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Daddy/daughter fetish. Thoughts on this?
I had a guy yesterday asking to take me private, but he wanted me to pretend to be his daughter, I really don't like this fetish, but it was slow, so whatever.
Then he asked how old was I, I said 24 and he said "Can you pretend to be half of this age?"
I started thinking and got a little creeped out and kicked him from my room.
So what would you do? Is this a normal request?
Have you done it?
What are your thoughts on a fetish that includes a minor in the roleplay?
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Re: Daddy/daughter fetish. Thoughts on this?
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Re: Daddy/daughter fetish. Thoughts on this?
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Originally Posted by
ericarouge
I had a guy yesterday asking to take me private, but he wanted me to pretend to be his daughter, I really don't like this fetish, but it was slow, so whatever.
Then he asked how old was I, I said 24 and he said "Can you pretend to be half of this age?"
I started thinking and got a little creeped out and kicked him from my room.
So what would you do? Is this a normal request?
Have you done it?
What are your thoughts on a fetish that includes a minor in the roleplay?
Okay so I'm gonna assume you're talking about Streamate, which (like most sites) does not allow any underage/incest roleplay. That is a non-judgmental comment, just the truth, so be careful if you go that route, cause you run a high risk of account suspension. There's a couple of threads that address all these topics but here's my two cents:
I work on Streamate and I do Skype shows through CMD. I am blonde and nineteen and despite my couple of facial piercings, I look very young - I would say these requests are about 60% of what I get asked overall on both sites. Personally, I do not have an issue doing this sort of show on CMD (where incest/age roleplays are allowed as long as it is established as fantasy) and I often do. I also make Daddy/daughter roleplay videos but I never play underage in my porn. However, I have zero relationship with my father and it does not personally strike close to home with me. Incest/ageplay also happen to be big kinks of MINE and because of that, I understand the separation between fantasy and reality and generally trust that peoples' fetishes are not representations of who they are (i.e. into a daddy/daughter roleplay does NOT equal actual pedophile.) But there is definitely a difference in a guy coming in and saying "will you do a daddy/daughter roleplay with me" and a guy coming in and saying "talk to me about fucking my daughter and tell me to do it" (I have gotten both and instantly blocked the latter.)
Bottom line: Do what YOU'RE comfortable with and just be aware of the rules on your site(s).
Also these are just MY opinions. I know this has been an extremely controversial/dividing topic on these forums in the past.
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Most sites don't allow incest roleplay, but allow it if you use step-relatives instead of actual relatives. My general rules for that if I'm on a cam site are to use step-relatives in the roleplay and I never age play under 18. I don't think any sites allow you to roleplay under 18 either. I'm a bit more loose with the taboo stuff when I'm doing indy camming but I still never age play under 18. I have a regular who wants to pretend like HE's underage but he knows that I don't allow this and he respects my boundaries.
Also, don't do stuff you're not comfortable with.
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I do ageplay, but I refuse to state an age under 18. If asked what age I'm happy to play, I'll say "schoolgirl"... if they press for a specific age... "It's not allowed to play under 18 on this site".... if they keep pressing for an age then they're obviously too stupid to understand that I'm not going to state I'm willing to do something which is against the rules of the site, then they're not the sort of person I want to do a show with.
Most guys who are legitimately into age play (as opposed to anything dodgy) understand that you are an adult playing younger, and don't request a specific age. I do get a little creeped out by the ones who keep pressing to hear a certain age, even after I tell them it's not allowed.
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I'm not sure what site you are on but underage/incest role play is not allowed. Make sure you read the code of conduct. It's not worth getting yourself permanently banned just because it's slow.
I don't do underage/incest role play. I find it wrong and not okay with it in any setting so I won't participate in that sickness.
That's my 2.5 cents and I'm sticking with it!
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Re: Daddy/daughter fetish. Thoughts on this?
It's not 'normal' (whatever that means) but it's not unusual.
Send them my way, I'll happily take their money.
... within the bounds of the websites TOC, of course... xx
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Incest roleplay was always a big NO NO for me. But a daddy/daughter roleplay with 12 years old it's sickening, sorry fo those who like it, I just do not think the guy is "normal" to ask me to pretend to be 12 years old
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I do Mummy/son roleplay. It doesn't bother me, it's a form of Dom/sub. I also love AB (adult baby) roleplay. The one thing that I DO draw the line at is if the guy wants to talk about stuff that seems real. Like how he gets excited by his children, that type of thing. I do age play and incest play/chat and don't have a problem with it as it's just fantasy, BUT I have clear boundaries that do not get crossed and I don't allow to be crossed. The guy must not lead from fantasy into reality, or the show gets stopped and he gets banned.
My train of thought isn't flowing very well.
I only do this taboo stuff on AW. I do not risk it on SM and am tight with keeping to their rules, and will ban anyone who tries to lead me into it.
If you don't like this fetish, don't do it, no matter how slow it is. Stick to your boundaries. That guy pushed for something you don't do, so was disrespectful from the off.
(fuck, the site wouldn't let me post!!)
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I'm a younger-looking submissive so I do a fair amount of it. It squicks me out a little but I'm of the "if not me someone else will, get the $$" rationale. It is definitely not for everyone.
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Re: Daddy/daughter fetish. Thoughts on this?
As someone who is very much into dd/lg IRL (I call my husband "daddy" and he is 20 years my senior), I love doing it on cam because it comes naturally.
