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Scott surprised the shit outta me: movie (Captain Marvel which was good) and snacks. It's funny as last night I was complaining. It was really nice to be treated.
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I've got to buy some lube or something before the new week starts. Playing with myself 36-40 hours a week has desensitized tf outta me. Dildos have never turned me on - even though I put up the biggest fucking performance known to man when I use them on cam. But now it's a problem because I don't even look wet during my shows. In the middle of me screaming "I'm about to cum" my vagina is usually dry as a bone. I can't fake real arousal.
I have this hack where, instead of using lube, I'll use coconut oil instead. And after a number of strokes the oil starts to turn white and it truly looks like my coochie is creaming. But coconut oil doesn't really stay slick the entire time that I'm using it the way that lube does, it's really hard to explain. So I've gotta have this incredibly fake orgasm within 5 or so minutes of using it (or risk the painful sensation that is "dry sex)) and that cuts my session time down.
I'm cool with the fact that only real dick does it for me. Vibrators and all that shit pale in comparison, I'm not really hung up on why playing with myself is boring. But I hate how I have to pause all of that sexy energy I'm exuding during a show just to apply the lube really quick because I feel like it sends the message to the guy that I'm not turned on enough on my own. I've tried putting lube on the dildo out of range of the camera but that can only be done once the show starts because some guys like a bj tease first. So if i have this solution all over my fake cock and a guy just wants a deepthroat show NOW i have to wipe that shit off instead of jumping right into it. And NOW I'm wasting lube because I wanted to be a genius. So I can't use lube until the moment when he's ready to see that kind of action and it takes about 15 slow seconds to apply enough so that i don't have to re-apply mid-stroke. Now i'm rambling.
I wish there was a lube that looked like coochie cream so I could kill two birds with one stone. I've seen jizz lube for ejaculating dildos that could work but I don't want it to be white the moment I put it in. I like how coconut oil takes a bit of friction before it starts to turn white.
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Originally Posted by
NitaBaby
I've got to buy some lube or something before the new week starts. Playing with myself 36-40 hours a week has desensitized tf outta me. Dildos have never turned me on - even though I put up the biggest fucking performance known to man when I use them on cam. But now it's a problem because I don't even look wet during my shows. In the middle of me screaming "I'm about to cum" my vagina is usually dry as a bone. I can't fake real arousal.
I have this hack where, instead of using lube, I'll use coconut oil instead. And after a number of strokes the oil starts to turn white and it truly looks like my coochie is creaming. But coconut oil doesn't really stay slick the entire time that I'm using it the way that lube does, it's really hard to explain. So I've gotta have this incredibly fake orgasm within 5 or so minutes of using it (or risk the painful sensation that is "dry sex)) and that cuts my session time down.
I'm cool with the fact that only real dick does it for me. Vibrators and all that shit pale in comparison, I'm not really hung up on why playing with myself is boring. But I hate how I have to pause all of that sexy energy I'm exuding during a show just to apply the lube really quick because I feel like it sends the message to the guy that I'm not turned on enough on my own. I've tried putting lube on the dildo out of range of the camera but that can only be done once the show starts because some guys like a bj tease first. So if i have this solution all over my fake cock and a guy just wants a deepthroat show NOW i have to wipe that shit off instead of jumping right into it. And NOW I'm wasting lube because I wanted to be a genius. So I can't use lube until the moment when he's ready to see that kind of action and it takes about 15 slow seconds to apply enough so that i don't have to re-apply mid-stroke. Now i'm rambling.
I wish there was a lube that looked like coochie cream so I could kill two birds with one stone. I've seen jizz lube for ejaculating dildos that could work but I don't want it to be white the moment I put it in. I like how coconut oil takes a bit of friction before it starts to turn white.
I've sent guys completely dry pussy photos telling them how wet I was. They were still thrilled. I would get some if its too dry to be comfortable for you, and not even worry about putting more on during the show. Just tell them how their cock is so big and you need lube for it to fit and they love it.
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^^good idea! I just made the decision to get some smaller dildos, too, so that should help as well.
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Originally Posted by
NitaBaby
I've got to buy some lube or something before the new week starts. Playing with myself 36-40 hours a week has desensitized tf outta me. Dildos have never turned me on - even though I put up the biggest fucking performance known to man when I use them on cam. But now it's a problem because I don't even look wet during my shows. In the middle of me screaming "I'm about to cum" my vagina is usually dry as a bone. I can't fake real arousal.
