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Re: The Official 'What's On Your Mind?' Thread!
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Originally Posted by
Marina Starr
Is it just me but I find that men, even the educated ones in their 20s, 30s, 40s, millennials types, not old schooled and dated are so ignorant, judgemental toward camgirls, escorts, strippers or any type of adult work.
Young, educated but ignorant are the absolutely worst.
No not just you. it’s an odd culture of were a bit more progressive but still so deeply misogynistic and hating women for profiting from their sexuality and from doing what they foolishly do for free or wish they could get for free.
The day I realized I could get money from men doing things I had been doing for free all along was like a veil lifted from my eyes.
People don’t respect you when you give things away/provide for free yet the don’t respect you when they discover you in adult industry career.
Bitches can hate n judge away. I’d rather be the latter cause at least I’ll be paid and working on my terms.
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I hear you! I was referring to young, collected educated guys such as accountants, programmers, engineers, very book smart but are pretty much assholes when it comes to adult workers. Not all of them are that way but the ones who are not are rare.
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Originally Posted by
miss.a.p1600
No not just you. it’s an odd culture of were a bit more progressive but still so deeply misogynistic and hating women for profiting from their sexuality and from doing what they foolishly do for free or wish they could get for free.
The day I realized I could get money from men doing things I had been doing for free all along was like a veil lifted from my eyes.
People don’t respect you when you give things away/provide for free yet the don’t respect you when they discover you in adult industry career.
Bitches can hate n judge away. I’d rather be the latter cause at least I’ll be paid and working on my terms.
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Re: The Official 'What's On Your Mind?' Thread!
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Originally Posted by
Marina Starr
Is it just me but I find that men, even the educated ones in their 20s, 30s, 40s, millennials types, not old schooled and dated are so ignorant, judgemental toward camgirls, escorts, strippers or any type of adult work.
Young, educated but ignorant are the absolutely worst.
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Originally Posted by
miss.a.p1600
No not just you. it’s an odd culture of were a bit more progressive but still so deeply misogynistic and hating women for profiting from their sexuality and from doing what they foolishly do for free or wish they could get for free.
The day I realized I could get money from men doing things I had been doing for free all along was like a veil lifted from my eyes.
People don’t respect you when you give things away/provide for free yet the don’t respect you when they discover you in adult industry career.
Bitches can hate n judge away. I’d rather be the latter cause at least I’ll be paid and working on my terms.
I get hit on a lot, and I'm now at the point where I want to cut to the chase and tell these guys right up front that I'm a sex worker.
It's such a struggle to try and act like the 'good girl' whose actually interested in them, for anything other than their money. Then when I ask them for money to pay a bill, etc.,they disappear.
They all look at me as some sex doll, so why not?
The only thing that has stopped me, is that I now live in a small town, where everyone knows each other. They love to gossip, because there's not much going on. I also don't want my landlady to find out. That's really the main reason. Landords here don't need a reason to not extend a lease.
Plus, it would be freeing to answer the question of why I don't want a boyfriend. Why? Because I've been dealing with hundreds of men all day, everyday on cam!!
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So cam schedules is what is on my mind. I want to get to the $200 a day category and I know I can do it. It will take 8-10 hours but that is a normal work day for most people. I know evening is bank for me but I'm going to start and see how early afternoons are or if I do the evening and then early morning wood rush. I've earned money in both slots before. I'd like to be in bed by 2am or so since I'm not a morning person!! I'm also putting down a $2500 for the Alienware aurura a7 desktop bundle!! I need some new muscle!!
Also thank fuk I just learned my asshole neighbor is moving!! Woohoo!! We live in studios and she has 3-5 grandkids that live with her and at least 4-5 dogs in this tiny place. It's like living next door to a kennel and a daycare!! Noisy as all hell and I can't cam with that noise in the background. I'm so pumped!! I'm moving in 6 months and can't wait to get the hell out of Texas. No offense to anyone it's just not for me...I came her for health treatments and am almost done!! That's all..just needed to do a brain drain. I love this forum. Keeps me motivated!!
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Re: The Official 'What's On Your Mind?' Thread!
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Originally Posted by
Marina Starr
I hear you! I was referring to young, collected educated guys such as accountants, programmers, engineers, very book smart but are pretty much assholes when it comes to adult workers. Not all of them are that way but the ones who are not are rare.
I would think that demographic would be the most.
Book smarts but lacking street smarts n lacking emotional intelligence
i happen to know a guy who is in that field who admitted to procuring adult massages and porn BUT..........he talked about how cheap he allegedly got the massage and how he allegedly hacked the site so he didn’t have to pay to view.
I really think these millennial “straight n narrow” men are like a lot of men (and women) who view adult industry work as something they should be entitled to ....... for free or cheap. Or that they can’t get hustled by “hustlers”. Which is really mind boggling to me.
Dead ass serious - tinder culture has fucked up men’s views a lot
They’d rather go post bathroom selfies on a hookup app, swipe left to eternity, hook up with random bar chicks (for free or $40 drinks), then complain when women actually value their time/efforts n ask to be provided for accordingly
You’re right though there are some good generous guys out there probably like 25% were raised right.