It's not difficult to tell the difference between guys who like adults that like ageplay, and guys who are attracted to 12 year olds. I find that generally, if they're not flexible about a particular aspect of the show, it's not roleplay for them; it's about their daughter.
I've done dd/lg on SM when I probably shouldn't have, but I don't anymore. Not worth getting kicked off a site. But the ones who are flexible and not creeps, are flexible. They shouldn't be insisting on being called "daddy" if you're otherwise acting the part.
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Oh hell no! You have to be the dominant one in your dance. And not let anyone to get weird. I was very naive when I started in this biz bc I didn't know any better. You can't let guys get away with this crap. I find this very disturbing. And I also find it disturbing that others think that this behavior is okay.
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I mean, I personally can't. Like, my dad is actually my best friend in the world and I just can't separate that role play from thoughts along the lines of 'oh fuck no.' It squicks me the fuck out and I personally find it to be super creepy/wrong. That's just me of course. Y'all can have my incest/ageplay dudes forever and ever and enjoy that cash.
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I am super comfortable with the incest, but not ageplay. IDK I just get that it's more the taboo situation than wanting to really do anything obscene. I do a lot of step-family member shows on SM, and rarely get asked for ageplay. I think being a 34 bbw I just don't look the part of being younger. In a fantasy scenario it just doesn't bug me. Maybe that is because I am the black sheep of my family anyways and never really had a relationship with my dad. Sex workers with Daddy issues hahaha!
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Originally Posted by
beauvoir
It's not 'normal' (whatever that means) but it's not unusual.
Send them my way, I'll happily take their money.
... within the bounds of the websites TOC, of course... xx
How would you do it within TOC though? I don't think any cam site allows daddy / daughter do they?
I see it on c4s but have never seen a cam site that allows it. Come to think of it, wonder why their billing provider allows it at c4s? They won't allow a domme clip of mine that said "force a man to cum till he cries" but will allow daddy daughter which is odd to me.
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jculp90
its a big fat no for me
Second this. I would never. Instaban from me.
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The fact that he was so specific about a young age (12) makes me think he was a legit pedo. It's creepy as fuck. Insta-ban. And a great lesson on never doing shows that you are uncomfortable just because it's slow. I think we've all been there before (I know I have with another fetish). Now you firmly know what your boundaries are and that it's not worth the potential ban or suspension from the site/icky feelings.
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No problem at all with taboo like this. So long as he's not on cam with a kiddy, going into any great length about kids he knows, or asking about mine etc then afaik it is just a twisted fantasy. One I happen to enjoy actually. I love the twisted ones. I never say ages or say daddy or anything like that, i just act cute and keep THEM talking about it :D
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Hell no. I don't do the whole "daddy" thing. When guys come into my room with "daddy" in their name, I roll my eyes or ignore them. I have a dad, thanks. I don't have daddy issues, thanks. I'm not looking for a dad. I can take care of myself, thanks.
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Maybe it's cuz my own dad isn't a huge part of my life, but I find it incredibly easy to separate this in my mind. I do it all, where it's "allowed" (Nothing against SM's TOS or anything but on indy cam etc) because I guess I understand the fact that the mind is twisted and that desires like this don't manifest because an individual wants them to, it's embedded in their DNA in my opinion and I'd rather they paid me to act it out than they ACTUALLY did it, and I'm just gonna go with the idea that almost 99% of what we do as cam girls is fantasy. I don't think most of my subs go to their wives and admit that they want to lick some other dude's cum out of their pussies or demand to get their tiny dick humiliated while they jack off, but we're okay with the idea that all other avenues are a fantasy except what we can't see ourselves... I feel like part of my job as a cam girl is to accept other people's sexual desires without judgement. That's part of what they pay you for.
The MORAL of the story here is: Dont do what you aren't personally comfortable with and send all your daddy/daughter, mommy/son lovers to me, I'll take care of them.
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Most sites do not allow incest period and I don't know any that allow underage play. In my opinion its kinda fucked up to want to fantasize about a family member. You can pick anyone in the world and you pick a family member. I had this guy that used to call me and want to talk about raping a 13 year old. I blocked him on so many sites and than last week he's back under a new username. He cant seem to get the clue so I reported him to the site.
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Re: Daddy/daughter fetish. Thoughts on this?
When a guy asks me to call him daddy I usually do, even though I think it's kind of creepy. If they asked me to pretend I was their daughter I wouldn't. But if a guy just wants to be called daddy, I think it's kind of more like sugar daddy or master type thing. I'm actually confused why men even like that or what it means.
Any thoughts on that? I'm not trying to break rules or do anything incest related. I've had some big spenders who like being called daddy.
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Personally it's not my thing & generally the thought kind of grosses me out.
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Someone22
If they asked me to pretend I was their daughter I wouldn't. But if a guy just wants to be called daddy, I think it's kind of more like sugar daddy or master type thing.
I've never had a sugar daddy who actually enjoyed being called Daddy. Maybe I'm in the minority, but I've run across it way more on cam than I ever have IRL.
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Originally Posted by
Someone22
When a guy asks me to call him daddy I usually do, even though I think it's kind of creepy. If they asked me to pretend I was their daughter I wouldn't. But if a guy just wants to be called daddy, I think it's kind of more like sugar daddy or master type thing. I'm actually confused why men even like that or what it means.
Any thoughts on that? I'm not trying to break rules or do anything incest related. I've had some big spenders who like being called daddy.
Its more to do with power balance than sugaring. Dom/sub, Daddly/little, Top/bottom, all the same thing just with different titles and play words (etc).