Rant of the day....How is this so fucking hard
I am fucking tired of not being able to work in quality strip clubs because of my race, like maybe its just my home state but its beyond irritating and then the clubs I do get into are the most ghetto and ratchet with bitches with bad weaves, poor attitudes and chips on their shoulders so big you'd think it was a black hole ready to swallow you whole or full of trailer park crack heads literally! Like, I’m well spoken, in shape, always make sure my hair and make up is right but somehow someway the only thing I’m missing is being anything but black. What makes a white girl that much more deserving of you paying her to sit there and talk to you than me? When customers talk to me they are looking for a freak ho....I don’t even know how to flirt! let along talk dirty to you!!! like I wanna talk about movies and all that jazz but those convos are reserved for the delicate little white cherry blossoms... Like I’m in the same boat as these girls and yet people just assume I don’t need to make money that I’m ok with showing my ass and tits for free! little do they know I don’t even go to the fucking beach, I dress like a nun on a daily basis....Like I don’t get it...Why am I a broke stripper? Like I have bruises and aches and pains from pole tricks that I forced myself to learn, I practice everyday to make sure my floor work is flawless, I spend all my time avoiding certain foods and working out to be more appealing but I guess I just need to whiten my skin. Like I'm really not trying to be rude, but race is truly a huge component is whether you make money or don't so no one can tell me it's my attitude or my appearance. I've auditioned at clubs where the customers were all white men and they all tipped me and came and spoke to me after yet management said I'm not what they're looking for....I thought it's about having what the customers want to see
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Keep going until you find the club that fits or fit the club or just be yourself in the clubs that will have you. I'm white and it sucks when you get told you're just not what they're into. But you just pick yourself up by the "balls" and keep going. You have to have big balls to audition in the first place. And thick skin too. It's rough everywhere. Maybe talk to the management before you audition and tell them what you're looking for in a club. Sometimes people see you more as a person if they can get a feel for you first.
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Re: Rant of the day....How is this so fucking hard
Missviktoria,
I would have to say that I feel your pain. Actually, your post highlight the problems faced by many minority women in this industry. But you can take control over your money and your career as well. Now, there is some casual racism and xenophobia that happens in this industry all of the time. But you can have more control over your money and career as well. First, have you try to auction at mixed clubs? Mixed clubs sound like it could be great for you. Have you thought about doing something else besides stripping as well? If you are not making that much stripping at your current club; then try some more other business ventures. You can make some good money in camming, clips, and phone sex. You can make money off stripping clips and sell them everywhere from Rude.com to Clips4sale. Girl, do not let those haters even in management get you down.
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missviktoria
I am fucking tired of not being able to work in quality strip clubs because of my race, like maybe its just my home state but its beyond irritating and then the clubs I do get into are the most ghetto and ratchet with bitches with bad weaves, poor attitudes and chips on their shoulders so big you'd think it was a black hole ready to swallow you whole or full of trailer park crack heads literally! Like, I’m well spoken, in shape, always make sure my hair and make up is right but somehow someway the only thing I’m missing is being anything but black. What makes a white girl that much more deserving of you paying her to sit there and talk to you than me? When customers talk to me they are looking for a freak ho....I don’t even know how to flirt! let along talk dirty to you!!! like I wanna talk about movies and all that jazz but those convos are reserved for the delicate little white cherry blossoms... Like I’m in the same boat as these girls and yet people just assume I don’t need to make money that I’m ok with showing my ass and tits for free! little do they know I don’t even go to the fucking beach, I dress like a nun on a daily basis....Like I don’t get it...Why am I a broke stripper? Like I have bruises and aches and pains from pole tricks that I forced myself to learn, I practice everyday to make sure my floor work is flawless, I spend all my time avoiding certain foods and working out to be more appealing but I guess I just need to whiten my skin. Like I'm really not trying to be rude, but race is truly a huge component is whether you make money or don't so no one can tell me it's my attitude or my appearance. I've auditioned at clubs where the customers were all white men and they all tipped me and came and spoke to me after yet management said I'm not what they're looking for....I thought it's about having what the customers want to see
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Thanks everyone! I definitely needed to read these kind words, I was really starting to feel like I was the only one! I have been looking at opportunities in various areas and hopefully, I'll be able to make some magic happen
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Have you considered traveling?
Re: Rant of the day....How is this so fucking hard
I'm not going to lie or sugar coat anything, it's always going to be this way especially in the ADULT industry.Most of the time you will be judged on your complexion first then looks afterwards.You are definitely not the only brown beauty to feel this way I get like this too at times but at the end of the day we can't change people & their ignorance.We just have to make due with the cards we've been dealt honestly.It is and will be harder for us but at the end of the day there's still plenty of money to be made.Never let it really get to your head. Remember for those that don't like there will always be those that will like.
I have a few ideas & wanted to let you know the pros & cons about camming:
Webcam is another way you could go they generally make decent to really good money
Pros:
You don't have to meet anyone face to face
Work on your time
Flexible
Work from wherever you are
More work & effort you put in the better the success
Cons:
Online Stalkers/ Hackers
People can record your shows & make profit off your shows
Some ladies have had their REAL information exposed & weird custies who knew their info
Traveling to places where chocolate is in demand.Like I mentioned there is a demand for attractive, articulate, and pulled together brown beauties.Just have to go to the right places.