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Girl you've got this! I'm not sure about the dates but I think it has to start with self. Start excercising and meditating (if you dont already) Love yourself again!
There are work at home jobs you can do until you get your confidence back.
Join a gym!
Also if you're a computer savvy-ish person try and get some certs. Many people use this as an altrnative to a degree especially if you have SOME college experience.
There a bunch of side gigs also- sell on ebay, amazon, your own website...etc.
Girl do NOT let LIFE pass you by. You are certainly not a mess! You're someone's BLESSING!
No don't lower your standards cause you'll regret it later. Trust me. I lowered my standards during a depressed stage in my life and fucked a few dudes out of loneliness and not believing I could find better at that time (not true just depression getting to my thoughts and diminishing my confidence). It takes a long time for your vagina memory to forget and sometimes it never forgets. Complete wastes of my pussy during that time. Much better off single than lowering standard for some whack men that will never satisfy you.
Their career is just ONE facet of that person. The doctors and engineers They are still human just like you. I don't think men care as much about women having lots of money like we do them lol! My line of thinking is since there is a double standard in dating and life that favors men then hell might as well have some female privileges (aka not worrying about finances when dating men).
I do think though they don't want lazy moochers. So as long as you are working towards something and not sitting on couch eating Bon bons, watching soap operas all day, and collecting welfare unnecessarily then you should be fine.
If it still bothers you that much then consider keeping these guys as sugar daddies. This way they can help you out financially, you only meet them few times a month, and you won't have to tell them much about your real life
It's funny I'm normally so confident but coming back into the dating scene makes me feel like I'm 16 again. I think your right though, is rather be alone then with just anybody..m
I'm an engineer, who quit my engineering job to start stripping again. Lol not sure if that helps, but like someone else said, we are human, too.