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Being a Cam Model with Dick Neighbors - Time to Move
I don't have parties, rarely have company over, no sound system, and I keep my work 9-5. I also have sound proofing. However, I'm a firm believer if you *go looking* by pressing your ear up to anyone's door, you will hear things that will surprise you and you won't like it.
After having sex with my boyfriend yesterday (no camming at all) I see a note under the door. Surprise slash no surprise, our neighbors currently lost a battle for us to enjoy our deck outside. Since they couldn't pick that bone, the note read
"When you do your online sex show keep your skype sounds down keep your moaning down we don't want to hear what you are wearing for your customers."
the only thing I did yesterday was mess around with my bf. But i am offended beyond belief that my neighbors are obviously standing at my door listening to me broadcast. they claim the sound is going down the hallway, but my bf has walked through the building and cant hear me. I think about my workflow, and for someone to hear pieces of my show you have to be at my door actively listening...you wouldn't be able to hear this by leaving your house or walking by my door.
due to this being the 3rd or 4th run in with my neighbors, this being the most invasive it's time to move.
for the people who think being a cam model is easy - no. This is the most challenging thing I've ever done. It is hard work I pay taxes on. I endorse my work with my face and physical body. I'm not a faceless paper pusher but I'm sure id be more respected for being one. Are you afraid ofbeing ridiculed? Cam modeling is probably not for the faint of heart. You very well might be found out and although people fuck, watch porn, maybe even enjoy cam models...when they find our YOU'RE a cam model, that reaction may not be "wow that is so amazing!" But guess what? You still love it and you are okay with any of these outcomes.
For the people who think it's ok to shame any male or female that doesn't fit a traditional mold and maybe in the adult industry ask yourself how their life hurts you? Ask yourself by investigating their life what you will gain from it? Are they affecting. YOU or do you have your ears pressed up against their door and you hate what you hear? You know what that is? You being a cunt.
And im going to continue having sex in my house and camming until I move
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Do you! Fuck em' but yes, it sounds like it's time to move. Do you do your shows in your living room or something? I mean, it doesn't matter how they heard it- they heard it and can take things up with whomever so just be careful. I'd ignore it. Oh well, you heard me making my money. And? A part of me would knock down their door and curse them out asking who the fuck they think they are but I think it's best to ignore them and keep working like you said you would until you guys can move. My office doesn't share any walls with my neighbors so I'm happy about that.
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I had neighbors that could hear me at my last apartment. I use a Bluetooth headset and am pretty quiet....but they could still hear me. They were an older couple in the late 50s/early 60/. They never said anything but would hustle like bats out of hell anytime they saw me in the hallway...and elevator rides with them were hella awkward because they would whisper and continuously look at me. Who won the moving battle? I did! They moved! Hehehhe
I ended up moving to another country. My apartment is pretty big. But the room I am choosing to use as my "office" is the maid's quarters. It butts up against the neighboring apartment. I can hear their tv or when they are talking in their maid's quarters, but have yet to receive a complaint. I've been in my new place about 10 months now so I am happy to say I have some non-dick neighbors now
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My closest neighbor gives me a dirty look all the time, but then she does it to ALL the neighbors. She is old black & hates all white people. The ndaughter is in her mid twenties always friendly, big smile ask about my cat & worries when she doesnt see him for a while.
Rest of my neighbors male & female are all wonderful. I know they know, cause the all call me Sam, despite always using my real name when introducing myself. When another girl or two comes over to cam with me, we get loud. My bestie guy friend tells me he can hear us coming up the stair well. No one has complained yet. Other than that, very thick walls here. I put up a room divider in front of my door now to help difuse the sound.
Sam
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Re: Being a Cam Model with Dick Neighbors - Time to Move
I'm so sorry this is happening to You.
Question:How did they find out that you cam? Did you tell them?
I'm really not 100% positive that camming from home is legal, so I never told anyone at my last apartment. I know in Los Angeles a law passes a couple of years ago that makes cam performers pay $800 every 3 weeks for the permit.
That being said, I never tell anyone (anymore) that I cam. I had a neighbor at my apt, who would see me at the mailbox, figure it out and decided to come knocking at my door one day. I had just logged off , and he used my cam name! Scary.
I now live out in the country with an attorney who knows what I do. It's so much better this way. He's even told the two old freeloading hags who live here not to bother me because I work for the CIA..top secret. Lol!
It's so refreshing to live where I can cam freely. He even gave me a cam, extra bright lights, and a huge full length mirror.
I'm buying a house because I just can't worry about neighbors hearing me. You might want to consider that. Or maybe to rent a house.
Otherwise you'll be running from apt to apt for the the rest of your camming career.
