Kissing on the first date or nah?
Ok so I eventually went on date with hot guy but at the end i think he wanted to kiss but I just could not. First I haven't kissed in a while and second I just can't do it on the first date. Maybe I'm a prude I don't know.
Do y'all kiss on the first date or do you wait to make sure there is romantic chemistry?
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That's a big nono. I will wait until the second time I bed him.
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I say it depends on if there is chemistry, if he can make me giggle, similarities and a good connection by the end of the date. Just don't know where their lips have been or what else they kiss on the side.. He could finger his nostrils and make a feast of his boogers for all I'd know. :-\
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I kiss on the first date is it feels right and when it happens I love it.
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I would say that it depends. Usually, I wait until the third to fifth date to kiss. However, if the guy is more of a fling/booty call than making out after dessert is cool. If want more long term, than third to sixth date is perfect. Make him feel a bit special :)
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Omg Bambi cutie that's funny as hell!!!
I'm not exactly sure if he's dating other people so yeah his lips could have just been in some carpets if you know what I mean.
I wouldn't have minded if he kissed me on the cheek but I think I was worried that if I let him close to my face he would try to kiss me on the lips and if I let him kiss my lips he'd try to tongue me down. Like give a man an inch and he'll take a mile.
And my mind was also thinking like what you said Donna Diabla like if I kiss this guy on the lips his mind is probably going to go into thinking about sex and he may put me in the one night stand or smash and dash category.
It's like how do you know a guys going to remain a gentleman if you let him kiss you on first date? Idk. Maybe I'm over thinking.
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Found helpful article from yourtango.com
The pros and cons to consider when deciding if you should kiss on the first date.
"Going on a first date has it's own stress. Thinking of kissing your date is even more stressful than the anticipation of the date. Dating tips for women experts have mixed opinions about kissing strangers.
Some experts say that kissing on the first date is not appropriate, especially if it is a blind date. Other experts claim that kissing on the first date is informative — as it will quickly tell you about the person's bedroom style. However, the truth is there are many pros and cons to kissing on the first date. Let me point a few out for you, then you can decide what's best!
The pros: Kissing on the first day can help you determine just how bad a man wants and respects you. If he is attracted to you, he will most likely give you a sensual kiss if he feels the kiss has been reciprocated. If he respects you, he will acknowledge that it is your first date and not choose to take it any further than a kiss. However, if he's offering to take you to the nearest hotel, he's a loser.
Kissing on the first date can also leave the two of you anxious for the next date, which is very exciting. If the guy wants to kiss you, this is good confirmation that he's into you! Use it to your advantage and have them panting for you as they wait for the next date.
The cons: Keep in mind that any kind of physical interaction can lead to something more than just a kiss. If you're looking for a long-term relationship, kissing may not be the way to go on the first date. It is traditional to allow a brief peck on the cheek. However, if you've had a few drinks and just can't seem to keep your hands off each other, then you may have made a mistake.
Other than the fact that he could be a horrible kisser, you probably don't know enough about him to kiss him as of yet. There are so many STDs to consider. These days, you have to be careful about all parts of your body — including your mouth. If he seems like a guy that gets around, you may want to make sure you're the only one he's kissing to the best of your knowledge.
If you must exchange a kiss, try allowing him to do so on the your cheek or perhaps even your hand. A real gentleman wouldn’t mind this and would appreciate your prudence. Remember that he is observing you as well.
In short, by now you know that deciding to kiss a guy on the first date is completely up to you. If you feel that it will go well, then take a chance but know your boundaries. However, if you choose to wait, then that's fine too. Remember that either decision is the right decision so long as you're comfortable about with it!"
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Nah. I think it honestly makes them judge you ( even guys who you'd think are progressive ).
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^^^exactly what I was thinking.
I think they're judging whether we miss them or not. Like if we don't kiss then we're a prude, a lesbian, etc but if we do kiss then we risk being judged as easy or something. Can't win for losing.
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It's whatever YOU feel good about doing and what feels right and how much you've clicked. Fuck what they think, men who look down on specifically women for their right to say yes to sex/kissing are pieces of crap not worth a second though much less a second date. I've kissed on the first date and w/ other men I've waited for a few weeks. It totally depends in the guy and your chemistry. And if a simple kiss somehow leads him to thinking you're automatically down for sex and he gets pushy he's also a total piece. You want a dude who respects your right to say no and yes whenever you feel like it
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I don't think there's any wrong answer to this. I've been with the same guy for eleven years and we slept together far before we were even close to official. And before that I had no qualms about fucking on the first date if I wanted to. I like to test drive before getting too involved because if a guy is a bad kisser, has a little dick, or won't eat pussy I want to know because those are all dealbreakers for me. Not that I need to ever worry about that again. :D:D:D
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As a guy I voted "depends".
I've never turned down a good makeout with a woman I am attracted to, first date or not. However, I've been on some dates where it ended just short of a full on makeout session and more, and the second dates with these women are so much hotter. Of the two, I'd say the women who clearly want to lock lips and get naked but we wait are the sort you can't get out of your mind. Take that for what you will.