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"Shove something in cunt" guys.
How do I deal with them in private sessions without this leading to a bad rating?
In general I don't tolerate bossiness and demanding regarding hurrying up (f.e, when someone hurries me up in private, I just stare innocently at the camera and say, "Are you in a hurry?". Usually works), but when I get one of those guys I freak out on the inside. Yesterday, on the first 5 minutes of the session, the guy was relatively OK-sounding, but then when he said this "shove something!" I simply couldn't control myself, typed "Whoa. You are gross. Good night" and kicked him out of the chat. Naturally, he gave me a 1-star rating (which is something I NEVER get outside of such extreme situations. My regulars adore me).
So what do I do? Or is there simply no way to get around it with these kind of guys and it's better to suffer bad ratings then to suffer them/be nice to them? Please share your experience/opinions on this with me.
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Re: "Shove something in cunt" guys.
When I get these, I "switch off" sexy, look bored, shove in a dildo, and leave it there. No thrusting etc. Carry on looking bored. "So...what now?" I say, with as much enthusiasm as someone who's just been told dessert's cancelled. This usually makes them leave after 30 seconds or so. Guess they finish up and forget about me.
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Re: "Shove something in cunt" guys.
Oh baby, you like it rough, huh? I like it when you talk like that. You know what else I like? I'm going to make you cum even harder with this zucchini shoved up your tiny little starfish. Now shove that in nice and hard for me.
Usually they leave, too shocked to give any rating or they like it and it turns into a dom session.
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I do the same thing hyori does, especially when a guy asks me the biggest dildo to shove up my ass, I tell them, first they have to get something the same size so i can shove it up their ass first, if they can handle it, then I will fuck myself with mine ;) I laugh and have fun with it.
as far as the fast and hard, I tell them that most woman don't come that way, and if he wants me to have an orgasm, then I have to work that dildo the way it feels good to me. I hope that I teach some asshole that not all woman like it fast and hard, and they will take this practice into real life
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I just BAN them. Not the kind of clientele I want. Plus they're stupid as fuck, but not so stupid that they're going to forget to rate you a 1. I don't take chances with my ratings.
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Re: "Shove something in cunt" guys.
my advice and what I do:
don't ban them, don't say anything bad to them..
just try to carry on your usual routine while chatting them up a bit about their request..
kill them with kindness if you can.
it pays off to
1.make them pay for a bit longer (maybe alot).
2. save a bad rating if possible.
3.make them return, u never know they might just like your approach.
4. doesnt kill your mood ( I notice with myself everytime I am " mean" it kind of ruins my mood because u know what, this is MY income , these are my customers and I need to do all that I can to keep both.
also keep this in mind: when they are playing and just being horny, men just say STUFF! they don't always mean it.so try to play their game a little...
big PS: it might help ALOT if you do not show your toys on free chat. this way they do not know what u got and can not make demands for the biggest toy.. save that for your regs or big spenders;)
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Lol thats all of my customers. Literally. shove that 12" until it hits the top. Harder faster. Or I give you 1 star. Now sit on it and ride it.
There are other types of customers?
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I tell them, I don't do big toys and that I'm not the girl for them.
Nor do I worry about what they rate me. Guys don't look at ratings at all.
Keep in mind there are plenty of guys who will give you a great rating to make up for it.
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Re: "Shove something in cunt" guys.
You know how IRL there are guys who will please the woman first , there are also guys who only care about themselves. Same thing on cam. I don`t find it rude, nor gross, is just how they are, they don`t know any different.
I always get that type in my shows, I don`t ban,I`m not sarcastic, I do my thing till I proceed to do what they asked for. If what they asked for is not something I offer I`ll tell them that nicely. No need to be frustrated on cam and yell or ban, they are customers as well, just a different type. You can`t change a man`s behavior and you shouldn`t let that affect your behavior.
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I'd show them my cunt and then ask 'Do you still wanna see something inside this fat cunt?'.
http://i158.photobucket.com/albums/t...pskdr0lzkb.gif
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Haha. I smile and say something smartass-ish like "How about you ask nicely?" LOL.
