Hrrrrm. Anyone have experience with this. I told him to do a findom cam show with me first. I have many concerns about fraud. Should I make him send me his information, so I can make sure it isn't fraud? Or just fuck a bucket of this shit?
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Hrrrrm. Anyone have experience with this. I told him to do a findom cam show with me first. I have many concerns about fraud. Should I make him send me his information, so I can make sure it isn't fraud? Or just fuck a bucket of this shit?
Where did you find this guy?
Using someone else's credit card is pretty dodgy... most finsubs are all talk and no action, the bigger they talk the less they act. I think you should stick to taking his money via camshows and tributes for now.
He found me on CMD. I told him I'd take the credit card info in an hour long cam show. LOL We'll see. I won't freaking USE it. It is probably stolen.
Nope. Nope. Nope. Finsubs can send money on their own. Don't break the law by causing a shitstorm of fraud revenge to come after you. 80% of them are all talk anyway and it will be easy for him to say "someone stolllee it online and went shopping with it!" Nopers.
That's what I thought immediately. How could a person safely do this? Do people do this? I guess being added as a user on their CC, but then you'd have to give out personal info. Nope.
Unfortunately, it lead to a bunch of google searches and reading pages of Findom recovery and other things about doms having a nightmarish experience.
He never got back to me about an hour long show, so I blocked him.
If he never got back to you about the show, likely what the other girls were saying about "all talk and no action" was correct. I wouldn't touch that scheme he proposed with a 10 foot pole! Too many bad things could happen to you!
That's the problem with findom. It's a real fetish for a lot of guys, but a lot of them don't have real money to use for it. Many of them just get off on wasting your time by talking about how you're going to financially dominate or ruin them. If they're a real findom sub, they won't have a problem paying you tribute before discussing anything so that they can prove they're for real. I had many wannabe findom subs try to get me to talk about how I'm going to financially ruin them and go into details and as soon as I mentioned requiring a tribute as deposit before I would discuss it any further, they were gone.
In the future though, if someone wants you to use their credit card, just tell him that you'll gladly instruct him on where and how much to spend with it but you won't use it yourself. That should be sufficient. Tell him to put his money where his mouth is lol.
Findom dudes need to make the transaction at all time. Never accept a cc number. Don't even touch their bank accounts. You do not want to be accused of fraud and be charged of it. If you get any offsite tributes wait 5 business days before you touch that money.
Bad idea!! You have to ask yourself if you use someone else's credit card, finsub or not, what would your responsibility and legal right to do so be? If this guy decides to reverse the charges, or they flag the charges for suspicious activity or whatever other situation that may come up, what are you doing to do? How are you going to explain your situation that you have a finsub that gave you permission to use the credit card after his wife reports you to the fraud department?? What is going to happen is you're going to be in a mess of trouble not worth the headache or possibly worse. There are other ways to take their money. It's one thing if you had an IRL shopping slave to go with you etc but online no way!! The only thing I've ever really entertained is having them hold ID next to their face and take a screen cap for "black mail". But owning their bank info is a totally separate topic.
Totally bad idea. That will easily be flagged as fraud and he can immediately point the finger at you.
CMD guy tried that with me today too, Nathan Eglington . Grabbed his name out of my blocked list.
Nope nope nope. I don't let them do that. It's sketchy. Not only that, but it just feels easy to me. Like part of the domination for me is the process of making them drain their own bank accounts, and then feeling disgusting after they see what they've done- what I've done to them. It's safe for me and traumatic for them.
Never use his CC.
If you have a lot of findom slaves, set up a PO box, make wishlists and make them buy stuff off your wishlist and have it shipped to your PO box.
Its just a big fat no and if you specialise in findom, big box cam or indy you should know this! Credit card fraud is rife! Are you new?
He wants u to use his cc number? He's supposedly your pet so he should be pleasing YOU. Not you pleasing him which many finsubs end up doing intentionally. They're actually very much on a power trip posing as subs and they are on a mission to fuck you over and not pay you