Listing yourself as MILF or Mature??
I know many sites don't give us an option to choose if we are listed in these categories, for example SM puts you in both at age 30. But on sites where you do have the option to choose to be MILF and/or Mature, I'm not sure when it makes sense to choose these categories. I'm turning 32 next week, and I've been slightly heavier in the past, so if you look at my body, there are some mild indicators that I could be a mom. On the other hand, I'm pretty open about the fact that I don't have kids. I think mom/step-mom/MILF is a very popular category, but I don't want to get blasted for not being authentic.
1) If you don't have kids, is it ever ok to list yourself as a MILF?
2) At what age do you think it's appropriate to list yourself as a MILF?
3) At what age do you think it's appropriate to list yourself as Mature?
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In my opinion...
1) yes, after 40
2) 40
3) 40
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I happen to have a child right now but I have been called a cougar most of my life. I think that fantasy has surrounded me forever. I think we have to remember we are living in fantasy land and so it is perfectly acceptable to call yourself a MILF if you would like it to be part of your cam persona.
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I also agree that the age cut of should be 40, not 30 or more to do with the age of the woman. The term should not be slapped on someone because they are 30 years old. I am in my early thirties (shhhh!!!!) and get mistaken for early 20's all the time, esp. in broad daylight when I have no make up on.
FYI- both of these women are the same age:
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Granted it may be an unfair comparison as as one is a pro shot, my point is that if you feel like you want to label your self a MILF it should be your right to and that 30 is not some invisible line where a woman morphs from nubile to maiden because she crossed over.
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True I am 35 and get ID'd even for lighters haha
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It's in the ATTITUDE and not the numbers.
If you want to try to stepmother/mother, give it a try. I'm in my 40s, never had offspring (wouldn't know the first thing about kids) and I get loads of requests for mummy roleplays. Likewise, I've never been a schoolteacher or a dentist but those are popular requests as well. It's the predatory/dominating/age difference aspects of mummy play that men enjoy.
I list myself as Mature/MILF and I'm small and got asked for ID until I was 40. If you look at popular porn models who are in the MILF category, they appear to range in age, appearance and I bet many do not have children. Seriously, if you can work it to your advantage, it'll be useful.
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I'll be 35 next Saturday. When I started I billed myself as a milf. It actually made guys angry. I'm very thin and kept being accused of being inauthentic. Even after showing my c-section scar and my ability to lactate, they still argued I look 22and there is no way this body popped out a baby (I've had 3!) anyway, I got frustrated and decided to change my age to 28. I still do lactation shows, but most men don't seem to make the connection between that ability and actually having a child. Lol. It's a great niche if you can make it work for you, maybe I'll try again in a couple of years if I'm still camming.
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Agree with Lark, Violet, etc. It's all about the fantasy, I don't think being authentic counts for anything as long as you LOOK the part. In my opinion, Mature just means womanly/fully-developed (as opposed to girly). I.e. Adele, who is in her mid-twenties, would be Mature to me as opposed to Taylor Swift, also mid-twenties but much more girly than womanly. So if you're a well-developed husky-voiced 32, you'd totally be great in the Mature category.
MILF seems older. If you think about the MILF fantasy, it's usually teenage boys wanting to fuck each others' moms, which would put them in the over-40 age range.
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I'm 28 and people call me a MILF. I don't have kids but statistically, women my age usually have kids by now. I just market myself as a housewife.
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I'm over 40 and I see MILF being more of a misinterpreted younger girls game, like, I would have kids, not kids who have moved out of the house. Personally I don't like either category because it just encourages shit ball "young dicks" to try and blow the cobwebs off my pussy by "pounding me all night long" aka, fuck as hard as I can until my arm hurts for 2-7 minutes. Yep, no thanks.
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I'm 33 with an almost-teenager, and the few times I've been called a "MILF" it was just weird to me. I still get carded at karaoke bars. I went with my son trick-or-treating one year, and this lady answered the door and was like "Aw, are you taking your little brother trick-or-treating?" LMAO.