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I love how Instagram will show you just how horny your friends are. Lately Ive noticed that a few of the people I follow spend their time liking post for half naked men lmao. Insta will tell on that ass in a second :)
In other news this guy kills me. I watch his clips almost every morning on Instagram @majahhype and I love his #hectorhorayrivera series. I dare you to not smile while watching this https://www.instagram.com/p/BcFO84QHXSs/
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So, the conversation started with a black woman who's been doing SW for years talking about "you need to go undercover sometimes as a white woman to make money doing Phone sex" and then there's this little clique of a few black girls that have been doing SW not even that long dragging her talking about, "If you're black and feel like you need to make money being white then you're insecure." "cat fishing is wrong!" "Using other peoples photos can hurt them and impact their lives!" And here I am, I don't usually do that back and forth Twitter drama or correct ignorant ass people but I had to. I basically told them that there are literally companies that create stock images for PSO's and Porn companies for advertisement. Like the models literally sign a release form and whoever buys their content can do anything they please with it (depending on license agreement.) Come on now you look stupid as hell with yo green ass. Talking about "Tricking men is wrong" when did this become wholesome sex work???? Like what happened to "Get it how you live," and "Finesse these dudes and get yo coin." That's how I could tell they brand new. Like in Findom there's this huge racial divide, and it's the elephant in the room and nobody wants to talk about it, it's sickening. I literally see white girls getting 100's dropped on them, but Black Dommes have to pry for $40-50 measly ass dollars. And then we have colorism and none of the girls want to admit if they're racial ambiguous then they're still more favorable, they pull the "We all black" shit.
P.S. Just because we have like 3 black Dommes who make thousands a day doesn't mean everything is peachy keen for the rest of us
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Originally Posted by
PhatGirlDynomite!!!
Here's an example
Ex. Welllll actually black women can make money without being white I did it! And I make wayyyyyy more money that way so actually you're wrong
That how :)
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Goldenx.Chiquis
Here's an example
Ex. Welllll actually black women can make money without being white I did it! And I make wayyyyyy more money that way so actually you're wrong
That how :)
If you cant handle opposing view points then you shouldn't post on the internet. And this is coming from a woman of color who makes a ton of money as a woman of color. You are entitled to your perspective but you cant just drop something like that and then tell people not to respond. To be honest it seems like you only wrote that to stir the pot.
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PhatGirlDynomite!!!
If you cant handle opposing view points then you shouldn't post on the internet. And this is coming from a woman of color who makes a ton of money as a woman of color. You are entitled to your perspective but you cant just drop something like that and then tell people not to respond. To be honest it seems like you only wrote that to stir the pot.
Ehhhhh not really but ok. *Shrug* lol
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I am a woman of color. My background is West African and English. I have always believed that your ability to make money in the adult industry is largely tied to your understanding of what your audience wants. It is not based on gender, sexual orientation, ethnicity, class, income level, education, etc. My greatest assets are my innate understanding of sexuality and my playful, sensual nature. I understand men. I always have and I always will. I collect men. I always have and I always will. This sounds soooooo terrible, but since I was about 5 years old, I have attracted male admirers. I did not understand how to capitalize or monetize this until I was about 18 or 19 years old. In college I met a few girls at school who were sugar babies, strippers, hostesses, etc. Since then, I basically charge men a rate to admire me and to associate with me.
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Originally Posted by
Goldenx.Chiquis
So, the conversation started with a black woman who's been doing SW for years talking about "you need to go undercover sometimes as a white woman to make money doing Phone sex" and then there's this little clique of a few black girls that have been doing SW not even that long dragging her talking about, "If you're black and feel like you need to make money being white then you're insecure." "cat fishing is wrong!" "Using other peoples photos can hurt them and impact their lives!" And here I am, I don't usually do that back and forth Twitter drama or correct ignorant ass people but I had to. I basically told them that there are literally companies that create stock images for PSO's and Porn companies for advertisement. Like the models literally sign a release form and whoever buys their content can do anything they please with it (depending on license agreement.) Come on now you look stupid as hell with yo green ass. Talking about "Tricking men is wrong" when did this become wholesome sex work???? Like what happened to "Get it how you live," and "Finesse these dudes and get yo coin." That's how I could tell they brand new. Like in Findom there's this huge racial divide, and it's the elephant in the room and nobody wants to talk about it, it's sickening. I literally see white girls getting 100's dropped on them, but Black Dommes have to pry for $40-50 measly ass dollars. And then we have colorism and none of the girls want to admit if they're racial ambiguous then they're still more favorable, they pull the "We all black" shit.
