What do you do When noone is talking to you?
Okay so i've been a camgirl for 4 years now and I still haven't figured it out. When my room is empty or there is a few guys there, but they aren't really saying much to get a conversation started, what do you do? I've tried "pretending" to talk to people who aren't there, I've tried just surfing the web on other pages, but these things don't really seem to draw in anyone new to the room lol. Any ideas on things I could try? When i'm jumping around with dildos in my hands I do get like 20 people in there, but damn that uses up my energy fast and as soon as I stop being bouncy everyone leaves...
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That is the answer to this question.
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Start bringing in your own traffic. Social media is a tool.
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I know but they either don't talk or it's all "bet you want my foot long dick in your pussy" and things of that nature and when I reply, it's like instead of taking me private they just try to keep me going back and forth saying sexual things with them so they can cum in the free chat. I don't know how to switch the topic to something they aren't getting off for free from.
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I usually just say free flashes for saying hi. That will get somebody to say something. Then you just set off the flash on your phone. They will either laugh or leave. Entertain yourself by analyzing their names out loud. Do some yoga. Talk about random news. There is always something to do or talk about. That's what makes a successful cam girl...the ability to entertain without any material to work with, literally and figuratively.
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I know but they either don't talk or it's all "bet you want my foot long dick in your pussy" and things of that nature and when I reply, it's like instead of taking me private they just try to keep me going back and forth saying sexual things with them so they can cum in the free chat. I don't know how to switch the topic to something they aren't getting off for free from.
So boot/ban them if they try it in free. Or give them one warning, as in "oooh I can talk about that in private baby". And then boot them if they try again. You need to get tough on the freeloaders, and juggle that with keeping an energy for the guys who *might* spend on you.
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I talk politics and religion, of course.
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It is YOUR room, you set the rules & the topic. Talk about fun things you have done like a fun party you went to, crazy antics, being a trouble maker.
Any guy who tries to talk dirty in free chat, I go in for the hardcore sale. " Take me prvt bb, let's go, only naughty in prvt" Either they spend money or someone else will. It is my JOB to turn them into a sale.
If I run them off, don't care. they r trying to get over on me, so I will just push back harder.
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I generally make fun of the guys who ask for free boobs and guys start talking :)
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You have to trick them into talking. I'll say, "LionMan, I love that name! You part lion? Bet you have one helluva mane!" I'll tell a joke. I'll start a Gold Show. I'll start doing funny, weird dancing. You have to be creative. It's tough.
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I usually do or say something out of the ordinary to get a response. It usually works.
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My go-to thing that only works once in a while but still works sometimes is commenting on their quietness... IE: "Wow, you guys are all so quiet tonight... Must've been a bad day at work." /// "I hate it when you guys are too rude to stop fapping long enough to even say hi!" (Put on pouty face), /// "I'm so BORED, oh my gosh, someone keep me company! What's a girl gotta do?!" LOL, stupid shit like that. The cheesier, the better, I've found (if you can pull it off) cuz if you're goofy and weird and they're shy, that helps them to feel more comfortable talking to you as well.
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- Keep a list of FAQs, and pretend that someone asked you one. Make a note of which questions tend to spark conversation in your room, and use those to get things going.
- Have any interesting traits, talents, toys, things you'd like to advertise, or just anything special you'd like to be doing in private at the moment? Pretend someone asked you about it, so you can highlight things that you don't normally get to bring up. Maybe it will plant a seed, and people will take a new interest in your specialities.
- Split cam. Casting a wider net means more people that might talk to you, not to mention spend money on you.
- Let basics/guests/whatever your site calls non-paying people chat. Never prioritize them over guys that can pay you, but if no one else is talking, why not chat with them?
- If none of the above is working, consider adding a site to your split camming that may not be a great site overall, but has a lot of traffic (paying or otherwise) and a chatty atmosphere. You might not make much money from the site, but at least it will keep your free chat interesting.
- I don't really advocate letting them know that the room is slow, but if it gets dire, threaten to talk at length about one of your non-sex-related interests or hobbies that is especially nerdy or niche, unless they can suggest something they'd rather discuss. Either someone will start a conversation, or guys will actually be interested in your choice of topic, or worst case scenario, no one will start talking, but you get to ramble on about something you enjoy.
Extra tips:
- If you're on SM, use classic chat mode. You'll feel less weird talking to pretend people, and if you don't have enough chatty guys in your room to hold a decent conversation, you'd probably struggle to get a gold show going, so you don't really need to be in party chat anyway.
- Don't do free chat dirty talk! If they try, direct it to paid chat ("I'd love to do____ with you... in private. I'm good to get more intimate as soon as you press the button!"), give an answer that's not unsexy, but a little too technical or intellectual to be jerk off material ("What's my favorite dick size? Well, my favorite dildo has 6.5" of insertable length and is 1.6" in diameter, but I love real dicks in a variety of sizes." It's hard to jerk off to those kinds of statistics.), pretend you just got a ton of questions from other people and didn't see his, or kick/ban if he's really problematic.