Someone in my state recognized me:(
An ex boyfriend to be exact:( He messaged me on face book saying that he seen me on cam! Bad thing is I am good friends with his mother and friends with a lot of his family. His aunt is also my best friend and Ive never told her what I do. I never said anything back to him, just read the messages....lol. He mentioned my cam name and everything. Telling me I looked good on cam and there is nothing wrong with what I am doing...yada yada yada....lol :) Only thing is he has a BIG mouth and I am afraid he will run his mouth to everyone:( Then again idk if anyone would believe him either.
Those of you thats been recognized, did u admit to it or act like you didnt know what they were talking about?
Also I blocked my state again after he messaged me but now I can't see my placement on streamamte:( Is there a way that I can check my placement now that I've blocked my state?
Re: Someone in my state recognized me:(
I would say you could deny if he tells anyone but if he's tech savvy he could have recorded you without your permission. Depending on how different you look on cam vs how you look in real life you could still possibly deny.
Worse case scenario, you could find some info on him he may want to keep quiet about then ever so subtly let him know you can reverse blackmail him if he dares open his mouth. }:D
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Guess it becomes a question if they are true friends & if they really love you no matter what?
Not like you committed any crime or are breaking the law, but even if you did would you question friendships & the love they have for you as a person. To do so is to question whether or not relationships are real to begin with.
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I OWN what I do so there's nothing to admit. I would say nothing and not make a big deal out of it. When you deny what you do it gives the impression that you are ashamed which gives people ammunition to hurt you. You can't out a bitch that's proud and owns it!
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miss.a.p1600
I would say you could deny if he tells anyone but if he's tech savvy he could have recorded you without your permission. Depending on how different you look on cam vs how you look in real life you could still possibly deny.
Worse case scenario, you could find some info on him he may want to keep quiet about then ever so subtly let him know you can reverse blackmail him if he dares open his mouth. }:D
lol.....I like that idea! I only wish that I could find something to blackmail him with:( He is not very tech savvy at all but all he has to do is tell his cousins or friends and they could google my stage name
Re: Someone in my state recognized me:(
Maybe explain to him it's just a job. BUT if he could please be quiet about it because the more people that know about it the more danger you are in as far as random dudes hearing it through the gapevine thinking you are DTF. Or that it's just ok to harass you when they see you because you must like it. So many dudes think we're just whores and aren't just in it for the $$$ and freedom. Plus you will probably get propositioned.
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Ask why he didn't buy a show.
Hah. Kidding. Block your state. Make a custie account so you could check your placement.
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xoprincessremy
Ask why he didn't buy a show.
Hah. Kidding. Block your state. Make a custie account so you could check your placement.
I've blocked my state and I've tried finding my placement thru my custie account but I still can's see my placement....anyone know why?
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I feel for the girls that have to hide what they do. I only really have to do that with my grandfather, because he would have a heart attack! But most of my family knows what I do. All my friends do, and its super uncomfortable when someone messages me saying they saw me on cam.. it's happened a few times and I am sure most of my friends have found me and just not said anything. Also, I wouldnt be surprised if someone I know hasnt bought a show with me. I am super open about who I am and what I do, and if they dont like it oh well.
Being recognized and outed to family members or friends who would be judgmental and not understanding is a huge issue. The unfortunate thing is any geo blocking will vastly effect your placement even though they claim it wont. When I took off geo blocking after I decided I just didnt give a fuck anymore, my traffic went WAY UP and I was on rows 1-4 always where before I was at the bottom of page 1. And I didnt have any important places blocked, just Maine and specific small town cities only.
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Girly_Girl
An ex boyfriend to be exact:( He messaged me on face book saying that he seen me on cam! Bad thing is I am good friends with his mother and friends with a lot of his family. His aunt is also my best friend and Ive never told her what I do. I never said anything back to him, just read the messages....lol. He mentioned my cam name and everything. Telling me I looked good on cam and there is nothing wrong with what I am doing...yada yada yada....lol :) Only thing is he has a BIG mouth and I am afraid he will run his mouth to everyone:( Then again idk if anyone would believe him either.
Those of you thats been recognized, did u admit to it or act like you didnt know what they were talking about?
When it happened to me, I blocked my state, and my problem was solved. No more constantly worrying about them blurting out my personal info in public chat. Also, a lot of these guys will use the "Oh, come on...you KNOW me" line to try to get cam site freebies or discounts out of you, and that's the shit that pissed me off.
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