I do the imaginary conversations sometimes, too. I prefer real ones, but I'll work with what I can get. Lord knows, I'm sure sometimes we're the most intelligent conversation we can get! ;D
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talking to myself in my dead room.
So, I read the first three articles of the constitution to a mostly dead room on MFC tonight, lmfao. NOT a huge success! ;)
Did get tipped topless, though, lmao. Not a completely wasted hour.
I've started kicking these dudes out of my room. If you keep coming in with no tokens to "hang out" or keep me company you arent doing me any favors. You are still being entertained by me and not paying the piper. I was noticing the same standard members that have never purchased tokens come by just to say "hey BB" and shoot the shit or hang out and stare at me sending flower emoji. Umm ok boys I been seeing you do this for almost 2 months now. I know you think I'm pretty, you love long nails, you think my skin is soft and the tone is amazing. You been saying the same shit the last 49 days. Now tip me or keep it pushing. No parking on my dance floor, Bye felipe. One actually did pony up and spend a lil time in a happy hour chat. Shocking but it broke his like 2 year freeloading streak.
I just talk about how horny I am when the room goes quiet. I got a much better response when I started speaking in free chat. I originally thought I should make customers pay for my voice but actually they can't get off to you voice alone and they want to make sure they like the sound of your voice beforehand so I think it works for me.
I tend to play on dudes insecurities after attempting to engage in conversation to little (or no) avail.
"Wow pretty girl wants to talk to you and you are too scared to say hello. How on earth am I suppose to entertain you guys? Unless you are gay."
or
"Man, why is everyone so boring and has the personality of a brick wall. Don't care if you are nervous or not. You are anonymous, so I don't know what you goofy mother fuckers look like or smell like."
I'm pretty confrontational and blunt. It works for my personality. If you are timid, shy, or submissive, I advise not doing what I do.
I also do the pretend you are talking to someone. Sometimes if my husband doesn't have anything going on, and I'm bored on cam. I will have him log into my custie account and talk to me on there. We try to talk about what demographic I normally track would be interested in. Late 20's to mid30's nerdy males. So nerd nostalgia, video games, sports, and obscure music. I also make sure to put on music I like but I know others would be interested as well. I've noticed customers tend to react more and engage when I play certain kinds of music. That's why old school indie hip hop is usually playing in my room. You also have to be knowledgable of what you are talking about/listening to. Guys like girls who come across authentic and who they feel they can relate to.
Engage with everyone who engages with you. I don't greet people in my room usually, unless it's dead tired but I do it sparingly. You want to feel organic and not that you are on routine or scripted.
Change your style. It can be from a new hair cut (noticeable) to a change in make up. I will go months with wearing my contacts then I will wear glasses. Anther thing I do, is I will wear my hair up for a week straight, then I will wear it down. Humans are naturally attracted to change. If something is new and different, they flock.
Also changing your profile pic regularly helps. Some of these guys will think you are a new cammodel or different entirely. So it's a good way to draw in new ppl and old customers who got bored.
I get like, unreasonably irritated when someone comes in, says "hi hru?" and then leaves after I respond with a peppy, "Great! What about you?". I'm sorry did I accidentally say, "fuck off goat peepee"? I mean watchu want from me homeboy??
But due to my general nervousness I default to a sweet-young-thing sort of hustle, it would be weird if I suddenly had a bitchy, sarcastic outburst. So I tend to just carry on an imaginary, bubbly conversation, working in things my custies might like to hear, like "ooh my favourite position? cowgirl", "sure i'm totally in the mood for some naughty assplay right now!" etc. It works for me, and light talking makes you seem more friendly/approachable so it encourages the silent guys to pitch in with their own questions.
I'm still working on my general persona though. Sometimes I get guys who are like, "talk normally, stop trying to sound sexy," when I didn't even realise I appeared like I was trying to sound fake-sexy. I have a very high-pitched, childish natural voice so I actively lower my pitch on cam, that's all. Apparently that makes me sound fake as hell, which sucks, so...I'm working on it. :/
^^That's true. Especially with US boys and certain British accents. I've been asked to read a random wikipedia page in pvt.