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Fast or slow hustle
Hi everyone! So I'm about 4 months into stripping and the site has helped so much from the beginning haha. But I was wondering, a lot of the advice is to keep moving and hustle fast... But how do you know when you should keep talking and push? I noticed sometimes I'll ask a guy very fast - maybe after one song and he'll say no so I leave. Later on I'll see another girl sit with him for a long time - 10 minutes or so and then he'll do a VIP. I'm sure in some of these cases I was just not what he wanted which is fine, but I always wonder if I had sat down for longer and chatted more I would've gone further... So how do you decide to do a fast or slow hustle? Is it just luck - right time right place? Thanks!
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Re: Fast or slow hustle
Just stay longer. Stay for 2-3 songs instead of 1. That honestly doesn't make too much of a difference. Some clubs are fast-paced while some just aren't. Mine definitely isn't fast so I let them sit and drink for a while and then approach, taking about 2 songs to let them get to know me and want to see more of me.
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Re: Fast or slow hustle
I've struggled in the past with this, I fear wasting too much time with one customer so I barely give them a song or two before moving onto the next. In some cases this might be a good idea, such as a super busy weekend packed with people, or if the customer isn't putting out a vibe that he will spend. However lately I started chatting about 3 songs with each customer (2 on weekends) and I'm getting a lot more yeses than before. I think where I'm at (Portland) customers don't appreciate the feeling of being hustled
I agree with gothicstripper to try and give it a little more time. Good luck!
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Do you suggest VIP after the dance? Always suggest VIP.
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You'll start to develop an instinct soon for who will spend and who is wasting ur time. Def stay 2-3 songs and try to read their body language- if they're leaning towards you, arms uncrossed, legs apart, and feet facing you (feet are an oft ignored indicator of interest. Feet facing the exit or away from you means they want to walk away) then you should press on. And agreed with the above ladies about always mentioning vip and going with the pace of the club in general. And keep reading this site. Even after years of dancing, I've found great advice and hustle tips here. Happy hunting