always said I wanted to prep my body before I got on stage. But the truth is I've barely kept to my work out routine, so there hasn't been much change to my physique. I've read it on here time and time again, that it's the personality that really brings in the dollars and I had to see it for myself to believe it! There are gorgeous girls from what you'd call "flabby" to hard rock bodies in the club but they're mad hustlers either way and seem to do pretty well.
SO I put my insecurities away and got to it. But I swear I'm giving these guys too much for $20 bucks. I'm fully nude by the end of the first song and am basically swaying side to side for starters, bending over and feeling myself, but end up hopping on their lap. Just reading this is making me cringe lol. Ughhh it's hard to peep the other girls during their private dances so I haven't picked up on what they're doing. Like I'm all up on them and am not really "dancing". What the fuck am I doing and what SHOULD I be doing?
Re: What a newb. Doing TOO much for $20
So do you think your insecurity with your body has something to do with how you rush through the dance?
Just take your time. You dont have to immediate get naked and jump in their lap. Especially if they aren't paying that much (if you can negotiate price at your club you should charge at least $30/$35+ for full nude). Also Tease a bit. Practice some moves in the mirror at home, eat healthy, and workout more to boost your metabolism, energy, and confidence.
Re: What a newb. Doing TOO much for $20
Get your body to a weight that you feel comfortable with. It'll boost your inner confidence which nearly always results in more sales. Don't underestimate this!
+ 1 to upselling your dance price if your club allows it. $20 nude dance?? *shudders* lol. Also, try to think about it like this: If a man agreed to buy a dance from you, he's likes and is attracted to you!! We see our awesome bodies every day, but it's brand new to him. Which means that the smallest interactions are a big deal to him. So, avoid the super sexual stuff (bending over naked) at first. Small things will get him going & continuing to buy dances. A whisper or heavy breathing in his ear, pressing your body against his fully clothed, running your hand slowiy up and down his arm or legs, etc. Take off each article of clothing slowly and with flair. You can get to the x-rated stuff as the dances continue. Good luck!! You'll do fine.
Re: What a newb. Doing TOO much for $20
I have this problem too at one of these new clubs I started working at. It gets so packed and we really only have 20$ nude dances and sometimes I can get carried away and stop thinking clearly and will do too much for that 20$ song. I know at this club some girls don't even get naked, some charge double to actually take their panties off, etc. But when it's busy I'm like all over the place and don't even think about upselling and later I'll be like 'wtf was I thinking?'
You can try selling chunks like 5 for 100$ and then slowly get naked thru those 5 songs and not immediately. Or you can just increase the price of a single dance if the customer wants you naked. And I agree with LegoMoney. We are all very critical of our own bodies because we see them everyday and we notice every little detail. But to these customers and in the dark lighting of the club we all look like goddesses lol. Still workout but don't be so critical of yourself and remember confidence makes anyone look 10x more attractive.
Re: What a newb. Doing TOO much for $20
A strategy that's been working with me is doing a tease towards the end of a topless 20 dollar dance by pulling aside my thong briefly (only for a second) and then reminding him that he can have me completely naked for the next song for only 40. I've only started doing this recently, but quite a few guys take the bait.