Karma for newbie stripper, sigh I really am a veteran lol
So no matter what, I will not approach a customer if another girl is sitting with him. Last weekend my regular went to my stage while I was on and when I got offstage he went back to our table to wait for me. During this songs worth of time between me getting offstage and washing my hands, another girl went up to him. She was twerking on his face and he would kindly put his arm off. She tried straddling him and he just gently pushed her off. She tried putting her leg on his and he would move her leg. So she was pretty aggressive about it. During all these advances my customer was waving me down and clearly telling her her he was waiting for me. I refused to go even though I was being called. This story is just to demonstrate how serious i am about not approaching customers while another girl is there. He finally got the picture and took her off of him and worked over to where I was standing.
Yesterday it was pretty slow and the customers were few. I had Sat down with a customer and began introducing myself etc etc. I was about a song into our conversation and had started conditioning him to dance lol. Well newbie stripper walks by and blows a kiss at him, as I'm sitting there. He smiles and says hello. She plops herself down next to him and begins talking to him. She just Acts like I'm not there and she starts going on and on. This whole time I'm sitting there awkward like a dumbass. After a song of being ignored by both her and the customer, I get up and walk away to another customer. I was really upset at first. I was pretty angry because I felt disrespected. So I end up making ALL my money for the day from the customer I walked up to next. This girl ended up sitting with the rude customer for about an hr or more and he never got a dance from her, and only bought her one of the draft beers on sale. She then bitched in the dressing room about rude Customer wasting her time.
I must Say I was slightly pleased. Vengeance is not the answer but not only did she indirectly lead me to my whale but she also saved me the energy I would've spend with rude dude and she also learned a lesson hopefully lol. Any customer willing to ignore a dancer that's already sitting with him like nothing won't care about you eithet, and dsnt value your time and that you're here to make money.
Re: Karma for newbie stripper, sigh I really am a veteran lol
BahahaHaha. Take that vulcher dancer. I hate when petty broads are so blatenly rude and disrespectful.
I shoe them away and put them in check because most times dudes won't say anything cause they slick like the women fighting over them. Regulars I had trained to shoe the desperate girls away.
Good thing you didn't really have to lift a finger for them to learn a lesson.
Re: Karma for newbie stripper, sigh I really am a veteran lol
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So no matter what, I will not approach a customer if another girl is sitting with him. Last weekend my regular went to my stage while I was on and when I got offstage he went back to our table to wait for me. During this songs worth of time between me getting offstage and washing my hands, another girl went up to him. She was twerking on his face and he would kindly put his arm off. She tried straddling him and he just gently pushed her off. She tried putting her leg on his and he would move her leg. So she was pretty aggressive about it. During all these advances my customer was waving me down and clearly telling her her he was waiting for me. I refused to go even though I was being called. This story is just to demonstrate how serious i am about not approaching customers while another girl is there. He finally got the picture and took her off of him and worked over to where I was standing.
Yesterday it was pretty slow and the customers were few. I had Sat down with a customer and began introducing myself etc etc. I was about a song into our conversation and had started conditioning him to dance lol. Well newbie stripper walks by and blows a kiss at him, as I'm sitting there. He smiles and says hello. She plops herself down next to him and begins talking to him. She just Acts like I'm not there and she starts going on and on. This whole time I'm sitting there awkward like a dumbass. After a song of being ignored by both her and the customer, I get up and walk away to another customer. I was really upset at first. I was pretty angry because I felt disrespected. So I end up making ALL my money for the day from the customer I walked up to next. This girl ended up sitting with the rude customer for about an hr or more and he never got a dance from her, and only bought her one of the draft beers on sale. She then bitched in the dressing room about rude Customer wasting her time.
I must Say I was slightly pleased. Vengeance is not the answer but not only did she indirectly lead me to my whale but she also saved me the energy I would've spend with rude dude and she also learned a lesson hopefully lol. Any customer willing to ignore a dancer that's already sitting with him like nothing won't care about you eithet, and dsnt value your time and that you're here to make money.
This happened to me once. Spent several minutes with a customer and another dancer plopped down. I was like, excuse me, wtf??? So I got up and away from the non-spender, only to land myself in a VIP not even 5 minutes later.
