What to say to that guy that wants to "be with you"
I did a few searches and only learned to "string him along." That isn't working very well. He is insistent about seeing me outside the club. Anything new I could say or do that hasn't be mentioned? I want him to keep coming in, but I don't know what to say to do that. I have already told him that I don't know him, so he said then we should, I told him I was busy, he said he will let me make time. I really just want him to come in the club, any advice?
Re: What to say to that guy that wants to "be with you"
"bye!"
seriously, its not worth it, its just going to wear you down until you break and its not worth it. if you have your mind made up, stick to your guns and tell him flat out you will only see him in the club, take it or leave it. he can choose whether to continue seeing you or slink away and find somebody else to fall for his mind games.
Re: What to say to that guy that wants to "be with you"
In a way I was gearing toward that. Thanks for the advice. He seemed like a good thing at the time... Darn tease! I guess I was hoping there was some magic thing to say/do that work that magic ;)
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I always say IDK well have to see how good u are or idk if you can handle me I'm really high maintenance or i just keep saying idk well c, lets go to vip, they eventually get it n stop
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You'll find a good regular! There really nothing to do but maybe keep pulling til be gets the hint. I do this all the time. " I like to get to know u" or " lets have some fun first . with a wink" if he have a lot of money and worth it. I got text now, and keep touch and text to him like " let have fun and party ;) " if he too pushy then a big F you 2 works very great
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^^^^ What she said. Is this just a customer at the club or an actual regular that spends money on you? There is a huge difference. If its the latter, you might do well to string him a long a little bit with texts/emails but if he isn't spending a significant amount of money on you then you shouldn't be wasting your time on him anyway,
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Yeahh....I had a regular like this. There are certain types of customers who are smart enough to try and hustle us just as much as we hustle them. Sometimes there is just nothing you can do.
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If he is a good regular, keep stringing him along.
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"You don't have long hair. "
Re: What to say to that guy that wants to "be with you"
This customer seems to have reached his expiration date... better to throw out bad milk then let it sit in the fridge :highfive:.