Does anyone else do cam work and contact sex work? Do you keep your work identities separate? How careful are you about it? Why do you take that approach? Are there any other threads on this topic anyone can point me to?
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Does anyone else do cam work and contact sex work? Do you keep your work identities separate? How careful are you about it? Why do you take that approach? Are there any other threads on this topic anyone can point me to?
I use to ..
I had my cam name and my provider name. my dancer name was my cam name .
It really depends on what you want to do you can keep them separate but it doesn't mean it will keep yourself hidden.
I would get people who knew me from camming asking me about it on ISP dates and then I would have guys asking about ISP dates while I am camming.
You just need to know when you are camming, you act according to the website rules. You need to do whatever you can to keep your job in tact.
Thanks minniesporno! I knew some users had before.
My biggest concern is related to anxiety and "people" recognizing me, like my boss at my day job or my landlord or the men that work in the convenience store and then treating me different – I get somewhat anxious when I get hit on with a high frequency, especially from specific authority figures. I'm not so so worried about my family or social circle finding out, no one will be surprised. I am also in Canada, legally things are a little different for clients, so I also worry about their concern for discretion.
I am thinking I am going to do my best to keep them separate, but try not to stress about it too much, and not get too concerned if one or two people make the connection. I don't mind so much if people from camming find out I'm an escort because I can just ignore them, it's more the people who see my escort ads finding out I also cam.
When you decide to put yourself online you become a target there is no way of knowing when someone will find out about you. it's a lottery with unpredictable odd
You basically have to make the decision to do it or not.
if your doing it you have to be ready to handle the consequences that may or may not happen.
Yes I've lost jobs in the past and honestly it was a blessing those jobs were not worth my time anyway and what I am doing now building a business using the internet and keeping my past and having a life I love is way more worth it and fulfilling.
You have to look at your end goal what do you really want for yourself and what is really going to get you there and also who do you have to become to get it.
Your escort ads you can hide your face a lot of escorts do that. I didn't because I was already on the internet doing hardcore porn.
I saw it as well I am already fully naked on the internet why do I need to hide myself in my ads. I am not escorting anymore I left it for other stressors that affected my ability to work.