Re: "Shove something in cunt" guys.
I'm actually submissive and offer myself up for dom, raceplay, taboo and all that loveliness. If they are going to humiliate me, they're gonna pay out the balls for it @14.99 a minute and do it respectfully. All the more reason to make sure you get what you are worth!
Re: "Shove something in cunt" guys.
When I get guys like that I talk it up. I keep the pace that I want and the pace that makes me feel comfortable, while stripping down to playing, but I dirty talk the shit out of them, using whatever key words they give to me like 'shove' 'cunt' etc. 9/10 guys don't even notice you're not going crazy on your pussy when you dirty talk. If the guy is still being a douchebag or being rude and unreasonably demanding then I simply ban. No muss, no fuss.
Re: "Shove something in cunt" guys.
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MsBellaSpanxx
When I get guys like that I talk it up. I keep the pace that I want and the pace that makes me feel comfortable, while stripping down to playing, but I dirty talk the shit out of them, using whatever key words they give to me like 'shove' 'cunt' etc. 9/10 guys don't even notice you're not going crazy on your pussy when you dirty talk. If the guy is still being a douchebag or being rude and unreasonably demanding then I simply ban. No muss, no fuss.
Yep. Also a strategy of mine. I dirty-talk the fuck outta these fuckers.
Re: "Shove something in cunt" guys.
"Agressive" dirty talk is indeed the best way to get them to calm down. I use my filthiest language and milk them for every cent or penny they own.
Re: "Shove something in cunt" guys.
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TheBrownFox
No, it's more of a "Dude entering a cam girl's room and starts barking orders at her right away" thing. These are often the same people who have the same "Hurry up" mentality as that asshole that fucked over anonymouscamgirl on BongaCams (she banned a rude asshole who told her to "hurry up," and Bonga had the nerve to give the fucking guy a refund).
I just think it's nice when cam girls have the option to deal with members as they choose to, without having to worry about NOT getting paid.
Re: The word 'cunt'...Lol. I don't hear that word often, but I do love it when a guy talks dirty to me. I'd probably have to resist laughing if a guy used the word 'cunt' during sex. Haha. I've had a guy say to me right before sex "I'm owning that pussy," an I thought that was so fucking hot.
See the hurry up thing just irks me because.....how?? Ive had guys say it to me when Im just undressing, not stripping or trying to waste their time. Im not wearing some early "Bond Girl" outfit that just falls off the second you enter my private or exclusive! It just gives me a bad taste in my mouth like this guy is broke and this show isnt going to be any fun so Im with AC for blocking that guy!
However the shove cunt thing! I dunno I guess I just know some guys like to talk like that during sex and I am also a sub so I enjoy it to. It would be great if every guy would ask permission for it before starting but some guys dont know that they should and some feel like it will ruin the mood so I just feel like for me its okay and if its not okay for another girl just tell the guy that your not into it. If he is playing the role he will get it and if he is just an asshole he will respond like an asshole and then you can block him! I just wouldnt rule these guys out right away because I have a ton of guys who come in talking to me like this and guys who type to you spend more because typing that shit takes time and they cant wank at the same time! Also, in my experience, they are the kind of guys that like to hang around after he has cum and just shoot the shit and talk.
Just wanted to add that I totally get the "own my pussy" thing! GUSH!! :P
Re: "Shove something in cunt" guys.
I very rarely get this type of request, so I'm not sure how best to handle it. I tend to agree with the "talk about what he wants but do whatever you feel like" method.
I don't personally take issue with the "cunt" aspect, because that's what I call it during irl sex. Actually, "pussy" sometimes makes me giggle, and I find it hard to pronounce without sounding ridiculous.
The "shove" part is a bit worrisome, mainly because I don't feel that it's very descriptive of what either party really wants - in my experience, if the initial insertion involves shoving, things aren't going well, and everyone is frustrated. Of course, once things get going, shoving can be sexy in the heat of the moment.
What rubs me the wrong way about the phrase is really the "something" part. Like, seriously, dude? You don't care enough to be slightly more specific? Not your cock, a dildo, fingers, my favorite toy? Just anything will do? There are quite a few things I could insert in my cunt that I'm pretty sure wouldn't interest him in the least, so I know he doesn't really mean "something." It just feels like he's too lazy to engage in even the simplest fantasy with me, so why the fuck is he even jerking off?