How the hell do I get the cash?!
Okay so I'm a stay at home mom and I've been looking for part time work to no avail. I stumbled upon the niche of used panty selling and dollar signs cha-chinged in my eyes! How easy right? Well....no actually.
I'm trying to figure out a way for my buyers to pay me without having to expose my identity and its freaking hard!
The thing is, my name is really rare. I have looked myself up on various sites like the whitepages and the like and I am the ONLY person in the U.S with my name. It shows my name, address, and my relatives names.
That being said, I'm trying to figure out a way for my buyer's to pay into my debit account without knowing my full name. Safety is my number one priority and the last thing I need is a weirdo stalker panty sniffer showing up at the door of my home where my child, my husband and I live! It scares me to death!
I know paypal shows my full name so I can't do that. i've heard of getting paid in gift cards but I want the cash money for other things. It's 2015 so mailing cash or money orders takes forever PLUS I don't want to have to pay for a P.O Box. I wanted to sell sext sessions on Snapchat for snapcash, but apparently Snapchat is pulling all accounts having to do with nudity. WTF do I do?!
I was thinking, since I'm planning to sell on a used panty site, to seal the deal on there with their orders and mailing address, and then they would need to get on Snapchat and Pay me through snapcash. With some random phrase like "Thanks for spotting me for lunch!" or something of that nature since I hear the SnapPolice are cracking down and pulling accounts like crazy. I feel like it's a bit of an inconvenience to any of my customer's who are older or just not tech-savvy with apps and stuff. I just need a secure way to get paid but for the customer to not know my name because anyone could easily track me down that way.
Please help!! I'm trying to earn enough to pay for annual Disneyland Passes for my kiddo and I. And as you all know to afford that it's either this or sell a kidney lol:-\
Re: How the hell do I get the cash?!
Try www.cammodeldirectory.com he has a 3rd party biller you can use if he accepts you but I think he only lets it out for cammodels. Or, you can always try getting an adult 3rd party merchant provider like ccbill, etc. Also, if you ship them the guys are going to know which state because of the postage, etc unless you drive elsewhere out of state to ship them unfortunately.
Re: How the hell do I get the cash?!
You could set up a shop here: https://extralunchmoney.com/ or a similar site.
Payment websites you could use are, in no particular order:
https://www.giftrocket.com/
https://cash.me/ (I haven't used this in over a year)
https://www.amazon.com/gift-cards/
There are a lot of good threads about this, not to mention using google is super easy.
Re: How the hell do I get the cash?!
you are coming up with a lot of obstacles for yourself talking about what you can't do and don't want to do. just suck it up and get a private p.o. box in another town and accept overnight money orders.
plus you can accept gift cards then sell them online for cash.
you can also accept visa or master card gift cards - they can be used almost anywhere
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Yeah idk if it would work because I don't do cams :( I'm okay with the guys knowing what state its from, I live in Los Angeles so I could use a post office downtown and that's pretty good for anonymity. I'm definitely going to check out ccbill. Thank you so much :D
Re: How the hell do I get the cash?!
There is no way for you to get 100% of the funds without compromising your bank account information and, by extension, your identity. It's the reason camgirls don't take payments directly. Even those who have their own payment processor through a 3rd party service pay a decent percentage of the transaction to the third party provider AND have to pay quite a chunk of change to set up the payment system.
Go with CMD (as Kortney suggested) for a 75% cut on your first $500 in TOTAL sales each month (80% after). Go with LCMS (owned by our moderator, Loveshooks) for an 80-85% payout.
The site ebanned.com (similar to ebay in layout) is specifically for selling used things like panties/stockings/shoes as well and is third party. They do take a fee, but it keeps you safe. You also want to be sure you get a site that protects you from chargebacks AND your info getting out.
Paypal does NOT allow adult transactions (panty sales count) and WILL shut you down when caught + a $500 or so fine. No fly zone there. Many common payment systems that are popular because of their low fees are the same as PP because adult transactions are considered high risk for fraud/chargebacks and they won't play with it. All of the sites myself and others suggest take 15-20% of the total sale to cover the cost of the processor and risk of chargebacks for you (usually), so that's what's up with the lower %.
Also, if you're very concerned about your info, keep in mind that your town WILL be post marked on the packages you mail (or whatever place you mail them from) unless you use a rapid remailer service (you mail it to the service and they remail it using THEIR address for a small fee). That sort of thing adds up.
Re: How the hell do I get the cash?!
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PumpkinSpicy
You could set up a shop here: or a similar site.
Payment websites you could use are, in no particular order:
(I haven't used this in over a year)
There are a lot of good threads about this, not to mention using google is super easy.
Thanks for the links, I looked it up before but it just gave me crap about greendot and the same paypal stuff I already knew about -__-
Re: How the hell do I get the cash?!
Why would anyone want to buy your panties?
You have to have buyers in order to make sales.
You also have to have a marketing plan & a huge social media following. Which means hot selfies of yourself. So there goes the safety thing & nobody finding out.
Let us not forget about the LAW. Have you read up on the laws about selling dirty underwear in the U.S.? Have you consulted a lawyer. Yes, many do it, but all of them are taking a risk.
It is a FEDERAL offense to sell dirty underwear, it is considered Hazardous material. I have read new articles where it is $1000 fine & 1 year jail time for each pair. The Gov waited 10 years before they went after the girl.
Yes, you can might get away with it for years, but the gov might one day 10, 15 years from now charge you. It would be always a looming cloud over my head, so much so I won't break U.S. Federal laws. After all you have to email them, all emails are read & kept by our gov.
How about trying a part time job at some local store for holiday help. Not much money, but no worries either. Cause there will be countless hours of work on marketing, building a social media persona, answering emails, lots & lots of emails that never lead to a sale. Not to mention money you will have to layout to get a P.O. Box and such too.
Have you done your homework? How much money does someone make selling panties a year?
Men don't want some random strangers underwear, they want someone they desires underwear. That takes a lot of work to become that desire.
NO SUCH THING IN LIFE AS EASY MONEY!
Sam
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I have to agree with Sam. it's not easy and it's a risk. So many girls sell panties with scat and menstrual fluid. Bodily fluid is considered a hazardous material.
Like any adult work, selling panties is about marketing yourself and creating desireability. I see girls advertising they have 100s of panties to choose from. like, girl, these guys aren't buying from you because it's victoria secret. They want ur scent & ur sexiness.
There will always be that chance someone will find out about your naughty side job, you just have to deal with it.
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Yep Sam makes some really valid points. You really are better off going with a vanilla job because that is the kind of money your going to be making. You might sell a few panties at first to guys who want random girls panties but over all they want your panties cause they know you. You could also have a look at the links of this thread.
https://www.stripperweb.com/forum/sh...highlight=eggs
if you still want to get into this area of employment perhaps become a PSO or do sexting. It still involves time developing an identity and marketing it but you dont have to use your own identity, you can do it from home during the hours you have AND its not a federal offence.