I have this hack where, instead of using lube, I'll use coconut oil instead. And after a number of strokes the oil starts to turn white and it truly looks like my coochie is creaming. But coconut oil doesn't really stay slick the entire time that I'm using it the way that lube does, it's really hard to explain. So I've gotta have this incredibly fake orgasm within 5 or so minutes of using it (or risk the painful sensation that is "dry sex)) and that cuts my session time down.
I'm cool with the fact that only real dick does it for me. Vibrators and all that shit pale in comparison, I'm not really hung up on why playing with myself is boring. But I hate how I have to pause all of that sexy energy I'm exuding during a show just to apply the lube really quick because I feel like it sends the message to the guy that I'm not turned on enough on my own. I've tried putting lube on the dildo out of range of the camera but that can only be done once the show starts because some guys like a bj tease first. So if i have this solution all over my fake cock and a guy just wants a deepthroat show NOW i have to wipe that shit off instead of jumping right into it. And NOW I'm wasting lube because I wanted to be a genius. So I can't use lube until the moment when he's ready to see that kind of action and it takes about 15 slow seconds to apply enough so that i don't have to re-apply mid-stroke. Now i'm rambling.
I wish there was a lube that looked like coochie cream so I could kill two birds with one stone. I've seen jizz lube for ejaculating dildos that could work but I don't want it to be white the moment I put it in. I like how coconut oil takes a bit of friction before it starts to turn white.
Interesting. How is coconut oil & saliva? I seldom do g-spot vibe shows, but when I do I use saliva. Guys don't complain, but will that help in addition to the oil?
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Miss_ShaSha
Interesting. How is coconut oil & saliva? I seldom do g-spot vibe shows, but when I do I use saliva. Guys don't complain, but will that help in addition to the oil?
The spit dries up after a short while - probably because I'm not really wet to begin with and there's nothing to sustain the moisture after the fact. So I try to use spit extremely sparingly since it looks really bad to keeping having to take toys out of my vagina just to spit on it 3-5 different times. Or maybe I'm telling myself it looks bad? The guy always pauses whatever he's doing while I try to re-up on moisture and it has me convinced that it breaks the mood.
Update: I have a thought. Maybe....I should just get a water based lube and use coconut oil with that? Keep a small bowl of lube already squeezed out to avoid that distracting pause with me trying to tap some of it out onto my toy. I'm going to have to test this out off cam and see if that might work.
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^^Good idea. Keep us updated :)
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NitaBaby
The spit dries up after a short while - probably because I'm not really wet to begin with and there's nothing to sustain the moisture after the fact. So I try to use spit extremely sparingly since it looks really bad to keeping having to take toys out of my vagina just to spit on it 3-5 different times. Or maybe I'm telling myself it looks bad? The guy always pauses whatever he's doing while I try to re-up on moisture and it has me convinced that it breaks the mood.
Update: I have a thought. Maybe....I should just get a water based lube and use coconut oil with that? Keep a small bowl of lube already squeezed out to avoid that distracting pause with me trying to tap some of it out onto my toy. I'm going to have to test this out off cam and see if that might work.
I wonder if fractionated coconut oil would work the same way as regular coconut oil? Fractionated is more liquidy and is used in aromatherapy and massages.
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Originally Posted by
NitaBaby
I've got to buy some lube or something before the new week starts. Playing with myself 36-40 hours a week has desensitized tf outta me. Dildos have never turned me on - even though I put up the biggest fucking performance known to man when I use them on cam. But now it's a problem because I don't even look wet during my shows. In the middle of me screaming "I'm about to cum" my vagina is usually dry as a bone. I can't fake real arousal.
I have this hack where, instead of using lube, I'll use coconut oil instead. And after a number of strokes the oil starts to turn white and it truly looks like my coochie is creaming. But coconut oil doesn't really stay slick the entire time that I'm using it the way that lube does, it's really hard to explain. So I've gotta have this incredibly fake orgasm within 5 or so minutes of using it (or risk the painful sensation that is "dry sex)) and that cuts my session time down.
I'm cool with the fact that only real dick does it for me. Vibrators and all that shit pale in comparison, I'm not really hung up on why playing with myself is boring. But I hate how I have to pause all of that sexy energy I'm exuding during a show just to apply the lube really quick because I feel like it sends the message to the guy that I'm not turned on enough on my own. I've tried putting lube on the dildo out of range of the camera but that can only be done once the show starts because some guys like a bj tease first. So if i have this solution all over my fake cock and a guy just wants a deepthroat show NOW i have to wipe that shit off instead of jumping right into it. And NOW I'm wasting lube because I wanted to be a genius. So I can't use lube until the moment when he's ready to see that kind of action and it takes about 15 slow seconds to apply enough so that i don't have to re-apply mid-stroke. Now i'm rambling.