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Originally Posted by
ggminx
I had neighbors that could hear me at my last apartment. I use a Bluetooth headset and am pretty quiet....but they could still hear me. They were an older couple in the late 50s/early 60/. They never said anything but would hustle like bats out of hell anytime they saw me in the hallway...and elevator rides with them were hella awkward because they would whisper and continuously look at me. Who won the moving battle? I did! They moved! Hehehhe
I ended up moving to another country. My apartment is pretty big. But the room I am choosing to use as my "office" is the maid's quarters. It butts up against the neighboring apartment. I can hear their tv or when they are talking in their maid's quarters, but have yet to receive a complaint. I've been in my new place about 10 months now so I am happy to say I have some non-dick neighbors now
I love hearing that you moved to another country! How exciting.
How did my neighbors find out? Listening to me through my door. Camming gives us ladies/gents the opportunity to live our dreams out. Plain and simple. I might not look like a middle aged business man, but I'm making his kind of money and that means on paper I qualify for cribs next to middle aged business men.
It is also a law in certain states (including the one I'm in) that the right to enjoyment inside your home is not a luxury, it's a right. Someone may not like my religious practices, or my cultural hymes through the door, but guess what? If I'm doing it within time guidelines and within my home, I can do it. If I want to have crazy sex with my boyfriend in the middle of the day, well shit I just might and I can! I want to know how long my neighbors were listening to me to hear "skype sounds" which are likely SM pings...and could hear me spit my camshow flow. Idiots.
The worst that can happen? My building will now know I have an online sex show. My landlord loves me and would only perv out and love me more if he heard I was banging myself in his house.
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Originally Posted by
kortneykay
Do you! Fuck em' but yes, it sounds like it's time to move. Do you do your shows in your living room or something? I mean, it doesn't matter how they heard it- they heard it and can take things up with whomever so just be careful. I'd ignore it. Oh well, you heard me making my money. And? A part of me would knock down their door and curse them out asking who the fuck they think they are but I think it's best to ignore them and keep working like you said you would until you guys can move. My office doesn't share any walls with my neighbors so I'm happy about that.
If I sat in silence and in the dark like these neighbors, I'd also hear my neighbors drop shits in the toilet which I'm sure they hear me do too. I've realized there are people who don't do *anything* in life and view all "work" as peasant tasks.
And in this case, they should take the trust fund and dump it into a private estate where other nonworking class people can afford to live. chances are, you'll still run into a justin beiber scenario with naked chicks, moaning, partying, and drugs.
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Glamourmilf
I'm so sorry this is happening to You.
Question:How did they find out that you cam? Did you tell them?
I'm really not 100% positive that camming from home is legal, so I never told anyone at my last apartment. I know in Los Angeles a law passes a couple of years ago that makes cam performers pay $800 every 3 weeks for the permit.
That being said, I never tell anyone (anymore) that I cam. I had a neighbor at my apt, who would see me at the mailbox, figure it out and decided to come knocking at my door one day. I had just logged off , and he used my cam name! Scary.
I now live out in the country with an attorney who knows what I do. It's so much better this way. He's even told the two old freeloading hags who live here not to bother me because I work for the CIA..top secret. Lol!
It's so refreshing to live where I can cam freely. He even gave me a cam, extra bright lights, and a huge full length mirror.
I'm buying a house because I just can't worry about neighbors hearing me. You might want to consider that. Or maybe to rent a house.
Otherwise you'll be running from apt to apt for the the rest of your camming career.
Say what! In LA? Can you find where it says about this law? I cant find anything about it. That is really fucked up.
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I would be beyond upset if my neighbors were standing outside my door or spying on me. That's so intrusively creepy- huge violation.
Unfortunately assholes do have the right to rent... in some places.
I'm not afraid of being ridiculed because I'm already a walking stigma, a non-conformist. However, I'm no fucking pushover and no one gives me shit online and in real life because I clap and snatch back.
I gotta ask this, are your neighbors ugly as fuck? Looks aren't everything but people that like to start shit with others usually look like shit and feel like shit because confident, secure people with happy lives don't have time to start shit. They ain't got no reason to.
This pretty much sums it up:
http://i67.tinypic.com/wc0dfp.jpg
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So is moving all you will do? you are just going to let them get away with this??????????? this is harassment on their part and frankly you could have been watching a MOVIE and this is none of their business and i don't think is legal what they did depending on where you live.Call a lawyer and find out.Sometimes all it takes is a phone call and they being scared of taken to court and having their asses stripped of some money and that will make them shut up.
Before i even started camming or did anything but my vanilla hobbies and watching sandra bullock and julia roberts movies I had a noisey stalker fucker neighbor- he actually watched me through binoculars and put a note in my mailbox about dogs on his property (not mine) so take my advice - check things out before you run away and just scared to live your life.