Hope that dancer enjoyed having her time wasted haha... :devil:
Re: Karma for newbie stripper, sigh I really am a veteran lol
I used to have a CR customer that would come in once a week and make my whole week. Well one night I was in the back when he got there, it was a busy night and a girl approached him and told him I wasn't there, she knew I was we always sit next to each other in the dressing room, but everyone knew when he was there I was in VIP the rest of the night. (I had him kinda thinking the only way to spend time with a girl was to be in a CR... we would go in right when he got there and stay until he left...) He was always really polite with me, we would do two songs of dancing and then just talk and buy bottles.
So I guess she pushing him to spend more, shots and such. He ended up getting totally drunk, taking his dick out, and while getting kicked out he had an accident, and the bouncers said it made the room gross. So two reasons this worked out, he had this in him and I got to miss it all. And she had to deal with it lol
Re: Karma for newbie stripper, sigh I really am a veteran lol
Well I'm glad it worked in your favor! :) I hate cunts like this. With the first scenerio, you were absolutely right in going back to the table if you wanted bc the seed was already planted....but you didn't have to, which made it better.
Second chic should think... he wasn't a gentleman with you, chances are he was definitely not going to be a pleasant customer with her. Rude guys like that are rarely spenders or tend to be a handful. Good riddance, and yes.... karma is a bitch!
Re: Karma for newbie stripper, sigh I really am a veteran lol
Karma is only an icy bitch if you are. :)
I only sit down at a table where another girl is, if said dude she is entertaining has a friend and they're a party of 3. Gotta even it out! It actually works out in favor of selling doubles, double VIPs, and, if its the right girl, we can feed off each other's personalities and make it really fun for us, and entertaining for them. But, THAT IS THE ONLY TIME in my opinion, that table sharing is acceptable. Vulture cunts are annoying as shit, and I love when regulars put them in their place.
Re: Karma for newbie stripper, sigh I really am a veteran lol
Lmao! I know this is old, but the OP's story reminds me of what happened to me a while back. I'm giving a customer a dance, and he told me to keep going for as long as I wanted. I'm barely in the middle of the second dance when another dancer comes over and sits right next to the customer and wraps her arm and leg around him--while I'm still dancing. Not only was she in the way, but she was talking shit about me the whole time like I couldn't hear what she was saying. I guess that was her way of trying to steal my customer, but anyway, the customer tells me to go dance for his friend. He was still paying me and I could still go as long as I wanted. He lets the girl dance for him, and one dance was all she got. He bought her a drink after, and they both just kept watching me while I'm dancing for the customer's friend. I heard her ask for another dance from the customer, and he declined. Needless to say, I made bank and while I don't like to gloat on stuff like that, I feel like karma really came through for me. On top of all of that, the customer told me that he "sees why I have haters." LOL. Now the customer is my regular.
Sometimes, the petty things people say and do are your stepping stones (not just in the club, but in life). As long as you do the right thing, stay focused, and remain professional, the Universe will reward you accordingly. :)
Re: Karma for newbie stripper, sigh I really am a veteran lol
^^ Like I always say, the Universe knows what's up.
Re: Karma for newbie stripper, sigh I really am a veteran lol
When I am with a group, I still like to be left alone with them because I am most likely feeling out the spenders vs the "I am just here to drink" guys . & to add to that, I want to dance with every guy in the group who wants dances rather than sharing my money . Having a friend or partner in the club is different...
Re: Karma for newbie stripper, sigh I really am a veteran lol
LOL...it would have been funnier if he rejected her and got dances with you ALL night and then you should put HER in her place like, fucking sitting next to a custie... on a next shift; you see her.....
Re: Karma for newbie stripper, sigh I really am a veteran lol
This last Monday was my first day in the club. I had just got off stage from a HORRIBLE first dance. As I was walking away from stage another girl was with a customer who started talking to
me and reasuring me. I didn't know what to do. I politely smiled and thanked him then looked at her like "I'm sorry! How do I get out of this?" She was really nice and initiated conversation with me too. I just felt so bad. I didn't want to take away from her time. I'm working again tomorrow and she's coming in early with me to teach me some pole tricks and how to be a better performer.