Men have disturbingly sentimental/personal attachments to what turns them on. (Same for women, in some cases.) If you can figure out WHY a man is so attached to a particular look on a woman...That is half the battle.
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Yah, attacking Sam aka one of the most influential and inspiring person on his forum? That'll go well. Beauty is more then just your outward appearance. No one wants to hangout with a perfect 10 if she has the IQ of a potato. Work on the inside as well as the outside.
Not necessarily at all. I've been 258lbs with multi-millionaire clients, and charging $8.99 per min just see me stand up on cam, lol. I had sugar daddies at that size as well and finsubs spending $30k on me. Men with money are no different then men without. Guys all have preferences and we all know that behind closed doors men of all walks of life come out of their shells.
The thing is, though (IMHO) her friends do have billionaires chasing them at 300lbs, they'll have even more chasing them at a healthier size but I'm speaking more for myself. Maybe I'm just greedy, but one of my vain reasons for getting into shape is that I want allllll the monies and not just a select few BBW lover clients.
Agreed. Youth is a commodity anyone can possess. Sure some guys will always like em young, dumb and thirsty for cum. In my 20's I was a chub a lub with more rolls than a Wawa pastry truck. In my 30's I run circles around the 18-24 crowd. Wisdom and experience can be just as sexy as the moronic beauty of youth.
And agree on losing weight. The BBW niche can be lucrative but there's only so far you can go.
I truly believe that yes anyone can bank at any size, but they'll still make more the lower their body fat % is. They will have more clients at a lower body fat % because that is what most men are looking for. There are exceptions to this rule, but if you have more clients, you'll still make more money overall. If this weren't the case, then the top of the stripper food chain wouldn't always be a thin, toned girl. Clubs wouldn't be turning away girls with normal BMIs claiming they are too big. Thin is what sells and you can thank the advertising and media world.
With fetishes, you are banking off a few generous clients and that's it.
Also, if you're banking while heavier, you might be banking because of attributes other than your body shape. It could be your hair, a common interest, your eye color, anything. If you get smaller, you will not only keep those customers, but you'll gain way more due to the thinness factor. You might lose a couple feeder types, but you'll gain way more. Even a toned amazon would still make more if she somehow were to become smaller. Its about size (being tiny) even if toned.
I'm sorry to say, but that's just how the world is. I'm not the rule creator, I'm just being the messenger here. People that control advertising have made the standards for us.
Eye lash extensions! I can't recommend these enough!
As fas as wardrobe goes- buy relatively inexpensive clothing but invest in good handbags/shoes.
Go to Nordstroms and buy a good bra. Make sure the lady fits you. This can change your whole shape. A good bra is important for gals with big boobs.
Amen to that! Most of my clothes are thrifted or bought on clearance but my shoes and bags are exquisite. I can't justify paying tons of $$$ on clothes that I'm shrinking out of anyway. Not to mention, shoes and bags are investment pieces and can classy up any inexpensive outfit.
I get fitted at Lane Bryant every six months. When I worked there, I learned that your body changes even over the course of a few months, so getting fitted twice a year is a good idea. Plus, I love their matching sets!!!
I haven't mastered the art of faker lashes yet. I use the baby powder trick with three coats which does well, but not as well as a good pair of mink lashes I'd imagine.
I literally cannot believe the difference that a pair of fake eyelashes makes...you go from looking pretty to hot in an instant. I actually stack mine now - I wear two to work with minimal eyeshadow, and it makes my eyes look big and bright but seductive.
I only recently started wearing them, and I would *never* go to work without them now!
Foundation is along the same lines. I don't care how perfect your skin is - foundation takes your look to the next level (but be careful about finding the right color, otherwise it'll make you look older). I'm still searching for a great foundation - I'm still stuck in drugstore land - but even the stuff you see at Target looks great in comparison to bare skin.
Yeah too-dark foundation tends to age...go as light as possible.
BTW an expensive haircut can work wonders. Yesterday I was in a coffeeshop & I watched a guy literally be breathtaken by a young girl who came in with flowing wavy hair (that was cut correctly for the length) & spoiled princess girl clothing. He had been eyeballing me before but I was in my usual "don't give a fuck" clothing & lack of hairstyling. Guys notice these things even if they whine & cry about paying for them.
Which small body type do men prefer? Is just being skinny enough or do you need to look like one of those fitness girls?
Flawless skin is my best accessory (which I don't have right before my period, of course). Smooth and supple face and body skin. Moisturized. Glowing. A clean diet and exercise can't be faked.
Get a really good high end/luxurious perfume that's one of a kind and and majority does NOT have. It'll be memorable. I have one I use at work (worth the investment, I don't use cheap shit), that gets me tons of compliments. Men always remember me as that girl that smells really good. Hey, it works for me. Or a really good scented body lotion. Again, high end.
A good perfume should last with a few sprays and not overwhelm the guy. Get a few samples at Bloomingdales or Neiman Marcus, and see which one gets the best reaction.
^In no way geared at Charlie, just something worth mentioning in relation to the original post, cuz I was assuming OP wanted to look best on and off cam.
I'm terrified to use drug store brands on my face. I'm looking into the YSL illuminating foundation. Has anyone here used it before?
Be prepared to brush off the people that will resent your hotness and the bitchy comments.
As a bonus ime experience you also make new friends and cooler ppl come into your world.
Oooh what kind is that? I have been switching between Loving Tan($40ish),and cheap Neutrogena Micro-Mist stuff($12 ish, gets the job done but makes me break out sometimes.Super easy to use though)when I make less $$, but am always looking to try out new brands. Especially organic ones!
Finding the best diet for your body type. I don't eat meat and haven't in almost 10 years, and have so much more energy than I used to. I recently have switched to lots of raw and low carb and have tons more energy. Fat has melted too. Find what works for you!
I'm not fully vegan but I try to avoid dairy while still consuming minimal amounts of fish and seafood. But otherwise I'm basically vegan and I've noticed it! I've been so busy this last 6 months and healthy eating like this was basically crucial to keeping my energy and motivation levels up so I could keep the ball rolling!
Beyond fetishists the biological preferences (for men) are: small waist to hip ratio, symmetrical features, long, healthy hair, red/glossy lips (mimics arousal in the genitals) round butt, youthful, glowing skin, some softness to the belly and thighs (Men don't *usually* like women who are over muscular with a six pack as this comes off more masculine to them)-all signifying fertility and readiness to produce babies, therefore "hot."
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