Once I contacted a lawyer and neighbor got a warning he stopped watching me and jacking off (most likely) to me sunning on my patio in bikini.And that was before i even knew what camming was and i never even watched porn and reading jenna jameson bio was my only knowledge of porn.
You have the right to live your life unless there is more to what you wrote your neighbors have no right to harass you with notes.Watch it cause next time they slip something else under your door.Take action now.
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Marina Starr
I would be beyond upset if my neighbors were standing outside my door or spying on me. That's so intrusively creepy- huge violation.
Unfortunately assholes do have the right to rent... in some places.
I'm not afraid of being ridiculed because I'm already a walking stigma, a non-conformist. However, I'm no fucking pushover and no one gives me shit online and in real life because I clap and snatch back.
I gotta ask this, are your neighbors ugly as fuck? Looks aren't everything but people that like to start shit with others usually look like shit and feel like shit because confident, secure people with happy lives don't have time to start shit. They ain't got no reason to.
This pretty much sums it up:
http://i67.tinypic.com/wc0dfp.jpg
They're a male couple. Very uptight. Terribly hideous. Probably upset that I have a vagina...in general.
I rent in a mainly owned building so there is already an inferiority complex there. They feel they're entitled to judge renters and now they know I do adult work.
I've actually already seen a lawyer about Harassment from my neighbors for other non camming related issues ...you can catch my drift I live amongst assholes. I want to live my life not be stuck in court. You know what happens when you file a personal injury attorney to basically get pain and suffering? The other party hires a lawyer and investigates my life. They will find that I am indeed a cam model and in court, I wonder if being put on display like this is best for my emotional health. My lease here isn't worth going to court over. That's how I see it. Being in a grey area business creates complexity in court.
It would be interesting in court though. Does cam model deserve settlement for jacking off too loudly while broadcasting online?
But even with a warning, the matter is that it is true I'm an adult performer camming from home. I would hate for a lawyer to feel like a living legend in court to hear me say that and then be up for ridicule.
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Dammit marina I love how you always remind me the haters are so damn ugly
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you basically say that as a cammodel you have no right to privacy and life in your own home
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I don't know much about laws but I would say pick your battle. Your health and well being are more important. If you really want to move, I'd look for a house if possible so you don't have to deal with neighbors hearing you like apartments where the walls are pretty thing.
YES, girl! The haters are ugly and they stay bothered!
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xCamLovex
Dammit marina I love how you always remind me the haters are so damn ugly
So they're gay? The gays are the worst. They can be very diabolical. Not all of them but the majority that I've ran into are just horrible. They are very hateful and intolerant of Transsexual which I am one. I use gay slurs when they get like that. Which is very ironic when they want tolerance and acceptance for who they wanna fuck and marriage equality.
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xCamLovex
They're a male couple. Very uptight. Terribly hideous. Probably upset that I have a vagina...in general.
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This thread has made me very aware of camming in a room across from my front door. I regularly smell my neighbours dinner and TV sounds in the evening. At least I'm surrounded by renters and people in short term serviced apartments
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Marin's the Best!
& I didn't know that a bout gays, thanks for the info!
Anyway, sorry you're going thru this, & wish you the best
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I agree that it's time to move because who wants to live in such a hostile atmosphere, but I would def fuck with them back. Like when they sent the note: "When you do your online sex show keep your skype sounds down keep your moaning down we don't want to hear what you are wearing for your customers." I would have gone and confronted them and been like 'Um I don't know why you're sending me notes about online sex but if you don't stop sexually harassing me I'm going to the authorities.' Just play dumb and act like you have no idea what they're talking about and that they're psychos harassing you, no one can prove that they heard what they heard. Unless they record you which I'm pretty sure is illegal and which you could lie your way out of anyway if you had to. If you should ever have to explain to the landlord why that couple is talking about hearing sexual stuff involving skype coming from your place say that you sometimes engage in virtual sex with your bf(you would obviously be a lot more vague) and that if they weren't spying on you so hardcore they wouldn't know a thing about it. I may be a little psycho though and have no issue with lying at length to someone's face(if I don't know them that well that is), it's like improv.
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Marina Starr
So they're gay? The gays are the worst. They can be very diabolical. Not all of them but the majority that I've ran into are just horrible. They are very hateful and intolerant of Transsexual which I am one. I use gay slurs when they get like that. Which is very ironic when they want tolerance and acceptance for who they wanna fuck and marriage equality.