I wish there was a lube that looked like coochie cream so I could kill two birds with one stone. I've seen jizz lube for ejaculating dildos that could work but I don't want it to be white the moment I put it in. I like how coconut oil takes a bit of friction before it starts to turn white.
I also use coconut oil for lube. I either put a good amount directly inside at the start mostly to avoid that coconut oil flavored bj or I relube during the show. They 98 % won’t notice and if they do I remind them it is a silicone dildo not their dick. Many women also need lube during sex even if they are very turned on. No shame in keeping our money maker happy
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SweetSouthernElle
I wonder if fractionated coconut oil would work the same way as regular coconut oil? Fractionated is more liquidy and is used in aromatherapy and massages.
*googles fractionated coconut oil*
I've never heard of that. Does it come with any scents or dyes, stuff that might throw off the pH? I'll have to look into this.
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kamiliam
I also use coconut oil for lube. I either put a good amount directly inside at the start mostly to avoid that coconut oil flavored bj or I relube during the show. They 98 % won’t notice and if they do I remind them it is a silicone dildo not their dick. Many women also need lube during sex even if they are very turned on. No shame in keeping our money maker happy
You're very right. If I can just get rid of the dry sex feeling that is constant throughout my shows that'd be great. I've got the pretending-to-be-turned-on act down to a science but, my god, if I dry dog one more thing I'm gonna volunteer to spend this summer in hell.
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I think these guys prove over and over that they know nothing about how our genitalia works. I have become quite masterful at switching from hardcore dirty talk to...”that’s not how this works” and pretty much all of them are cool they just want to cum. And some may surprise you I was doing a gagging show with one of my degradation clients and he had me sit for a few minutes and drink some water. I protested for a sec because I didn’t want to be a mood killer but he insisted that he was worried. Granted he isn’t a puke guy so I knew it wasn’t a game for that. Just wanted to point out that in the end you don’t want to push yourself for guys who don’t give a shit that you are a person deep down
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^^^I regularly stop my shows to explain that it doesn’t work whatever way they’re asking for and 9/10 times they apologize or just let me go back to what I was going before. The 1/10 logs off and doesn’t bug me again.
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Craving Chinese food. I want some fried rice and other things.
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^^Ditto! Yesterday had Thai fried crab rice & was in heaven. Now I want Chinese. Fuck, & I have to settle for eggs & asparagus. NOT what I desire. Hump.
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That sounds amazing! I love Thai food.
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Miss_ShaSha
^^Ditto! Yesterday had Thai fried crab rice & was in heaven. Now I want Chinese. Fuck, & I have to settle for eggs & asparagus. NOT what I desire. Hump.
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^^Girl, DAYUM great just like Chinese. I've been a Chinese lover since kinder. Grew up on it really and it's quite nostalgic as well as yummy.
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I'm on a Chinese kick right now. Sometimes I will eat Chinese every day for weeks. lol
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My fuckin face hurts from smiling. Dude, I wanna scowl hahahaaa
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Okay girls I am officially spooked the hell out....
I just had somebody enter my room on streamate with the same first initial and whole last name of my dad.....
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^^Serious coincidence unless he has passed and you're super into signs and the supernatural. Still...more than likely a coincidence. Take a quick break doll. It's ok to feel some feels. You're ok. It's ok.
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I'm feeling super impatient rn. I just want my own place already.
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Miss_ShaSha
^^Serious coincidence unless he has passed and you're super into signs and the supernatural. Still...more than likely a coincidence. Take a quick break doll. It's ok to feel some feels. You're ok. It's ok.
He's still alive and kickin thankfully but it just took me surprise since it isn't that common of a last name and I was like "woah weird". I'm gonna take an hour to do try some yoga and throw some chicken in the crockpot and then get back on. Thank you so much for your kind words! :)
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^^Good idea. I'm breaking too for food & to fix audio issues. Apparently sales are non-existent as no one can hear me. One of my regs just explained this. Uuuggghhh. I'm gonna eat, meditate, fix audio, then GTFO.
Good vibes your way. You got this!
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I got some sleep, took that extra day off, washed my hair....all the actions of someone who plans on feel dayum good the next day. And I do.