Amazon gifts and delivery
I had a stalker that found me on skype. He wanted to buy me a gift from my amazon wish list. I really hadn't set it up yet cause I couldn't decide how to set up delivery. The guy kept asking me on skype for 3 months if I'd gotten it set up yet. So I finally started my amazon wish list but only had one thing in there but I did not put in a delivery address yet. One day when he messaged me, I'd told him that even when he did buy something off my list that I would not do the show until the item arrived. So he got mad and said he would spend the money on another model. The same day I got a new invite asking about a show if he bought a gift off my wish list. I have a feeling it was the same guy again tho. Except this guy gave some sad story about he didn't have sex and he was dying and had all this money and wanted to spoil someone cause he couldn't take the money with him. I had 2 items on my list, an ohmibod and a $200 cam with remote (so in all $300 worth of gifts). I ended up doing a small 15 minute show and told him he couldn't have any more till I received the gifts.
Later that night he seen me and my bf on cam and started messaging me while we we're trying to get a gold show started. He got pissed cause I wouldn't answer him right away then he started demanding that I do a show for him with my bf and then started getting really hateful demanding things so I blocked him. Next couple of days he added me under another name and then got pissed when I wouldn't do a show for a gift off my amazon wish list. I had a feeling it was him and he did end up admitting it was him and got all pissy again calling me names and threatening to expose me to my family on face book and trying to say he had my ip address. I figured he was lying and just trying to get a free show and I was right. I blocked him again. Its been a couple of weeks since all this happened and the gifts are still showing under purchased. The whole thing had me kind of shook up tho cause he was my first stalker. I've been scared to put in a delivery address cause I was scared he was trying to get my real name or address. Really surprised that he didn't cancel the gifts tho? Should I set up a delivery address and have the gifts delivered?
Also if I do have them delivered, what would be the best way so I can make sure this creep doesn't get my real name or address?
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It sounds like he was a royal douche and was just screwing you around. I'm almost certain he can't buy gifts for you from your wish list if there is no delivery address. I had created a wish list once that had no delivery address, and a customer brought it to my attention that the only way to purchase anything from my list was for the customer to manually enter an address at check out. I've also had things show up as purchased that the customer never really bought. I don't really know how that works exactly, but I'm assuming that maybe they add the item to their cart, so your list shows it as purchased, but never check it out? Or maybe they check it out, and then cancel it? At any rate, your gifts probably aren't waiting for you in Amazon limbo. If you're going to take Amazon as payment for a show, it is best to take a gift card, but even that can be a little risky. The best way to go about it is to stick with your site's payment processor, and use your wish list strictly for actual gifts.
The best thing to do for privacy is to get a PO Box, and use your cam name or some other fake name as the recipient. You'll probably also want to go into the list settings, and uncheck the third party seller box, if you haven't already, because that could give them full access to your address.
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annikah
It sounds like he was a royal douche and was just screwing you around. I'm almost certain he can't buy gifts for you from your wish list if there is no delivery address. I had created a wish list once that had no delivery address, and a customer brought it to my attention that the only way to purchase anything from my list was for the customer to manually enter an address at check out. I've also had things show up as purchased that the customer never really bought. I don't really know how that works exactly, but I'm assuming that maybe they add the item to their cart, so your list shows it as purchased, but never check it out? Or maybe they check it out, and then cancel it? At any rate, your gifts probably aren't waiting for you in Amazon limbo. If you're going to take Amazon as payment for a show, it is best to take a gift card, but even that can be a little risky. The best way to go about it is to stick with your site's payment processor, and use your wish list strictly for actual gifts.
The best thing to do for privacy is to get a PO Box, and use your cam name or some other fake name as the recipient. You'll probably also want to go into the list settings, and uncheck the third party seller box, if you haven't already, because that could give them full access to your address.
Where do I find the third party seller box?
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Thank you:) I still want to try and get a delivery address in there but I don't want to go thru the po because they won't let me use an alias name. How can I find a mom and pop place? I've googled it but didn't have much luck:( Maybe I am putting in the wrong thing when I try to search? Also can someone recommend a good mail forwarding service please?
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https://www.stripperweb.com/forum/sh...-Delivery-Code
You need to keep telling that dude no. Don't give into threats. If he threatens you again, keep banning him.
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if you think he is stalking you then cut all communication and do not entertain him for a second