Getting a Bad Rating on a Good Show
Ladies,
You get through a show. You nailed it. You go check your ratings...1-3 stars!!! WHAT?! Are you kidding? When the show was 10+ mins and the guy is telling you every step of the way he's enjoying it until he cums.
Has this ever happened to you?
This happened to me back to back this week. I felt odd about it because both guys had 10+ minute shows and both typed and talked the entire time about enjoying himself. One guy was on the phone with me for over 8 minutes.
.....Gr.
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xCamLovex
Ladies,
You get through a show. You nailed it. You go check your ratings...1-3 stars!!! WHAT?! Are you kidding? When the show was 10+ mins and the guy is telling you every step of the way he's enjoying it until he cums.
Has this ever happened to you?
This happened to me back to back this week. I felt odd about it because both guys had 10+ minute shows and both typed and talked the entire time about enjoying himself. One guy was on the phone with me for over 8 minutes.
.....Gr.
This happened to me once. I was SO mad. I watched this guy on cam2cam, did everything he wanted, and he gave me positive feedback on his enjoyment during the show.. then I log out to check, and 3 stars. I just messaged support and had them remove it. I put on a good show and I deserved a proper rating and if not that, then no rating at all. You can send them an email and they should be able to remove the rating(s) for you.
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AlexiaRoss
This happened to me once. I was SO mad. I watched this guy on cam2cam, did everything he wanted, and he gave me positive feedback on his enjoyment during the show.. then I log out to check, and 3 stars. I just messaged support and had them remove it. I put on a good show and I deserved a proper rating and if not that, then no rating at all. You can send them an email and they should be able to remove the rating(s) for you.
Thank you. I just don't get it! I guess I just wanted to open up and see if you ladies could share any insight with me. If I was uncooperative, didn't listen, didn't do what I promised...by all means rate me as you wish. But, if you tell me "Wow! That was amazing!" Hang up the phone, and rate me 3 stars. I guess I just needed to ask...
...WTH?
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Other experiences I've had:
Guy calls me on phone service. He asks if I'm single and if he can have my phone #. He wants to know when is the last time I had sex and to tell him about it. Im super polite and in the middle of a roleplaying scenario (ok..awkward) but I tell him I only talk online through the SM phone service. He hangs up and rates me poorly. --MUTHEREFFER!!!
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Maybe try raising your rates which is what I did when I was having a similar problem back when I just started - I found once I raised mine after I had been camming for a couple months and realized what I was charging was ridiculously low, I kind of got rid of those pesky douches who give bad ratings or are rude in shows. Im not sure if that would help, just basing it off my experience. I think some guys are just douches, they probably want us to have a thorn in our ass over their rating and let it bother us so that we are thinking about them - something we would never do if they weren't paying for our time. The GOOD news is ratings can be removed.
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I always leave the chat screen up and then check my ratings in a separate window. I'll keep the same chat window going for a while, to save chat history in case it takes a few minutes to show up. Also, have a few notes pre-written in the bar. Some I have include, "can you see & hear me ok?" (I ask and post this first thing in a show every time), "sorry, that's against site rules" (whenever they ask something against rules i.e. pee, meet up, skype/PayPal etc). The last one is good for a number of things, so click that and then expand in it verbally. So if they give you a shitty rating for ---- then you can send a screen cap easy peasy and get it removed. Also, if you end/disconnect a show then they cannot leave you a shitty rating or members comment. So if you have a feeling someone is going to leave you a 1* then bait them with a giant sarcastic smile for a couple of seconds as you auto-post your comment and click disconnect. :)
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I'm confused, though, I thought they changed the rules on removing bad ratings & no longer did it??
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whirlerz
I'm confused, though, I thought they changed the rules on removing bad ratings & no longer did it??
They did it for me a couple of weeks ago, so unless it's changed that recently. Also, I find telling them (nicely) vs asking is the key. Ex:
Hi there,
I'm writing to have a bad 1* rating removed please by this member [...] on this date.
* A member was in the show for 1 min 12 seconds and did not respond after I asked if he sees and hears me ok a couple of times
* A member asked me to meet up in person and got upset when I told him no because it's against site rules
* etc
as you can see in the chat history I screen capped and included for you.
Thanks!
Prussia
I think it's the 3-4 * the don't remove and also if there is no proof.
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I am forever getting 1 star ratings in private for refusing to do things.
Not, "fuck you I don't wanna" refusing, but like "sorry, no I don't have a small animal to sacrifice" or "oh, no I can't fit a coke can in my ass while I fist myself, do you maybe want a bj instead?" Type refusals. I make it a priority to be sure my rules are in my room topic at all times, so that when someone takes me private and tries to turn on their cam and demands I do some fetish show for them, and I say "Sorry, I only offer that in exclusive, do you wanna go there and do it?" There's no excuse for a bad rating. It was there, plain as day before they took me to paid chat.
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i got my 1st 1 star rating he took me to pt he was tipping gold to see my boobs the whole time and bottom and he kept askin me to tease him he was enjoying it 30 whole minutes went by lolhe said you stupid slut this was bogus i want my money back lol after i explained to him premiums i control he stayed called me all types of bitches for 5 more minutes then i go see a 1 star but i got over 50 bucks off him so no worries i emailed stream mate and they removed it
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oCURIOUSo
I am forever getting 1 star ratings in private for refusing to do things.
