Ex being a dick, now my cam day is ruined
I was having a great day. Even though yesterday was pretty damned slow, I got a lot of new followers and had some really good private shows. I got an amazing nights sleep, and was very ready to start my day camming when my ex husband sends me a text telling me, once again, he can't take the kids on his weekend. Not only does that completely crush them as they only get to see him every other weekend, from Saturday afternoon until Sunday evening, but it completely blows my weekend of camming since my bf works weekends.
When I asked him why he didn't just take them the weekend before if he knew he couldn't take them this weekend, he said it was because he'd just had them the weekend before, couldn't take them two weekends in a row, it ruins his weekend plans.
I'm so sick of him being a shitty father to his children, to the children that HE wanted, then once we had them wanted nothing to do with them. I'm tired of having to explain to the children why they never see their father, and am afraid they are going to start blaming me for it, since I know he bad mouths me around them.
I've been upset and crying since this all happened this morning, tried camming for a bit, but just couldn't get into it so had to log off. I just don't know what to do.
Re: Ex being a dick, now my cam day is ruined
Sorry to hear that hun.... Just be the best mom you can be & support your babies always. If he chooses to loose time spent with his kids, his lost.. & then they get mad when another guy comes around, steps up to the plate & they give him the "dad" title.. cam whenever you get a chance to & when you're in a better mood.. Don't want to be on cam looking frustrated.. Cheer upx
Re: Ex being a dick, now my cam day is ruined
i know I can relate.
Try not to let it get you down and see if family or friends or drop in care can watch your kids while you work.
And your kids WILL wise up and know their father is half assing his fatherly duties.
If he is bad mouthing you to your kids - you should firmly tell him to stop and if that doesn't work then hire a lawyer and put a stop to it. He is not allowed to do that. And do your best to be the bigger person and not stoop to his level.
Also DOCUMENT this! You never know when you need leverage when he tries to get custody to decrease child support or some other games dudes like to play. Then you can be like 'nope you can barely handle the time you do have so you don't get more until you can redeem yourself'.