hi girls what is joi? what should i do? thx}:D}:D}:D}:D
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hi girls what is joi? what should i do? thx}:D}:D}:D}:D
JOI is jerk off instruction, which is showing them how to jerk their dick, with a cum countdown at the end. HOWEVER, most guys don't know wtf they are asking for. I give them the option of 1. Do you want me to instruct you how to jerk your dick 2. Do you want me to fuck myself while instructing you how to jerk it or 3. Do you want me to dom you and instruct you how to jerk your dick, possibly with humiliation?
A LOT of guys seem to think that JOI means "fuck show" grrr
A lot of men don't know what they want. You always have to ask them to clarify. At least I do. With joi I use a dildo and do to it what I am instructing them to do. I do not ever ask if s man wants me to fuck myself because I don't fuck myself ever unless they bring it up. I have had subs come back again just to see if they could see my private areas after a good fetish session.
JOI is the thing I'm worst at. Lol.
for me joi is easy....i give them instructions on how to jerk off, for eg: start slowly, spit on it, now a bit harder, stop, go faster, when u get to the point of almost cumming, stop jerking, 2 mins pause, start all over, stroke slowly, go faster now, stop, now harder....until they feel like they need to cum so badly. thats it, not much more than that.
The only time I have success with this is when i turn it into a kind of edging, or a combo tease and denial thing.
I do jerk off instructions combined with tease and denial. I find it to work best. For example i tell them: imagine you are fucking me right now, how hard would you fuck me baby? SHOW ME ! fuck me ! ... and things like that.. I also add dirty tak into it. Cause if i do it simple they kind of leave. But yes , everything the girls said untill now is good tips ! You have to adapt it to the type of guy : if he is a sub, if he is normal, if he wants you naked (you gotta wait untill he asks you nicely to get naked tough i think).
Personally, I give a teasing, guided cock massage. It usually has a sensually dominant tone to it. I suction a dildo to a hard surface and demonstrate what they are to do with their cock (with explanation) and they turn on their camera to show me. I usually end it with a short countdown, once I know they are ready to cum (I ask how close they are).
When I do these shows, the focus is on their cock. I'll offer to get naked, but I make sure they know that I can't masturbate while simultaneously guiding them.
I wish I was a natural at this kind of thing! Guys ask me to do a JOI video quite often because they like my accent. I did try to record myself doing it once, but I couldn't stop laughing at myself.
This is what I do, give or take a countdown. 90% of them turn off their cams right after they blow it & I'm thinking CEI is alot more about the IDEA of it than the actual act.
I used to not mind JOI so much but I'm so tired of it and find it tedious as fuck, because of all the aforementioned above. But, it is a good moneymaker. OP, check out some JOI videos on pornhub or ManyVids and learn up because ALOT of dudes want it (or at least think they do).
It's a great money maker. I like it because I control the sessions completely as far as how long I can strech the instructions. I offer none nude/ nude, super strict ( if they aren't following my directions i stop the show and degrade until they compley) or tease & denial. I ask before they take me what they want or I Send the first 30 seconds - a minute seductive asking what version they want.
If a guy asks for CEI, then you already know he likes it. Tell him to get into the cum slut position and make sure he doesn't miss a drop or else. Simple.
Joi is not that hard. They just want you to tell them how to eat their cum. Don't wait until it's blown. You gotta talk about it while they are jackin'. They are picky and will shut the cam down and you will think they hated it but give you a 5 rating.