P.S. Just because we have like 3 black Dommes who make thousands a day doesn't mean everything is peachy keen for the rest of us
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As a woman, you NEED to understand what it is about YOU that men cannot resist. You need to analyze your uniqueness. You need to develop a keen amount of self-awareness. That is what you give to a man. You give it, but you ALSO withhold it. It is a seductive dance of sorts. Too many women are not succeeding because they give too much away. In real life AND in their online life. Never give a man EVERYTHING!!! Never give a man ALL of you. Men like a conquest. By nature they love the hunt. Reveal little bits here and there. I have been with my husband for 20 years. He is always amazed when he uncovers new things about me. That is because I intend for it to be that way. He will never know the COMPLETE me. I let him uncover one veil at a time. And there are SEVERAL veils. I can keep that game going forever. And men LOVE that. I do the same thing with my customers.
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Goldenx.Chiquis
So, the conversation started with a black woman who's been doing SW for years talking about "you need to go undercover sometimes as a white woman to make money doing Phone sex" and then there's this little clique of a few black girls that have been doing SW not even that long dragging her talking about, "If you're black and feel like you need to make money being white then you're insecure." "cat fishing is wrong!" "Using other peoples photos can hurt them and impact their lives!" And here I am, I don't usually do that back and forth Twitter drama or correct ignorant ass people but I had to. I basically told them that there are literally companies that create stock images for PSO's and Porn companies for advertisement. Like the models literally sign a release form and whoever buys their content can do anything they please with it (depending on license agreement.) Come on now you look stupid as hell with yo green ass. Talking about "Tricking men is wrong" when did this become wholesome sex work???? Like what happened to "Get it how you live," and "Finesse these dudes and get yo coin." That's how I could tell they brand new. Like in Findom there's this huge racial divide, and it's the elephant in the room and nobody wants to talk about it, it's sickening. I literally see white girls getting 100's dropped on them, but Black Dommes have to pry for $40-50 measly ass dollars. And then we have colorism and none of the girls want to admit if they're racial ambiguous then they're still more favorable, they pull the "We all black" shit.
P.S. Just because we have like 3 black Dommes who make thousands a day doesn't mean everything is peachy keen for the rest of us
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My message To Women of Color:
YOU ARE MORE THAN YOUR SKIN COLOR!!! YOU ARE NOT A SKIN COLOR!!! YOUR SKIN COLOR DOES NOT DETERMINE YOUR DESTINY!!! YOUR COLOR DOES NOT DETERMINE YOUR WORTH!!! YOUR COLOR DOES NOT DETERMINE WHO WILL LOVE YOU!! COLOR IS AN OPTICAL ILLUSION!!!
Please write this down. Memorize this. Internalize this. Begin to realize all the beauty that is within you. The brain is the most powerful sex organ. You might attract a man with your beautiful face and body. You will retain a man forever once you learn how to use your beautiful mind to manipulate and train the weak male mind. Many of you stop at the manipulation. You need to include the programming and training part too. It's a simple as that.
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I passed my Medical Terminology class! WOO HOO YASSSSS I've been waiting for that teacher to put the damn grade in all week! THANK YA HIGHER POWERS *Happy dance* Now to my second semester of massage therapy school here I come and then I'll have my Technical degree, working on my associates!;D;D;D;D;D;D;D
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I'm trying to find that old post from Sam38g where she was talking about what happened to a female friend of hers (male friend taking advantage of her by slipping something into her drink, because he felt he was "entitled" to a hookup, due to their years of friendship). I'm gonna use the search feature on here to find it, because there is a woman in this Facebook Single Moms group who's venting to us about some disturbing behavior from a guy she's been "friends" with for 14 years. For some reason, I instantly remembered what Sam said on here, and it was a very eye-opening post. I swear, there is so much knowledge coming from that woman.
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Whats on my mind...Duran Duran....why do I not own any of their albums from the 1980s. I used to love them when I was growing up (especially in 84-85 era). I just ordered a bunch of their cds. I've been listening to them alot lately on youtube.
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seashell
I think I'm gonna take a break from token sites. They're tricky for me because my timezone doesn't match up well with peak times, and I'm also not that entertaining, haha. My room has been sooo dead! I think the reason I had some success in the past was because I used a tip activated toy, which I no longer have. I am so much happier doing only indy cam. Gonna focus on that, PSO, and texting for the rest of the month.
