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Am I too big?
I've decided that things in my life hae to change ... starting with income I live in NJ currently making MINIMUM WAGE and I'm done with the fuckery I want them big bills so I decided to take a shot at dancing ... that is until I got into the clubs my anxiety got so high I started to really criticize myself for no reason at all I'm curvy so when u see most of the dancers and I seen how slim they were I immediately thought wow either I'm a bbw or they're just really skinny compared to me . I guess my whole reason for this post is to get some constructive criticism. .. I know I need to git he gym but what's your honest opinion of me ? Attachment 43708
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You are not too big for dancing! I would say you are thick, but definitely not fat or out of shape. There is definitely a market for thick dancers, and I have seen many of them make bank! You just have to find the right club, one that has girls of all shapes and sizes. And honestly, how you carry yourself and the way you hustle is what determines your money making potential, not just your looks or size.
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Great ass, but you are now an entertainer. How entertaining & fun are you?
Are you a STAR? Which also means hair, makeup, outfits & dancing ability need to be on point. Are you a STAR on stage? Can you out dance all of those other girls? Can you out shine them? Can you make a customer feel so special he comes out of pocket & hands over lots of money?
What are you doing to be the best dancer, best hustler, most money making bitch in the place? What are you doing to build a brand & customer base that brings men in the door just to spend money on you no matter what club you work at? It is easy to give yourself a pass due to a few pounds & such, it is an out not to succeed.
Sam
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Not at all! At my heaviest, I also made the most money cuz I got all the boobs guys and all the ass guys. I can't see your stomach, but it seems like it doesn't matter, at least in mid tier clubs and dives, how thick you are if your stomach is reasonably flat.
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I agree with Eastcoastdancer01. And you can PM me for NJ club suggestions. I've worked in at least ten NJ clubs.
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I think you look great!!!
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Nice booty a tighter defnined waist would really accentuate that. But being real, youre black and its harder for us ebony ladies which im sure you already know. Being top notch kind of makes it a bit easier though. What kind of club are you working in? I see in the pic you have on glasses and a shoulder length hairstyle. Is that how you are in the club?
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It never hurts to hit the gym! Everyone can use improvement!
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it sounds like you got hired so that's aways a good indicator that you are fine. but from experience it sucks to be the biggest girl at the club so it woul be good too tone up or look for a club with bigger girls
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My stomach is reasonably flat , it definitely won't hurt me to hit the gym I just wanted to make sure I do t look like an ass
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No , I currently am wearing weave , I wasn't working at any club I'm going to do auditions sometime soon though
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You should look for an urban club and hit the gym. But with your body type once you start dancing you should try to save up for some surgery because once you get fully into dancing and see the other girls "improvements", you're going to want it, too. You waist is defined already and with some weight loss or sucked, it will be even more defined!You have a great ass so it would be really unfortunate for you to lose that when you start losing weight. You should go for it though! Start at an urban/big booty/thick girl club.