"Mixed" club girl personality in a urban clubs body
If this in the wrong section,sorry & yep I did a search,not too much.
I've been dancing for about a year now and I realized that maybe I don't make as much money because I THINK my body intimates white customers. Meaning my body is something that would be more in the urban club (34C-26-40 natural not that shot stuff lol) vs the mixed clubs (not saying everybody has a flat ass). I sometimes go back and forth with urban club and the mixed club,but I don't like their management at the urban one (another thread 1 day) and my personality is more of a "mixed" club atmosphere not the stereotypical "black girl". I always speak to everyone & it's like they give me the cold shoulder,I barely get tips on stage & I do pole tricks,smile,etc & it's just hard sometimes to see girls making $ and I'm not. I just get told I'm beautiful all night or I look like a black Barbie. So I wonder,is there anyway to maybe fix something about it? I'm trying to make sense via words. I'm also dark skin & sometimes in my experience that has a disadvantage to me also. Sucks.
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Go try it out at a more urban club! It's sad to say but even as a white girl I am very aware of the ridiculous racism in this industry, especially the darker or "less white" looking you are. As a dancer you just have to find what clientele and type of club you do best at, experiment!
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simone87
Go try it out at a more urban club! It's sad to say but even as a white girl I am very aware of the ridiculous racism in this industry, especially the darker or "less white" looking you are. As a dancer you just have to find what clientele and type of club you do best at, experiment!
i'm glad you see it also,I'll try another urban I guess.
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OP, What city are you in?
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I would consider maybe trying a different mixed club. Especially because you feel you have that type of personality. It's more difficult to completely change your persona compared to trying some different looks or ways of approaching customers. Honestly, I don't think your measurements sound too extreme depending on your height.
I work in a mixed club and the handful of black girls I work with bank.
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Gia2608
OP, What city are you in?
Lafayette,louisiana