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My house smells amazing. I'm making red curry coconut soup with lentils. Yesterday I made BBQ jackfruit sandwiches. No one seemed to realize it wasn't meat. That was my first time trying jackfruit and now I'm excited to try out more recipes. Has anyone ever tried it before?
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If any of you are into trying different Chardonnays check out Butter from Jam cellars and Butterkissed from Cupcake. I love rich buttery Chardonnays. :lovestruc
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I always feel super PROUD whenever I paid it all off ;D
http://i64.tinypic.com/n54kyv.jpg
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I cant deal with this heat, SOS with British hoe aint used to this
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^^Someone mentioned a really cool trick to keep temp low. Put bras and panties in the freezer damp then put them on when they are cool. Keep hydrated. Sending you good vibes doll. You can do this.
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Going to sage my home after dinner as I need to cleanse the stones that came with my water bottle and hopefully push any bad juju out the door to for camming haha. Has anyone successfully brewed cold tea? I saw in the booklet that I could do hot or cold tea but I've never brewed cold tea before. I've always brewed it in hot water and then if I wanted it cold, put it in the fridge for a bit.
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Alright I miscalculated the size of the Titan dildo I bought. Zero way that thing goes in a real vagina. I read someone's review before buying it and they claimed to love doing anal with it. You lying bitch.
But I can still sell it for exclusive shows specifically for "struggling monster bjs" or some shit like, I'll work on the phrasing. I'm not about to gag and die on this thing but I think the "attempt" is all I can really offer with this mf. The fact that it squirts is literally a blessing because there's like nothing else you can you do with it.
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Now you got me laughing all stupid. hahahahahahaha
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NitaBaby
Alright I miscalculated the size of the Titan dildo I bought. Zero way that thing goes in a real vagina. I read someone's review before buying it and they claimed to love doing anal with it. You lying bitch.
But I can still sell it for exclusive shows specifically for "struggling monster bjs" or some shit like, I'll work on the phrasing. I'm not about to gag and die on this thing but I think the "attempt" is all I can really offer with this mf. The fact that it squirts is literally a blessing because there's like nothing else you can you do with it.
OOOOHHH SHIT! Hahahaaa that thing will make you a GOLD mine. The attempt is worth it. Guys will bug the fuck out. Hahahaaaa
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my partner just got home and it started properly chucking it down so I went and walked in the rain with him and I feel sooo much nicer lol
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Miss_ShaSha
OOOOHHH SHIT! Hahahaaa that thing will make you a GOLD mine. The attempt is worth it. Guys will bug the fuck out. Hahahaaaa
I just cleaned it and tried to do a test run, I couldn't even fit the tip in my mouth. I'm not even shitting you, my jaw started hurting and I hadn't even stuffed a cm in yet. My vagina also said hell no.
Since it's a dildo they are pretty clear about not accepting returns, which I get. But now I don't know what I'm going to do...
UPDATE!: I can do titty fucks with it! YESS!! The random guy might still want to see me try to bj it but I can sell titty fuck shows. Okay, all has not been lost.
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NitaBaby
I just cleaned it and tried to do a test run, I couldn't even fit the tip in my mouth. I'm not even shitting you, my jaw started hurting and I hadn't even stuffed a cm in yet. My vagina also said hell no.
Since it's a dildo they are pretty clear about not accepting returns, which I get. But now I don't know what I'm going to do...
UPDATE!: I can do titty fucks with it! YESS!! The random guy might still want to see me try to bj it but I can sell titty fuck shows. Okay, all has not been lost.
OOOoooohhhhh NOOOOooooo, I just fuckin died from an asthma attack. Girl, I almost pushed the pause button I fell the fuck out! Hahahaaaaaa GIRL, you got me lookin like a fuckin fool on cam!!!
I CAN'T BREATHE!!!!
Oh shit...I finally got a breath. HOLY FUCK that was funny. Girl, you legit need to spotlight as a stand up comedian on the weekends cause FUCK that's your calling!
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Alright I just wanted to share a pic of how impossible this thing is. So you know I'm not lying.
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NitaBaby
Alright I just wanted to share a pic of how impossible this thing is. So you know I'm not lying.
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Shit! I'd be advertising that one as a pegging toy. They can take it, I'm not! LOL
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I'm definitely going to have to figure something out lol
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holy moly that thing is HUGE
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My reaction when I first saw that!
http://i66.tinypic.com/258qrdl.gif
BBC = $$$. It's sad how black dick matter more than black lives.
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NitaBaby
Alright I just wanted to share a pic of how impossible this thing is. So you know I'm not lying.
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SoloDesire
Shit! I'd be advertising that one as a pegging toy. They can take it, I'm not! LOL
LMFAO!!! Yessssss! Oh shit, my throat hurts from laughin so hard. Yes Nita, a pegging toy. Haha, make the subs take it right up the special spot. hahahaaaa
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NitaBaby
Alright I just wanted to share a pic of how impossible this thing is. So you know I'm not lying.
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Yea, buy a strap on or make one with some rope and a very BIG o-ring.
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Marina Starr
Hahahaaa that gif!!! Oh my shift is getting better by the minute.