Camming customers wanting to meet in person help
So I have a new customer on cam that did a block session with me today and every time he comes into my room he spends a good amount of money. well today during our block session he asked me if he gave me his number if I would call him. I told him that I cant do that we get in trouble etc..he still typed his number in chat and asked me to save it. I did not call him. But he keeps insisting on meeting. He is obviously looking for a gf and I tried to provide the gfe but he wants to take it further. What do u ladies say to these guys because I told him I do not meet in person and he is still bugging me about it, but he is a good spender so I don't want to lose him a s a customer. Not sure what to do here.
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If its really making you uncomfortable then cut him loose. Most of them get to this point sooner or later. Your guy got there immediately. Personally I would keep hitting him up but that's because I don't let them make me feel uncomfortable. Tell him every time he post his number in open chat he runs the risk of getting you in trouble. So if he wants to talk more he needs to go private. When he's private say things like "So If i met you what would we do? Oh that sounds nice baby. And then what?" As long as they're spending money I don't turn them away. Its all dating site traffic now and days and so many lonely guys. And then you have the number of people who DO find dates online growing and growing. I used to get annoyed when guys would ask to meet. And I mean very recently it would piss me off. Like wtf they always trying to meet me? But then I realized something....that's how people are doing it now! People are hooking up online so now that I understand it I try to capitalize on it. Of course many will say don't play that game just cut him loose. Get the money for as long as you can. When it becomes uncomfortable then block him. I have a few that I blocked for a week to give them a time out and then unblocked them. Sometimes they come back wiser and more respectful of the boundaries.
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I second everything that PhatGirlDymonite said
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I always tell them I don't do meet ups.... Don't lead them on
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I tell them I am not 100% sure about meeting up. It could take a year, five years or 10 years before I am 100% sure but I never say when. They'll eventually get the memo or stop spending altogether because I drained all their money.
If a man wants to be foolish, I won't stop him.
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I also second what Phatgirldynomite said too.
I have a few 'let's meet' guys that I've had for years.
It's just another type of fantasy role play.
I screen shot any conversation where they give me any contact number..be it email or phone. I always type out that it is against site rules.
Then I have proof in case it was someone trying to set me up to get fired. Particularly if the customer has never even turned their cam on. That makes me very nervous.
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You need to lay down the law. Tell him that you are strictly masturbation material and you will never call him. If he keeps pressuring you, ban him. Regs come and go, sometimes you need to be the one to end it.
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I tell them "I just do Fantasy, NOT reality". "In order for me to fullfill your fantasy, you got to be mine in return. Is this Ryan Gosling? George Clooney?"
At this point money is not an incentive to have sex with anyone that I dont feel passionate about, that inspires desire & lust. Those can only be created by wit & charm, courting & spoiling me. There are NOOOO short cuts to win me over enough to fuck any person. With out those things & chemistry, they will bore the fuck out of me in bed. Why fuck if the person bores you?
Sam
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Leading him on is part of the game, in my opinion. But there's a limit. If it gets to be too much, honestly tell him you can't do it, and/or stop contact by banning him.
I had a guy do this to me a couple days ago, but he was just trying to get me to do phone sex for free. Wish I would've screen-captured it, that is a GREAT IDEA! And definitely type something to show you know it is against the rules.
There are so many other paying customers out there. Only do what you're comfortable with.
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Then don't call him or meet him. You've made it clear you won't meet. Keep taking his money until he expires, as his kind always does when they finally get the message. Or just block him now and move onto a less obnoxious customer.
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Be honest, tell him the more he insist the more uncomfortable you become & makes you not want to cam with him. It is one thing to inquire, it is predatory to keep at it trying to wear the other person down. No gentleman would ever make another person so uncomfortable.
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The second time he asks, you could say "As I told you before, I don't meet in person." If the nagging persists, just ban him. I have no problem telling a guy straight up that I don't meet. If that means I'll lose him as a customer, BYE! Let him move on to the next cam girl and do that annoying shit with them. And trust...you won't be the only cam girl he'll ask to meet. I chuckle when they say stuff like "But I'm not a psycho killer or anything like that..." Lmao.
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Sam38g
Be honest, tell him the more he insist the more uncomfortable you become & makes you not want to cam with him. It is one thing to inquire, it is predatory to keep at it trying to wear the other person down. No gentleman would ever make another person so uncomfortable.
^This. The birthday girl is right. :)
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\I chuckle when they say stuff like "But I'm not a psycho killer or anything like that..." Lmao.
Ha! Definitely don't believe a word these guys say. It's hilarious when they want to "prove" they're normal and entrench themselves even deeper in the "I'm a total creep" category.
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gorgeousbbw
So I have a new customer on cam that did a block session with me today and every time he comes into my room he spends a good amount of money. well today during our block session he asked me if he gave me his number if I would call him. I told him that I cant do that we get in trouble etc..he still typed his number in chat and asked me to save it. I did not call him. But he keeps insisting on meeting. He is obviously looking for a gf and I tried to provide the gfe but he wants to take it further. What do u ladies say to these guys because I told him I do not meet in person and he is still bugging me about it, but he is a good spender so I don't want to lose him a s a customer. Not sure what to do here.
One option buy a throw away phone from Cricket or someplace like that and sell him the number for $300 to give him that real gfe. When he sends you a text you can sell him a texting plan too. lol. After a while he will go away.
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I got one a few weeks back that NEVER did a show with me and then proceeds to sm mail me pics and saying we should do couples shows. Ewwwwwwwwwwwwwww. wtf. So he thinks I need dick and he's going to get paid for it. LOLOLOL.
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he is a good spender so I don't want to lose him a s a customer.
I'd say you just answered you own question..:)
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Well, basicly 18+ guys are allowed to visit these sites, as paying customer.
Hopefully in that age, they are able to make a difference between escorting, and camming. No need to explain more.
I have a few guys, who re into the "let s meet stuff". One of them asking for phone number EVERY TIME he comes.
So damn irritating. Just pass through time somehow, as long as u can, I d say.
Usually i make a joke about that, or ... well maybe they try to flirt that way - it makes them feel more real somehow? Idk.
So, one thing u know: not gonna meet anyone from there- and the rest is ur own creativity, how u keep em talking and make them keep coming back. I think.