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okay soo--
I downloaded SA with no intention of using it. I was curious as to what it was because a friend of mine told me about it. This was two years ago before it was more known, before I was a dancer. I used the site like tinder when I was bored lol I would skim profiles and message a few people but never had any intention of pursuing anything because the guys were either weird, creepy, or just off.
Then one day after 5 months on the app I came across an interesting profile that caught my eye. he was cute, put together and I can usually tell very fast after a few conversations if the person is genuine or not... I am a great judge of character and can read people easily.
Being a sexual person who prefers a little bit older guys (early thirties) I'm 22, I thought if I found a guy I would have sex with anyway then the money would be just icing on the cake right? RIGHT.
also.. he paid me well not the average 400 that usual SB settle for on that site.
it took a Long time but I got lucky. I did not settle and I wasn't desperate. I found a great guy, we had great sex, and although our arrangement ended after a year.. we still talk every so often and he is always there for me if I ever needed him!
havent been back on the app since.
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LE is doing busts on that site.
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I got on there to try to get clients for my pro domme services. Stupid site banned me.
So, it's ok to basically offer prostitution there, but you can't take money to beat people when they want you to.
Losers!
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I didn't meet anyone worthwhile on SA. I had better luck on what's your price.
The problem with SA is losers with more free time than MONEY get on there to tease women. It's the adult equivalent of little boys pulling girl's hair in grade school. They annoy you to see what you do & move on to another profile if they don't like what you offer.
ALL the decent SDs I have dealt with were usually very busy with their occupations/lives and were up front about everything. Most don't like trawling the internet for Sbs because they tend to have the "I like what I see" attitude and take command of the exchange as soon as the first in- person meeting goes well.
My personal opinion is different types of people will have different sorts of experiences sugaring. You cannot generalize.
& Yes SA cracks down on illegal activity, or just harassment and violation of Terms Of Use policy.
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Thanks for posting!
While certainly not agreeing with the articles MO, to play the devils advocate what do we think about this one aspect?:
"There have been times when I matched with a girl on Tinder and she was short-tempered and rude. Then I saw her on Seeking Arrangement and sent her a message and she was like a completely different person! I couldn’t help but feel bad for all the guys on Tinder who had to put up with her crap while I got the best side of her."
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I don't recommend SA nowadays to anyone ever, not even to my worst enemies. This website is full of potential rapists and sick men and I have met one of them sadly.
I met up with a dude from New York but in my country Switzerland, since he was traveling. Via text he told me that intimacy is important for him in a relationship. I told him I'm not okay with it if it's done after a short time in a relationship and he agreed with me. My first mistake was not to ask for an allowance. I was new to sexwork back then and had veeeery less experience with men to nothing at all. But in my country the people are so prude there's barely anything for sexworkers to go to.
I met up with him and he raped me in the hotel room after 1 hour of meeting him despite telling me so many promises before and he left the next morning back to the States, never heard from him ever again until months later but I ignored his message. I only realized later that I was raped. This was the last time I had sex in my life with a man and I have been celibate for almost 4 years now because I hate sex. He is the reason I'm so scared of sex now and I only had relationships with women and transexuals so far because I'm still so damn disgusted by his behavior back then and that many, maaany men are crazy in the head and do bad things. Also thanks to my job as a webcamgirl I avoid men even in my private life. They come to me to cheat on their wives and girlfriends often. Ofc some are single, but let's face it, men cheat a lot. I have that bad gut feeling whenever a man talks to me, even my own father. I stopped talking to my sibling (whos male) for years. All these men who come in my chatroom and piss me off on a daily basis made it impossible for me to interact with a real man outside of my computer. I mean why should I waste my time with men FOR FREE in my free time if I make them PAY ME as a camgirl? I hate men from the bottom of my heart.
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I am so sorry for your suffering in this experience. That is horrible. I hope you can find healing for yourself, whatever that best looks like for you. You are not alone. You are strong and a survivor. I wish you all the best. Thank you for sharing your heart and your experience.
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SA absorbed a lot of the displaced customers from back page. IMO, if an SD REALLY is living the kind of lifestyle where you are included in the day-to-day, he's not looking for it on a website. I see a lot more hand- picked SBs.
That being said, for a casual monthly allowance (1k-3k) expectation, it's not "impossible" to find a nice businessman/doctor on SA. But a lot of truckers and "hiiii bby how much to play in my hotel i'm at the Drury Inn ill get you an uber pool and $100" to wade through.