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Tbh, I usually just shove something up my cunt. Guys who are that pressed for time are not the norm for me, so when it happens, meh, I just do it. I'm here to make money, and to get them off, not to teach them about what pleases me and/or teach them a lesson. I just don't care that much.
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I usually just up the dirty talk and mimic what they want at my own pace without hurting my vag. Works for me. I'd rather them end the session and stop my money for me than me stop my own cashflow. I have a very flexible 'thin line' dildo so he's not going to do much damage and great angles makes him look like he's doing more action than he is, lol.
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Re: "Shove something in cunt" guys.
I just end pvt, or go with the "i dont care just do it" thing - ifi m not too disgusted by the situation, and i really dont care actually.
Once i did the "just put in boredly, dont move, what now" but the "client" just stayed and barked endlessly. xD
Anyway, on this one i died.
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Marina Starr
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Re: "Shove something in cunt" guys.
I just end pvt, or go with the "i dont care just do it" thing - if I m not too disgusted by the situation, and i really dont care actually.
Once i did the "just put in boredly, dont move, what now" but the "client" just stayed and barked endlessly. xD
Anyway, on this one i died :D
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Marina Starr
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Re: "Shove something in cunt" guys.
If they take me to premium and tell me this, I remind them I don't take requests in premium. If it's exclusive, I tell them to say please and I will sit here and wait as long as I have to. After they do, I tell them lets get this cunt all warmed up. Ten minutes of teasing later, I fuck myself.
I also use an 8" dildo. If they Bitch about it being to small. I remind them the average size penis is between 5" to 6".
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Re: "Shove something in cunt" guys.
I do the same thing as Audri if it's premium/private. I honestly don't think I've ever had someone act that way in Exclusive.
It helps to have some auto-text messages saved for demanding customers. All of my saved messages say things like "We can do that in Exclusive" "Please tip for your request" (I only use that one if it's something simple like doing a different position) or "This is a group show. Please sit back, relax, and enjoy watching me fuck myself!"
It also helps to have your rules clearly spelled out in your profile and room topic. And SAY it out loud fairly often. That way they should get the message. If that doesn't work and they still leave a bad review, it's easy to have them removed. I honestly never let the fear of bad reviews mess with my head. Like Sam said, there will be plenty of good reviews to make up for them anyway.
And this is just my 2 cents, but I would really try to avoid calling customers names and being too defensive. Everyone has their own hustle, and I know the "bitchy" hustle works for some people. But I've found that most guys react best to happy, friendly models. My best $$$ days are usually the ones when I'm relaxed and happy. But if that's not your thing, then you do you.
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Nope, if a customer rushes me or acts disrespectful he gets it right back from me. I screen cap in case I get a bad review. I will not let any man treat me any less. I like to think that one less woman that puts up with shitty customer bullshit will make the world a better place for women in general.
In general, true jerks are rare. I love men and their horniness. And the nice/generous ones far outweigh the douchebags.
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Yep, if it's premium, I remind them that I call the shots. If it's exclusive, I do a slow strip tease, shake my ass, dance around. I then look into the cam and say, "That's not the proper way to make a woman cum. THIS is the proper way". I then go on to slowly use my toy.
Fuck that. I'm not doing something that feels uncomfortable.
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hyori
Nope, if a customer rushes me or acts disrespectful he gets it right back from me. I screen cap in case I get a bad review. I will not let any man treat me any less. I like to think that one less woman that puts up with shitty customer bullshit will make the world a better place for women in general.
Exactly. If I wanted to be treated like shit, I'd be on LiveJasmin letting abusive guys disrespect me for 99 cents/min. (or whatever it is), and shrugging it off cuz I CAN'T ban them. Fuck...that. :P
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audritwo
If they take me to premium and tell me this, I remind them I don't take requests in premium. If it's exclusive, I tell them to say please and I will sit here and wait as long as I have to. After they do, I tell them lets get this cunt all warmed up. Ten minutes of teasing later, I fuck myself.
