Help Please CAM GIRL Put on 3-4 Stone - 95KG Can I still cam?
Been suffering from SEVERE DEPRESSION due to losing son, home and fiance, have put on around 95kg. I was already "curvy" to start with but now I'd say I'm huge and have a LOT of SAGGY SKIN, STRETCH MARKS, CELLULITE etc. I am desperate for money to pay rent etc. If anyone has advice on still camming at my weight please please help also any other adult (but not escort work) jobs would be great to know about. Hope someone will help :(
Re: Help Please CAM GIRL Put on 3-4 Stone - 95KG Can I still cam?
How about phone chat?
Also, I am around 300 pounds (20+stone) and I know I'm not the only one, NOR am I the biggest out there.
You can indeed cam, but you will need to find some confidence somewhere, as there are trolls and idiots out there who will get off on knocking you down.
The other ladies will give you lots more advice I'm sure. In the meantime, read everything you can on this forum, especially do a search for BBW and Confidence and Self Esteem, and read all the threads that come up.
Good luck to you :)
Re: Help Please CAM GIRL Put on 3-4 Stone - 95KG Can I still cam?
Sure you can! SSBBW (supersized big beautiful woman) is a fairly well-known fetish and your cellulite and saggy skin are part of the SSBBW appeal to certain men. Go look around the BBW categories on cam sites, you'll probably find a lot of cam models who look like you. Google SSBBW videos on Pornhub and learn moves that BBW fetishists like.
With your niche appeal I would try a private-based site like Streamate, at least to begin with. You can always add more sites to your egg basket later, Streamate despite all its problems is the easiest beginner-level site where you can build confidence and strengthen your hustle. Token sites have a much bigger audience and can be incredibly overwhelming if you don't have diamond-hard skin.
Be prepared for a lot of small-dicked losers who will say nasty things to you to stroke their own sad egos - every cam model gets them, but for depression-prone models it might get under your skin, so be sure that you can handle wave after wave of assholes. Be confident in your appeal to men, and don't let them negg or manipulate you into giving them freebies. Nothing sinks a cam model faster than losing confidence and giving away the goods for next to nothing.
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I am big but I never let that stop me from camming. If you don't have thick skin, the trolls will eat you alive. But trolls bother smaller girls too so it's not just about the big girls. There are people who literally have nothing better to do than harass women on cam. If you really don't like talking to people you can always try nude chat on cams.com, where nobody can talk to you unless they pay you. A lot of guys don't even pay attention to weight, all they care about are your assets:)
Re: Help Please CAM GIRL Put on 3-4 Stone - 95KG Can I still cam?
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Sure you can! SSBBW (supersized big beautiful woman) is a fairly well-known fetish and your cellulite and saggy skin are part of the SSBBW appeal to certain men. Go look around the BBW categories on cam sites, you'll probably find a lot of cam models who look like you. Google SSBBW videos on Pornhub and learn moves that BBW fetishists like.
With your niche appeal I would try a private-based site like Streamate, at least to begin with. You can always add more sites to your egg basket later, Streamate despite all its problems is the easiest beginner-level site where you can build confidence and strengthen your hustle. Token sites have a much bigger audience and can be incredibly overwhelming if you don't have diamond-hard skin.
Be prepared for a lot of small-dicked losers who will say nasty things to you to stroke their own sad egos - every cam model gets them, but for depression-prone models it might get under your skin, so be sure that you can handle wave after wave of assholes. Be confident in your appeal to men, and don't let them negg or manipulate you into giving them freebies. Nothing sinks a cam model faster than losing confidence and giving away the goods for next to nothing.
209 pounds isn't Super-BBW unless a person is four-feet tall or so. OP: as long as you and your surrounding area is neat and cared-for looking and you are personable with the guys, you will probably be fine and get a lot more compliments than you are expecting.
Re: Help Please CAM GIRL Put on 3-4 Stone - 95KG Can I still cam?
of course you can cam! there is room for everyone in this industry and you can really make it your own. think about what it is you want to do on cam, this can be the total opposite of what youre like in rl, and practice being confident and working it. i get the whole money thing i really do, im in exactly the same situ as you with that at the moment. whilst getting your self set up on sites etc, write down what you want your shows to be about and ways that you can build your fan base ie twitter followings bolg etc (there are some great threads and ideas on here!) and practise your new persona. someone once told me here that camming can be far less about sex and far more about that kick ass personality of yours. and always remember that there is a group of men for every cam model.
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I'm 73kg and a BBW (because I am very short) and I cam. I've seen bigger girls doing way better than I am, you can be one of them. It`s all about confidence and how you sell your product. Even if you are bigger, if you make yourself look pretty you will attract customers. And there are so many guys into BBW fetishes. I would start with Streamate as a newbie, and I would stay away of token sites.
Do your make up, your hair, your nails. Wear pretty lingerie. Don't log in like you just rolled out of bed and you will do fine :) Of course you can do well looking all natural but that's not everyone' s case. If the body isn't perfect make your face look great. This is my personal opinion tho as I totally dislike the no make up at all or bad make up look on cam. If you don't usually make up, there are youtube tutorials that will teach you everything, from face contouring to ombre lips.
Register, get on cam and show confidence! Also be patient, money don't always come fast.
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I have been 108 to 175 lbs. at times. I still do pretty DAMN good! My highest earning days are at the heaviest side. No problem! Do I like my belly and my cellulite? NO! but they pay for that big juicy ass! and some even pay to play with my fat belly. Thank god there are guys like that.. I have been camming going on 14 yrs so I have experience at it. So gaining weight was not a big deal to me. it's like I gained 40 pounds over nite. in just 4 months after a broken bone.. still heavy and this will be my highest earnings month in quite awhile.. so go for it and love those curves! And love the compliments, even though you don't like yourself right now. THEY DO!
Re: Help Please CAM GIRL Put on 3-4 Stone - 95KG Can I still cam?
I make way more with weight than without. My twitter followers have been moaning as I dropped a dress size for the lapdancing tomorrow night.
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Try looking into clips. Clips4sale has many bbw related categories and many times 3-5 of the top 50 clips are bbw or ssbbw related.