I so love creative internet handles. Just now on twitter I came across this one "Trump Is Putin's Fleshlight" :) :) :)
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I so love creative internet handles. Just now on twitter I came across this one "Trump Is Putin's Fleshlight" :) :) :)
Self reflection sucks. My earnings for the first part of the year sucked and I have only myself to blame. I have discovered that tracking my earnings daily can desensitize me to how I are doing over all. I decided to do semiannual reviews this year of my earnings across all of my sites. I just finished and it was like a punch in the face. I slacked off severely at the beginning of the year because of vanilla work and illness. I can only justify one month out of the five months due to recovering from a serious surgery related to the illness. Thankfully after my recovery from surgery, I have been seriously working so June was good for me and July is turning out great. Maybe I should do quarterly reviews from now on because it has motivated me to really step up my game and keep it up.
Broke depressed and feeling too unattractive and tired to cam with all my bartending shifts
Same, but substitute bartending shifts with taking care of a 4 month old baby, that has no concept of sleep or a freaking schedule. Suprisingly, I have been getting on cam and doing good but I've been super hard on myself lately and I would feel like trash if I missed a work shift.
My dude has to be one of the 10 guys on Earth who would probably marry a stripper or something. I got on cam for the first (serious) time two days ago and he came to my chat room and played my hype man. If someone took me to private I’d get a text from him on my iPad saying stuff like “kill em in there”. it was really encouraging.
Dang. My man's feelings are very hurt by cam, so I try to be really inclusive with him and make sure he sees I'm not hiding anything and I try to include him in the talk about camming like it's a normal job.
My mind is on money... And how there's just never enough and I don't know what I'm gonna do if SM doesn't pick up in the next couple days!
It’s good that you have your focus. My kids father considered it cheating when I first tried camming like 7 years ago and he found out about it. I mean, he really had the whole angry/bewildered reaction and played out the betrayal process like he caught me in bed with his brother or something. and he saw no logic behind it other than me just wanting to be a slut. If I had kept that focus of yours back then (and was confident in my worth) I think I would have kept at it.
You can at least have the conversation with him. That’s damn good.
Nita, my man reacted that way at first -- We had a terrible day-long fight where he was NOT nice... But once I actually logged in and showed him all the time, work, etc that goes into it, and once I brought him into making clips with me, he seemed to take it a little better. He still hates it and is hurt by it, but he understands now that it's all about the money for me, for us both, and he appreciates what I do. :/ Last bf just degraded me for it. Men -- they love to use the service but just don't want THEIR woman doing it.
I am obsessed with this Youtube Chanel. Travel Thirsty I swear it's like a stoner's paradise! Exotic seafood straight from the ocean and then prepared into several dishes. But it's not really the end result that's so appealing it's preparation that blows my mind.
I have gained a bit of weight and I'm making lesser on cam. My depression is increasing again like almost each summer so idk how I can get through this summer.
Oh, so you’ve already witnessed the ugliness firsthand. Again, I’m glad you haven’t quit. And I hope he continues to see the hustle that this job really is and even develops respect for you for it. Honestly, men could take a note from the way women grind. *Hugs*
These guys keep trying to get me to give them my Snap, IG, Email, phone number, Facebook, Twitter info and have asked multiple times to connect on FaceTime since my iPad was within view of the camera last night. I know that my phone and email are a HELL NAHH but I feel like I’m deflecting some other viable money makers.
Yesterday a guy mentioned flying me out to NY and I played the polite, “oh I could never accept that. That’s incredibly sweet” role so he took me private and went on about how serious he was and said that if I agreed then he’d get the tickets now. It was at least a 5 min convo so that was an easy 20 bucks. From the offers to fly me out to NY or Miami to the requests for my Snap name I have no idea what requests are okay to entertain. (I have three kids and no desire to travel out and see a guy. So that’s never happening. Plus I’m boo’d up and wanna keep it that way)
I read somewhere in these threads that some of you add regs to Snap through some premium version? I know nothing about Snap chat but I’d hate to be passing up on passive income so early in the game just to kick myself later. How does that work? How the hell would I monetize IG? I have no idea what to do outside of hustling for pvts.
I sure do miss the sun. I may have to get my dog some Xanax to handle these thunderstorms. Poor thing, I walked into the room and he was sitting in the corner with his face to the wall. Like Blair Witch style! It freaked me out.
I ALWAYS say that my dog is "Blair Witch"ing it when he stares at a wall. Your poor dog. That makes me sad.
I've been obsessing about my dog lately. He's older and slowing down. It's got me so anxious. Yesterday, a friend's dog passed away then I saw on FB that another friend's dog passed tonight. It's so upsetting.
I can relate to these feelings. My dog is 11 yrs old and around May he started having all sorts of issues. Its like his age caught up with him overnight. I honestly think that my stress levels due to this may have had something to do with me getting sick a few weeks ago. This dog is like a child to me, so I understand.
He has a condition that Id never heard of before called a collapsing trachea. If I had known that this even existed I would have had him on a harness over a collar years ago. He's doing much better and has gotten his energy back. But I hover over him and jump up everytime he sounds like he may start coughing. Giving him a tiny portion of honey every day has helped that. It works for inflammation and coughing. If you ever have an questions or need suggestions for homeopathic pet care I can hook it up.
So I started dating a guy a few months ago, the first time we hooked up he told me he likes feet and I thought "great". I've always hated foot fetish guys on cam, at least in my experience they just want freebies and I can hardly ever get them to spend. I really like this guy so I figured why not indulge him, turns out I really like it irl. He's easy to please because of it and the endless foot rubs are awesome. The downside is I've been camming for 8 years and always knew fetishes can be the equivalent vanilla sex to people with them but now I feel like I actually have a total grasp of that and while the constant foot questions always used to annoy me now the are on the same level of guys asking for "normal" freebies like "show ass" "show tits".
I knew I was gonna have a problem when I had sex twice and then got on cam. I can’t get wet for a dildo like I can for a man so now I have to take the damn day off and pray that this monistat cream fixes what I broke.
When we pass 30 do more customers automatically think we want to play their fucking mothers? I'm not into the mommy thing at all and I get it constantly. I'm 33. It's retarded to be acting like a 27 year olds "mommy".
I'm sick of pedos too. Guys wanting to talk about "small virgins" and shit.
Fucking betas all of them. I'm getting way better at keeping my boundaries firm these days.
Aside from the venting what I'm really wondering is over the past 8 years have customers preferences gotten more depraved overall or am I just being inundated with this crap and it's skewing my view?
I’m voting more depraved....or all the freaks came out this summer. Had a guy that wanted me to play along with his pedo/rape/bestiality fantasy. I’m not comfortable with any of those things let alone rolled into one. Unlike some of the other callers I get he didn’t become upset or hang up, he actually thanked me for being honest. Then went on to tell me what a fucked up individual he was. Not that I would disagree but....
I do quarterly reviews. Daily was messing with my head; good and bad, but I need balanced!
QuickBooks self-employed is cheap and advises you on how much/when - taxes to pay quarterly and you see all of your profit and loss with a click of a button. The self employed version is really stripped down so you do not need to know anything about accounting; walks you through everything.
Connect your bank account attached to your cam income, once a week or every few weeks, go in and tell QB if it is business or personal, it will even ask you if you want to create a rule for repetitive transactions so you don't even have to look at them.
Then go to reports and there is your breakdown ya'll :D
You could print these reports out for your tax adviser or connect to TurboTax to import your data.