Not, "fuck you I don't wanna" refusing, but like "sorry, no I don't have a small animal to sacrifice" or "oh, no I can't fit a coke can in my ass while I fist myself, do you maybe want a bj instead?" Type refusals. I make it a priority to be sure my rules are in my room topic at all times, so that when someone takes me private and tries to turn on their cam and demands I do some fetish show for them, and I say "Sorry, I only offer that in exclusive, do you wanna go there and do it?" There's no excuse for a bad rating. It was there, plain as day before they took me to paid chat.
Word to the wise: if dudes ask for this sort of extreme stuff and don't seem to be taking it well/accepting other solutions, just ban and move on. Banned members cannot leave you a rating at all. I won't do it if a guy is like 'you do anal bb?' when every part of my profile says no, but if a dude is like 'call me daddy, little girl. Daddy's gonna fuck his little girl real good tonight' OR a string of demanding/abusive text OR refusing to accept substitutions (i.e. pushing on the anal like crazy), then yeah--banning is less of a headache.
As for poor ratings on otherwise good shows, well, story of my life too. Usually because I won't do anal. Or incest. Or put up with being shouted at in all caps with demand after demand like I'm a fucking trick puppet. Just wait until your first 4 star rating--support might remove one of them, as 'a courtesy,' but after that you just have to stare at them like 'motherfucker, what the hell am I supposed to do with you?' My personal favorite *note: sarcasm* is the asshole who left me a 4 star rating last month but somehow had the time to write a glowing review in my comments section. Like, what the actual fuck dude?!? UGHHHH!
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whirlerz
I'm confused, though, I thought they changed the rules on removing bad ratings & no longer did it??
Liz removes bad ratings. I usually send a screen shot of the session, or describe it.
I dont ask for 4 ratings to be removed though. I just ask the next guy to rate me a 5, and give him a vid when he does.
Sometimes when the guy is verbally telling me that he's loving the session, and gives me a 1, I think he got confused and thought it was the highest rating.
*Remember, guys have to stick around and rate right after the session, (right after they've cum),
so in most cases they probably aren't thinking clearly, ya know what I mean?
The guys who love it and give a 3, can fuck off! I block them the next time they enter my chat.
*I have a saved text that tells them that If they stay 5 minutes In private, And rate a 5, And Write a comment, I will Give them a video.
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Yeah, this happened to me twice, once an inexplicable 2 star rating (which I had removed), the last one a 4 star rating after a decently long show where the guy came, ehh, like a ... fountain. I figured it wasn't worth trying to get it removed since it's ostensibly a "good rating". Well, 4 stars is a good rating for a movie review but on Streamate where 5 stars is the average it isn't. Maybe that's the part they don't understand. I'm like, "I made you cum, and you... you betrayed me?!"
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I made notes on the accounts that rated me poorly. Ban ban ban!!!!!
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It happens when I Was working on cams I did a show over an hour. first time I discovered I Could squirt on camera. then the guy bought another 1 hour show instantly right after that I was completely exhausted but I did my best and went on with the show.
Then I get an email from cams saying the guy wants a refund. I was completely upset. Sometimes it just happens the internet gives trolls a lot of annoying fake power.
If your are doing your best, and your rates are at a comfortable level, you can't worry about every low rating they just happen.
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You know, off topic somewhat, but I've gotten frustrated when asking guys to leave a rating & they leave..nothing. I remind them, & they just log off & that's it. :(
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whirlerz
You know, off topic somewhat, but I've gotten frustrated when asking guys to leave a rating & they leave..nothing. I remind them, & they just log off & that's it. :(
Lol! I get frustrated by this to at least 10 times a day, When even great regulars Say they will leave a rating, And never do. Oh well the mind of the penis is stronger than the brain.
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It's just so annoying sometimes. Somebody downrated my stating that I didn't use audio in our private session even though I did (we talked for about 10 minutes during the show). Ban!
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I got a 2 star rating today and have sent a message to have it removed. There was no reason for that guy to give me a 2. Grrrr. Now my average rating is at 4.91 and i"m worried about my 5 stars dropping off my main page....
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Susperia
I got a 2 star rating today and have sent a message to have it removed. There was no reason for that guy to give me a 2. Grrrr. Now my average rating is at 4.91 and i"m worried about my 5 stars dropping off my main page....
Can someone verify when your 5 star rating drops to 4? Is it at the 4.89 mark? Or even as low as 4.1? Thanks!!!
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Just remember there are alot of haters out there. Especially if you make it to the top rows. Cam models. their friends, their customers , AND their studios will pull this shit. Why? They perceive you're fucking with their money. People get STUPID over $$$$.
It's also a way for them to make you raise your rates so you're not so cheap.
But have no fear. Raise the rates and you will work less for a better clientele.
Sound paranoid? Perhaps. But I think not.
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I never even look to see if they rated me or left a comment. Constantly onto the next guy & next sale. Just like they have moved on after orgasming & logging off, so have I.
What I can tell you is that men rarely read. Nor do they look at comments or ratings before getting a show. It is either you get them hard or they move onto the next one who does.
Never let these guys think they have any power over you with the ratings or comments section.
It is unrealistic to think you can make every guy happy. Then I think they should be jumping through our hoops to keep us happy. :) I focus on the next sale, next guy, the next day, the next outfit, next hair style or redecorating my room.