I also use an 8" dildo. If they Bitch about it being to small. I remind them the average size penis is between 5" to 6".
I am so with you on telling them to say please. I'll even tell them flat out that it kills the mood and totally dries me up. It's one thing if it's mid-show and they're in the heat of the moment (I certainly don't say "please fuck me from behind" when I'm having sex IRL) but if they come in all fired up and have no manners... that's a big no-no for me.
I'm so curious as to how you can prolong teasing and dirty talk for that long without pissing them off! :eye-poppi I try to stretch out blowjobs and teasing but I feel like if I don't get to it in a minute or two, they get inpatient and leave. Any tips would be much appreciated!
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Re: "Shove something in cunt" guys.
If you always get 5 star ratings what are you worried about? A one star isnt going to hurt you.
My shows mostly consist of shoving dildos in my cunt. Im not really sure why this would be a problem. Is it because he says cunt? I think it would be really strange for someone to say "shove something in your cunt please". :D
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DeepThoughts
If you always get 5 star ratings what are you worried about? A one star isnt going to hurt you.
My shows mostly consist of shoving dildos in my cunt. Im not really sure why this would be a problem. Is it because he says cunt? I think it would be really strange for someone to say "shove something in your cunt please". :D
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I rarely get those types, but 99% of the time, I don't even use a toy or show my pussy. I'm all about the art of the tease, have plenty of customers to make up for the kind of guy I might get once a week. I don't do auto-pilot and I rarely am about getting me off.
Since I've had some of my custies for over 10 years, shall stick to my methods, as well as you should stick with yours. Never would I waste my energy or their money on a show that isnt me, cant be all things to all men or women, cause I've got lots of female fans too.
Sam
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yeah its also rare for me but teasing isnt my thing. I got famous for being hardcore so I tend to stay with that! But I agree about being on autopilot. I never go for auto pilot I ask a lot of money per min for my shows because I really try to meet the clients needs and I have lots of regulars. Just some of my regulars like to say stuff like "shove something in your cunt" That is their fetish and I play along or if its gone to far I let them know and they are always cool with it. We are just playing roles.
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Originally Posted by
DeepThoughts
If you always get 5 star ratings what are you worried about? A one star isnt going to hurt you.
My shows mostly consist of shoving dildos in my cunt. Im not really sure why this would be a problem. Is it because he says cunt? I think it would be really strange for someone to say "shove something in your cunt please". :D
No, it's more of a "Dude entering a cam girl's room and starts barking orders at her right away" thing. These are often the same people who have the same "Hurry up" mentality as that asshole that fucked over anonymouscamgirl on BongaCams (she banned a rude asshole who told her to "hurry up," and Bonga had the nerve to give the fucking guy a refund).
Unless we're talking about guys who've already been in paid chat with you for a while, and are just naturally demanding like that. Then it's not as big a deal to me because I know he's not just another 10-second ImLive freeloader. But still, the way my personality is set up (I'm not the "Yes, sir, boss!" type) I'd probably still grin and be like "Well can you ask me nicely, baby?" I guess, for me, it just depends on the way the guy is treating me during the transaction. Some of these are absolutely ridiculous, while others just enjoy talking like that and feeling "in charge." Like that former fuck buddy whose dick I sucked...when he shouted SUCK IT, BITCH!," that shit caught me off guard, and I was like "YOU the bitch!" but kept on sucking. Lol.
Obviously, there will be different opinions shared in this thread, which is fine. I just think it's nice when cam girls have the option to deal with members as they choose to, without having to worry about NOT getting paid.
Re: The word 'cunt'...Lol. I don't hear that word often, but I do love it when a guy talks dirty to me. I'd probably have to resist laughing if a guy used the word 'cunt' during sex. Haha. I've had a guy say to me right before sex "I'm owning that pussy," an I thought that was so fucking hot.
Sorry that I went off on that little tangent there!