Sorry this has probably already been asked 1000 times but do y'all have any good videos giving tutorial on lapdance? I had no idea what I was doing last Saturday :spin:
Or even just written tips would help a lot! thanku :biggrin:
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Sorry this has probably already been asked 1000 times but do y'all have any good videos giving tutorial on lapdance? I had no idea what I was doing last Saturday :spin:
Or even just written tips would help a lot! thanku :biggrin:
Depends on the contact level allowed. I work in what I consider a moderate contact club... a standard dance is as follows:
You can start off climbing into a straddle and taking your time to undo your top. Sway around like that, play with your boobs, some girls will motorboat the guy. Then you can put one leg down and rub up and down (it doesn't have to be against his junk necessarily). Then put both legs down, body slide down to a kneeling position. By that point (if you do it slow enough), you've dragged it out so long that the song is almost over by now. Make sure you're in some new 'exciting' position so they want to continue into a 2nd song.
You'll figure out your own 'routine' for the 1st dance, 2nd dance, etc. I am basically a robot with an order of movements to go through. Of course if the dude is obviously enjoying something a lot, especially towards the end of a song, you can totally keep doing it, as he will probably continue into the next song.
Other things:
I have good success upgrading to VIP with the 'hair curtain', eye contact, nails on their neck or playing with their shirt buttons, etc.
Some of the lecherous old men that wear gym shorts are easy bait; they are looking for high mileage, so running fingers under like, the bottom ½" of their shorts (which is really just above their knee, but they get excited because you are UNDER the fabric even if it's nowhere near their junk) makes them think they'll get more. These guys will sell VIP to themselves... and then of course I tease the shit out of them in there, but I don't do extras... and that takes them 10 minutes to figure out, at which point I have $60-$80 of their money. But if you're not comfortable doing that sort of nonsense, don't do it :)
YouTube is your friend.
But yeah the above tips are good.
I will make a point to ask the guy what their favorite part of the woman is. Some will say thighs, or butt, or boobs, etc. even had guys say eyes or hair. Then make a point to showcase that feature while dancing for them
Also get a chair and maybe even a friend and mirrors, play some music and just practice.
I try to keep from getting directly on their crotch. Some pervy guys will try to get you to grind on them and sadly will get way too stimulated so keep that in mind as it could cross into extras land. I also try to switch up my moves every few seconds so if I happen to land directly in their lap It won't be just straight grinding on them.
But they should be good seeing you dance in front of them. Bend over show off your ass, jiggle, twerk, etc. sometimes I stand over them and let them caress the sides of my legs.
I'll also tickle their neck and ears with my breath.
Just basically move to the music and tease the hell out of their a$$
You could also peep what other dancers are doing just be careful and try not to get caught staring lol.
The instructional video thread is where I got my start. Specifically, anything by StripXpertease is good info. You'll be able to put together a basic dance from her beginner videos that require minimum fitness/dance experience, but that's still sexy.
My cheat code early on was to be a handsy mofo, with the exception of certain areas, and also to time out moving in close and moving away. So, dancing between his legs for a "striptease" for the first bit to maybe 1/3 of the song (depends on what kind of outfit you're wearing - I also liked to wear layers/accessories so I could take off my top the first song... then my skirt the second, let my hair down the third, maybe, or take off clunky jewelry/accessories, etc.).
In close: anything with contact. Preferably things that are really close to his face so you surround more or less all of his senses -- this is where it pays to get handsy. Have one hand trailing down his arm while the other moves up his chest. One hand sneaks around his ribs while the other works up through his hair (optional) to the top of his head. Keep them doing different things at different places. Scatter his brain so the only thing he can focus on is you. Maybe move your thigh against the inside of his and give him the sexy bedroom eyes while you do this, or breathe in his ear/against his neck. Make it physically hot from your combined body heat, bonus point if his breath catches at any point, and then move away. It helps the situation literally cool down, and can be teasy as everything.
Out far away: Air dance, or close to it. The only things being touched are his knees. Pose, turn, dance where he can see you. Run your hands over your body, that sort of thing. From there, you can transition back to being in close. The trick is all about the timing -- you don't want to be in either mode too long. He'll either expect you to spend the whole dance in close, or get frustrated that you spend too much time far away. You probably only want to transition a couple, maybe three times over the course of the song, and you definitely want to try and time the song to end on an "in close" note, so things are just starting to get sexy and warm up again when that darn DJ cuts your fun short.
Thank you guys for the tips!
The way the club I work at works is like, its private lap dances in these tiny tiny rooms, where one end has a couch and he sits there and the other end has all the pretty lights etc. The couch is right up against the wall, so you cant go behind it or anything. And its not like, paying for songs or whatever, they just pay for a time amount with you. so 10mins /15 / all the way up to an hour. And its either no contact (sits on his hands) or he pays double and then contact is allowed (just not between the legs obv and girls arent allowed near his junk)