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Well, I rock 24/7 LOL
Men are NOT picky. Men dont look a someone over find a flaw & say "NOT good enough for fucking" Ones who do hate, hate EVERYONE, most of all themselves.
For the most part men don't expect us to live up to some fashion magazine or playboy magazine photoshopped image. How many of them could pass that test? Do you look a man over, find a flow, like chubby tummy & not date or fuck him because of it? Men are way more grateful for sex than to disqualify anyone for Not being PERFECT.
Men have a way of thinking sensable when it comes to maybe getting laid. Hold out for Miss Perfect & she never comes along in his life or getting fucked or having a chance with Miss Not So Perfect.
Some of the richest females in the world that married several rich men to get there were not perfect by any means. They did have personality.
This is a sales job. Looks get you in the door but doesn't close the deal. If you aren't sold on you then how can they be?
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Lexxiroth
I have to admit that I AM self conscious of my body because of certain things I've dealt with, even though I have really been drawn to camming. I'm not sure every cam model that came before me was amazingly confident about their body every day of their life but rather appeared to be, at least while they were on cam. "fake it till you make it," I suppose. Lol.
I'm hoping to change my lack of confidence because I have done a lot of studying up about camming and one of the only things that holds me back is my own view of myself. Anyways, a lot of you made a very good points, especially about a woman's looks being only one of the many components that go into being a successful camgirl. Thanks a bunch to everyone that responded and was courteous about it, I appreciate it a ton. Really.
When I first started camming I absolutely hated myself naked, I hated my tits, I hated that I wasn't skinny, I would drink just before I got on cam to get some confidence.
8 Years later, I'm making decent money and it's all about the confidence, at first it sucks, yes but you need to find your niche and roll with it. Guys like my tits and ass, so I rock them, and Im hella confident about them now even though when I started and got the dreaded 'sockball in tubesocks' comments it would make me log off and cry. Who would have thought the one thing I hated about myself the most turned out to be a large part of my success? Thanks to my tits I grew up hating I now have the comfort of being a stay at home mom, working from home, making a decent income!
You'll always get guys that don't like you, and you'll get guys that love you. Its how YOU handle them that makes the difference. Focus on the good ones, fuck the ones that don't like you, they're not important. You have to have thick skin being a cam girl for a living.
I still get days where I'm not 100% confident and it shows in my earnings those days, and I kick myself for it later. Sometimes it doesn't matter how long you've been in the game, you'll still have days where you feel subpar, its all a mental thing. If you can wrap your head around your the best f'ing player in the game, you'll sell it, and they'll buy it, and you'll bank. Period.
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When people ask if I have your kind of tits, I always send them your way. You are amazing! AND I LOVE THE PISS OUT OF YA!
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audritwo
When people ask if I have your kind of tits, I always send them your way. You are amazing! AND I LOVE THE PISS OUT OF YA!
Aww thanks babe. Love you too you're awesome! <3
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I'll pitch in on this one too. I'm a divorced 41 year old with and "ish" body who started caming at 38. I started in a studio and I remember the owner telling me "you can make money on cam, I mean you'll never make what a hot 20 year old would, but you could do okay". Who knew? I can totally support myself on my caming income and all I do in free chat is sit on my ass and talk, which apparently my guys like enough to attempt to do shows with me.
Find your marketable asset and run with it.