The only funny thing I've noticed the older I get is there are so many 18 to 25 year olds that want to dance with me. I never thought I would have so many that want to dance with me when I'm old enough to be their mother.
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The only funny thing I've noticed the older I get is there are so many 18 to 25 year olds that want to dance with me. I never thought I would have so many that want to dance with me when I'm old enough to be their mother.
I've thought about playing up a "teen" persona but I feared it might attract creeps.
I have been 26 for a while now. It seemed like everyone was 22, 25, or 27. 26 seems to fit and everyone believes it, so clearly I have picked a good number.
I didn't start dancing until I was 23, when I was often guessed at 18-20. I remember dancing at a some bachelor parties, that when I showed up, the bachelor said that he wanted a 'real woman and not kid at his party", lol. I'm short and the drugs I was doing back in the day, made me really skinny.
However, at 25, I started getting curves (not by todays standards), and some photographers I had shot with were telling me to work as much as I could because it was all over at 26ish. I did all of a sudden look my age at 25, though. But the funny thing is; I was able to pass for 25-28 until I was about 47 years old. Even in sunny daylight on the beach! (I did quit the drugs when I was 28, that helped).
So I started lying at 25, just by two years. Kept that up until I was 35, then I became 28. Kept that up until 44. After that, if someone guessed me in my twenties, I went with it, if not , I was in my thirties somewhere.
Unpopular answer but I go with how I look ,or as young as I can get away with..which is around 18/19/20. I find that's the most popular answer and whereas women have been found to like older men at a younger age and then gradually start liking younger men as they get older, men in general have the target age of around 22-24 for women..no matter what age the dude is. It was an actual study they did, so that's basically what I stick to because I'm also annoyed with "you're 28??? But you don't look that OLD"
I find it funny that I'm considered"old" but I get it. Dancing is mostly young women but most of the high earning women I've known have been in their thirties. But I do wonder why there's this idea that everything's over at thirty. Like my tits and ass suddenly fell off on my thirtieth birthday and that was the end of my hotness.
I'm 24 and I can look late 20's or 18/19 depending on outfit and hair/makeup.
I've been 22 for 6> years. I prefer the occasional comment about having my head screwed on straight for my age rather than the backhanded compliments that come with mentioning my actual age.
23 forever and ever. I've celebrated that birthday for close to 3 years on cam and no one ha ever questioned it.
Being a woman older than 25 is bizarre, honestly. Apparently everyone thinks you can be totally bouncy and hot at 24 but once 26 hits, it's all gray hair and wrinkles. Even in my last year of college (I didn't start until I was 24) my classmates were always in AWE that I was 27. They would all say things like, "No way! You look 23 at the most!!" In my opinion though, I look my age, and anyway what kind of difference is there supposed to be between 23 and 27?
I think Candycup is totally right that many women who actually are in their 30s/40s feel pressured to be younger, so when you have so many 39 year olds claiming to be 27, actual 27 year olds look "soooo hot and young." It also blows my mind when real 18 year olds think I'm their age when to my eyes, they usually look like babies.
Anyway, I no longer have a set answer for my age, although I'm rarely honest. I usually say I'm 23 or 24, although I often say I just turned 17 last week and then laugh and say, "No, I'm actually at least 18, so you're not going to get in any trouble," but I also just as often say that I'm 41 and don't I look good for my age?
Men are weird.
When i fist started to cam, i was about ur age, 27, 28. I didnt lie my age at the time, even when i became 34....nowadays im 42, so yes, i do lie, i tell tehm im 36.
It happens to me they ask if im sure im 36, coz i look much younger (sigh) lol
I'm 25. I used to lie younger (21-22) cuz a lot of guys liked to hear you were in school (even though I totally wasn't LOL), but I have a straight job now that is very much a "fantasy" job for guys (think sexy uniform) so I dropped the "I'm in school thing" and started using that as a selling point. Now I tell them my real age or a year or two younger.
I just lied about my age. People do not believe me when I said 30. In real life, a lot of people believe that I am 18 to 22....so let's make them happy. Plus while why not milk it :)
Believe it or not, I think a lot of guys do like older women. I look younger than my age and so I tell guys I'm much younger than I am. Many older guys have told me in the club that they actually wish I was older because they're not in the mood for a young woman. And when a younger man is really into me and asks me out in the club. I tell him I'm older and many times they're surprised. But other times they say that they know and they like older women. I think if you take care of yourself when your in your 20s and 30s you can still dance in your 40s and beyond. And make great money.
I always seem to say " baby, I can be as old as you want me to, as long as its legal. " They normally laugh a bit and move on with conversation.
As far as age and money go, I'm 42 and last year was my best year.
I am in my mid 30s and I feel and look sexier than I did when I was younger. I think nothing is sexier in a woman than one that carries herself with confidence and strength, looks healthy and hot, and knows how to walk really well in high heels. Life experience makes you or breaks you. Younger men are attracted to hot older women. Then again, most men are.
LA guys are the ONLY ones I would lie about my age to, bc those fuckers have a problem with numbers. Especially the 50+ yr old men. God forbid you're 30.... it's "too old" for their taste. Good Lord, those men have a delusional problem. Anyway, once I find out they're from LA I excuse myself. They make horrible customers anyway. Cheap, want the world, and entitled. No fkn thx.
Shit I'm damn proud of my age. I look better in my 30's than I ever did in my 20's with my saggy pancake tits and flab.
im starting to see and feel my wrinkles and puffy eyes coming up and im not really liking it, i looked awesome until few yrs ago, but right now im starting to get bugged abt the wrinkles. also the puffy eyes i dont understand as i dont drink anything and ok, i dont sleep much due to having a baby, but yet, i dont think this is an explanation for that. im proud of my age though, im 42 and i look good considering i had 3 kids and i eat like everything and anything and dont work out at all. anyway, i wouldnt mind going back like 10 yrs when i was 32 and how good i looked then. o well, i just need to live with that, i dont age well i guess..
What a creepy culture we live in, eh? They don't need to know anything. Your real name, age, where you live. Everything is safer when it's made up anyway. Makes me laugh how society pushes women to be insecure about everything under the sun. Especially when boys are cutest in their young/college years lmao. It might also be in your head, since a lot of people seem to like older women.
It's hilarious how older men are so entitled. They're gross and if it weren't for their money, and society being harsher on ladies for everything, they'd be left in the dust. Sigh. L.A. and it's movie culture seems to have a pedo problem anyway, so it's not surprising.