Can I ask where you are indy camming (which website)? I am sick of token websites but can't seem to find the fitting indy cam website for me : ((
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seashell
I think I'm gonna take a break from token sites. They're tricky for me because my timezone doesn't match up well with peak times, and I'm also not that entertaining, haha. My room has been sooo dead! I think the reason I had some success in the past was because I used a tip activated toy, which I no longer have. I am so much happier doing only indy cam. Gonna focus on that, PSO, and texting for the rest of the month.
When seems to be peak times for you? Because when I've been on it's been dead too!
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Susperia
Whats on my mind...Duran Duran....why do I not own any of their albums from the 1980s. I used to love them when I was growing up (especially in 84-85 era). I just ordered a bunch of their cds. I've been listening to them alot lately on youtube.
Love 80's rock. Yacht Rock, The British invasion of the early 80's, big hair rock, The entire decade! I've been watching a lot of 80's movies lately and the soundtracks are awesome and mostly british bands. Why did you order cd's and not digital downloads?
Not Duran Duran but here's some Wham for ya!
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=E8gmARGvPlI
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George Michael was so damn pretty.
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PhatGirlDynomite!!!
Love 80's rock. Yacht Rock, The British invasion of the early 80's, big hair rock, The entire decade! I've been watching a lot of 80's movies lately and the soundtracks are awesome and mostly british bands. Why did you order cd's and not digital downloads?
Not Duran Duran but here's some Wham for ya!
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=E8gmARGvPlI
Lol, I have been listening yesterday, to this song. I like the video too! It shows how the young generation was having fun back then.... Sooooo cute!
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Oooh! If we are talking about Christmas songs, this one is my favorite because it is so weird. I used to hear it every year working retail.
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ZM9k5PRF3Oc
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Cutie101
Lol, I have been listening yesterday, to this song. I like the video too! It shows how the young generation was having fun back then.... Sooooo cute!
I came of age in the 90's and but we had all the cassette tapes and vhs movies from that time and it really did look like everything was pure fun. I know there was a downside of course but it didn't seem like people were too fazed. The 90s is when people got so conscious and politically aware of everything. Not a bad thing but definitely different. I think that's why I've been watching so many 80's films lately. I needed a break from all of the heavy stuff.
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naomi_doll
Oooo good one! Never heard this before. Thank you!
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Originally Posted by
PhatGirlDynomite!!!
Love 80's rock. Yacht Rock, The British invasion of the early 80's, big hair rock, The entire decade! I've been watching a lot of 80's movies lately and the soundtracks are awesome and mostly british bands. Why did you order cd's and not digital downloads?
Not Duran Duran but here's some Wham for ya!
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=E8gmARGvPlI
Actually, I was listening to this song yesterday. And, today, since you posted :))). I also, love the video. It's so cool to see how the young generations were dressing and having fun back then! Those videos are priceless!
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Originally Posted by
PhatGirlDynomite!!!
Love 80's rock. Yacht Rock, The British invasion of the early 80's, big hair rock, The entire decade! I've been watching a lot of 80's movies lately and the soundtracks are awesome and mostly british bands. Why did you order cd's and not digital downloads?
Not Duran Duran but here's some Wham for ya!
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=E8gmARGvPlI
Well I am a music collector. I have vinyl, cassettes and cds. They are very special to me. I still have all my records from the 80s. The cds came with a digital rip on amazon. I prefer to get my records from a record store though....I actually went to one yesterday and got an Adam Ant cd and another Duran Duran cd...lol.
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btw I love John Hughes films from the 80s!!! Breakfast Club, 16 Candles, Planes Tranes & AUtomobiles, Uncle Buck.....the list goes on....that was the great era! I miss the simple and carefree times of the 80s (I'm 42 btw).
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This guy just sent me a picture of a Gucci bag and asked if I wanted it. I dont even like purses but whatever, if you want to give me something fuck yeah. So then he said that he wanted me to send him a video first, I explained I needed payment before the video and I dont take gifts as payment, it went on forever, a massive waste of time.
What REALLY pisses me off though is he thinks he can just wave a shiny new bag in front of a girls face and she'll send him whatever he wants? I'm not a fucking horse, you cant wave a carrot in front of my face and expect me to do whatever you want. I hate this attitude of "oh she gets naked online, she must be an idiot" or "girls like expensive bags, they'll be willing to do anything to maybe get one". They think we're so gullible, it's frustrating. Usually I block time wasters and move on but this one just made so mad I just had to vent about it >:(
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Susperia
btw I love John Hughes films from the 80s!!! Breakfast Club, 16 Candles, Planes Tranes & AUtomobiles, Uncle Buck.....the list goes on....that was the great era! I miss the simple and carefree times of the 80s (I'm 42 btw).
Almost every movie I've watched in the last two weeks was a John Hughes film. Next up
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