They are. I have to say they went to great depths to research my partner and me before we moved into this house. Weeks before moving in, one of them followed my boyfriend on Instagram. We took it as a "oh now nice" but when we met them the day we moved in the guy acted like he was too busy and literally would not shake our hand. Hmm, ok for someone with 100 IG friends that's acting a little famous don't u think? Lol anyways within weeks we started getting notes under the door about everything - not using our roof, recycling. Just micromanaging our existence in the building. They had us removed from using our roof, but as of this week we got it back. Coincidentally now it's the online sex show. I have a feeling they researched who I was as well before I moved in. But like I said I work 9-5 less than 25 hrs a week. Imagine if I was on a 5k a week camathon...
It is so tempting to shout my Domme sessions about fucking slutty sissys in the ass. I'm sure hearing me talk about dominating cock will have them vomit all over my door so I can catch them spying on me.
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Genoveve
I agree that it's time to move because who wants to live in such a hostile atmosphere, but I would def fuck with them back. Like when they sent the note: "When you do your online sex show keep your skype sounds down keep your moaning down we don't want to hear what you are wearing for your customers." I would have gone and confronted them and been like 'Um I don't know why you're sending me notes about online sex but if you don't stop sexually harassing me I'm going to the authorities.' Just play dumb and act like you have no idea what they're talking about and that they're psychos harassing you, no one can prove that they heard what they heard. Unless they record you which I'm pretty sure is illegal and which you could lie your way out of anyway if you had to. If you should ever have to explain to the landlord why that couple is talking about hearing sexual stuff involving skype coming from your place say that you sometimes engage in virtual sex with your bf(you would obviously be a lot more vague) and that if they weren't spying on you so hardcore they wouldn't know a thing about it. I may be a little psycho though and have no issue with lying at length to someone's face(if I don't know them that well that is), it's like improv.
It's very negative and sometimes living against the grain gets so tiring that I'm forgetting to enjoy life. I really value your point about using these notes as harassment..how invasive to listen in on me and be *so sure* what they heard wasn't me with my boyfriend. After all, this note came through our door during sex not even camming.
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Dorothea
you basically say that as a cammodel you have no right to privacy and life in your own home
As a cam model, I'm in control of my life. I make my rules, I create my own bliss or my own hell. I have the right to privacy and will go to the depths to get it. That's why in moving...because I can afford it and it will improve my life and career! I'm no longer making minimum wage crying about unfavorable living situations that I can't change. Those days are over :)
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Thank you ladies for being here for me. thanks to your support I was able to get back online with a positive attitude this morning and I'm so glad I did. Love you all
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OMG I could have written this. I just moved into a new apartment and every single night without fail I hear my neighbor talking right outside my window with his friends. Every night at the time I log into cam. My landlord sent me a text saying someone complained that we were loud here. Even though I am very quiet and I do not do loud shows because I have kids sleeping when I cam. so I have to be extra quiet. So yeah the neighbors already complained yet her husband is standing outside my window every night listening. fucking aggravating.
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gorgeousbbw
OMG I could have written this. I just moved into a new apartment and every single night without fail I hear my neighbor talking right outside my window with his friends. Every night at the time I log into cam. My landlord sent me a text saying someone complained that we were loud here. Even though I am very quiet and I do not do loud shows because I have kids sleeping when I cam. so I have to be extra quiet. So yeah the neighbors already complained yet her husband is standing outside my window every night listening. fucking aggravating.
I was raised in a loud house with tons of animals and loud people. I was taught to deal with it and not listen into people's convos. But I think it's obvious there are invasive people who enjoy being in their own space and honing in on what's happening through the walls around them. I more than doubled my rent to be in a better space for camming with more privacy but now I have a relentless neighbor who has made it their full time job to patrol me. They might act annoyed but mosey neighbors literally get off on just hearing you because it gives them something to do in their house. Like I said, you don't like what you hear through the walls doors or windows? Well then why is your ear pressed up against it? I guarantee if we spied on anyone we loved and heard them through a door we'd end up hearing some shit we didn't like.
If your partner is helping you gage noise like mine is, and can't hear you...you are being listened to closely on purpose. it's funny they haven't taken it up with you because they probably secretly like it.
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UGh, why do no life ppl have 2 f'it up 4 everyone??
I had a whiney ass that call the cops & it got like 6
Pkg tix, hw must know & blow some cop(s)
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gorgeousbbw
OMG I could have written this. I just moved into a new apartment and every single night without fail I hear my neighbor talking right outside my window with his friends. Every night at the time I log into cam. My landlord sent me a text saying someone complained that we were loud here. Even though I am very quiet and I do not do loud shows because I have kids sleeping when I cam. so I have to be extra quiet. So yeah the neighbors already complained yet her husband is standing outside my window every night listening. fucking aggravating.
It is funny because when i first saw this thread i thought it was you that wrote it. That neighbour of yours needs a hobbie