Dancing on bigger guys...
What are some dance moves or something when dancing for a bigger guy....like 220+ lb type guys? I'm pretty short and somewhat small so I find it kind of hard to do a good dance when I nail these guys. Lol anyone else have somewhat of this issue? I am not complaining,just asking for some thing to spice it up.
Yes,I did a search & maybe i'm wording it wrong.
If this is in the wrong section,my apologies. :-)
thanks in advance
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LOL i feel u. they are probably just so happy to have a naked girl dancing on them that they dont even care
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I sit on their lap sideways with my legs in between theirs, basically like how you would sit on Santa's lap. You can go pretty far standing in front of them, which makes it really easy to kind of lean onto them and put your boobs in their face. If your dance area is like a bench or a large couch (not a tiny chair) you can also stand on that and dance there. Basically anything besides trying to straddle them will work.
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I find it exhausing to dance for them simply because I have to support my own weight most of the time, but I often find bigger guys smell better, are sweeter, dont test boundaries and tip better.
I do the sitting on their lap leaning my whole body back into them with the back of my head on their shoulder and using my legs to push me into them thing...
And I put one knee on their leg and the other straight on the ground and do some stand dancing.
And I touch them alot, shoulders, neck, run their hair
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I generally try to put on more of a "show" for them.
Put my leg up on the arm of their chair (toes first, no heels ruining the chairs, lol), whisper sweetly, toss my hair... just be a bit more theatrical than usual.
The usual grind just won't do it for them. Work with your dance area for ideas on positions.
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[QUOTE=LilLadyLux;2876526]I find it exhausing to dance for them simply because I have to support my own weight most of the time, but I often find bigger guys smell better, are sweeter, dont test boundaries and tip better.
^^this. I guess because some (not all) lack confidence/self esteem so to avoid anymore rejection like on the outside world....they're all nice and stuff lol I find myself kind of tired after dancing for them too lol
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Lol. Ikr! I was dancing one night & I just felt like "wth am I doing?" Lol but he was huge!
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One think i normally do is turn around, lightly grind against their thighs, and lean back so im leaning against them. I will also reach back and stroke their hair while i do this which they love too. This usually makes them happy but only works in clubs where some contact is allowed.
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I make them lay down on the floor and stand over them.
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It can be difficult to dance on someone who isn't slender or "lapdance-able," but as Kaninchen suggested,
grinding/sitting on his leg is a good place to start.
I found that leg grinding, doing a hypnotic dance while straddling his legs farther away from his stomach,
and giving him attention (caressing his face/hair, calling him sexy, xyz) works. Put yourself in the best
possible light and make him admire you, even though your "touch space" is limited.
It also helps to focus on his other positive qualities (like his Ph.D. in Mathematics or his fondness of ferrets or something).
Dancing with his body-type isn't much different from dancing with any other body type - you just have to work around his larger body parts.
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In the event that he's round and short-legged, so you can't sit on his legs, it definitely crosses into the territory of air dance at that point. Pose, turn, belly dance, lean in... Find ways to convert existing moves to work for him.
For example, one move I occasionally will do if a guy has bought a string of dances is straddle his lap (with my ankles between his legs so I'm sitting more on my own legs/create distance between our lower halves) and sort of hunch over him so my hair falls on one or either side of his face, creating a sort of tent/barrier thing. While we're "in" said tent, I'll graze my fingers down his ear/neck/whatever intimate thing. Maybe I'll just give him the bedroom eyes for a bit. Usually used at the end of the song to make them absolutely want to keep going.
For a round guy with no legs to straddle, this becomes standing between his legs and leaning my legs on his body a bit so I can lean forward and make the "hair tent/curtain" above his face that way.
Otherwise, body slides can work, or just standing between his legs and grazing his arms/lifting a leg to rest your knee on his chest while you stroke your thigh/generic things that deliver contact but have you standing instead of sitting et. al. But depending on the shape of his body, you might just need to stick with air dance moves and focus on putting on a show more than creating a tactile experience that relies heavily on contact.
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I really could have used this thread six months ago ahaha!! if the club has couches for dances i'll try and stand up with my body to one side and dance a bit and then when i come back down, have my right knee on the couch and my butt on his knee and then my left foot on his right leg so my knee is in the air. That way i can get my tits in his face and keep dancing around with my arms around his neck and my body real close
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Just dance on their stomachs. They will be happy.
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I do a cuddle dance. As a newb I made the mistake of trying to do the lap grind and fell completely off..embarrassing.
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Lol I think Tempest calls it belly surfing. I climb all over them, tits up to their face, then slide all the way down, straddle belly backward so my ass is in their face, rhwn slide all the way down. I put one thigh between their legs instead of my ass, give them a neck massage. I stand on the booth seat.
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Just dance on their stomachs. They will be happy.
totally agree with this! one guy even suggested just grinding his leg and it worked. i felt a bit like a dog humping but heliked it
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I recently danced for this obese guy where he was literally all stomach and I couldn't even sit on his lap.. so I just like laid across him with my boobs near his face. Luckily he just wanted me to lay there and talk and I was happy because I had no clue how to dance on him lol.
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If allowed at your club you can stand up on the couch in VIP and dance in front of him & rub up on his sides.
I've found bigger guys are great strip club customers because most are ignored by women In Real Life. They often come in for an emotional connection as well as stimulation.