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Predators are everywhere. Predators protect other predators. I've been stalked a few times, had sexual notes left on my car. It gives me joy calling out predators.
I laid into a predator yesterday and today he couldn't look at me, trying to avoid me. GOOD! They feed off of you being timid, scared, fearful. NOT ME!
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Erika_Xstacy
There are a lot of sexual predators living around and some in my neighborhood.
I never realized this. There’s one on every street
A lot are in their 60s and 70s
99% are related to assaulting minors under 15 and a lot over 10 years ago and one guy was charged with child pornography
I ended up going down the rabbits hole of tax records to find anything
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Marina Starr
Predators are everywhere. Predators protect other predators. I've been stalked a few times, had sexual notes left on my car. It gives me joy calling out predators.
I laid into a predator yesterday and today he couldn't look at me, trying to avoid me. GOOD! They feed off of you being timid, scared, fearful. NOT ME!
it was unsettling. I was I am nervous about the move and decided to look up arrests, deaths, wife beaters, child abusers and found sex offenders :O bc stalking the neighborhood was not satisfying.
My kid rode by my new apt and told me a guy that drives a junky truck didn't look too welcoming of our kind so i got worried. We have been there before.
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Did you get a chance to see the place in person and feel the vibe before leasing?
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Erika_Xstacy
it was unsettling. I was I am nervous about the move and decided to look up arrests, deaths, wife beaters, child abusers and found sex offenders :O bc stalking the neighborhood was not satisfying.
My kid rode by my new apt and told me a guy that drives a junky truck didn't look too welcoming of our kind so i got worried. We have been there before.
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Marina Starr
Did you get a chance to see the place in person and feel the vibe before leasing?
I’ve been in the apartment twice.
I had great vibes until she told me that. Had me second guessing my decision
my good vibes came back last night during a storm. Lolmy lights started flickering again. :)
I have a line when the wind hits it everything flickers
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I am the dumbest person alive. I just realized that I can simply add milk into black/green tea, like I do with coffee, instead of trying to drink it just with honey and try to bear with the bitter taste. Yep, when other cultures been adding milk to tea for thousands of years and I have been sitting here, in complete ignorance.
I am happy that I don't have to throw my whole stash of black/fruity tea mixes and I am gonna enjoy it, finally. The oat milk it's a complete game changer, the bitterness is fucking GONE! I feel I can give up on coffee now!
I might wear a badge with "the dumbest person alive".
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So funny when someone tries to act all badass on Facebook and decides to throw in a nasty remark about your kid, but when it's time to talk that shit to my face Woman-To-Aardvark it's "No, FaCeBoOk AuTo-CoRrEcT tYpEd ThAt!"
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Also, I took the buses today to participate in a Roe vs. Wade decision protest. I'm so proud of everyone who showed up, as well as the cars driving by that honked for us.
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This is why I tell hoes Facebook ain't real life. If you can talk shit on Facebook or any social media then you should be able to say it in person face to face.
Keyboard courage is very unbecoming. I have a lot of "respect" for hoes that can say shit to me face.
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TheBrownFox
So funny when someone tries to act all badass on Facebook and decides to throw in a nasty remark about your kid, but when it's time to talk that shit to my face Woman-To-Aardvark it's "No, FaCeBoOk AuTo-CoRrEcT tYpEd ThAt!"
https://thumbs.gfycat.com/CompetentP...restricted.gif
Also, I took the buses today to participate in a Roe vs. Wade decision protest. I'm so proud of everyone who showed up, as well as the cars driving by that honked for us.
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I just bought a small cross body purse. I feel much more secure than carrying a handbag. We can't be too careful.
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Did you already get mace and taser, sis? Always stay ready so you don't have to get ready. #readyhoes #violenthoes
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I just bought a small cross body purse. I feel much more secure than carrying a handbag. We can't be too careful.
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So I have some things that are on my mind and I'm finding myself super scared thinking about all the negative outcomes that could happen. Long story short I'd say I need to make 10k this month of July. like my life depends on this. I worked 15hrs yesterday and I'm on my 7th hour today. Splitting 2 sites. I plan on doing this everyday this month at least 12+ or my minimum amount needed daily. Putting burnout aside because I have no other choice. I do not have the option to be burned out so I will need to do this.
I find myself very sad right now. I'm not depressed or suicidal. I'm just lonely and sad. I guess I'm just wanting to see if anyone has doubled down with this many hours in a month and was able to get through? Do you think the money is attainable with this many hours everyday? Reading through these forums I know that it is possible but I keep telling myself negative thoughts and it is killing me/my state of mind I need to be in, which is hustle hustle hustle!
I'm not looking for anyone to give me exact numbers because I know the state of things right now, my brand, sites I'm on all have a correlation on how the outcome will be. I just want to know some opinions on how obtainable it would be to make 10k putting in 12+ hours everyday for a month on 2 sites. Do you think YOU would be able to do it? Not necessarily wanting an answer if I could do it but if its obtainable in your opinion. If that makes any sense.
Now I'm on my 8th hr today lol took me that long to write this because I was actually busy!
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^^^^ yes, you w3ill be amazed how much you can make but you need to cut out the negative mindset in order to make that money. you can do it.
don't burn yourself out, take breaks, this money flows 24/7
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Yes the negative thoughts have to go. I agree. I believe our thoughts are such a huge part of life, we don't even know how huge. Gigantic! lol. Included in my routine for the month is time for myself as soon as I wake up. Time to just sit and think, maybe even sit outside. I love to be outdoors.
Wake up, before coffee, before vaping, phone...Just go outside and sit for 30min lol. That sounds so relaxing and it's something I crave but never do it and I have no idea why I don't do it. So weird
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Marina Starr
This is why I tell hoes Facebook ain't real life. If you can talk shit on Facebook or any social media then you should be able to say it in person face to face.
Keyboard courage is very unbecoming. I have a lot of "respect" for hoes that can say shit to me face.
I only use FB for animal rescues and occasionally I pop my head in for some of the niche groups that I'm in. I used to LIVE on FB, but things started to get real weird around 2015 leading up to the presidential election. It got even worse in 2016 and it pissed me off how so many of my "friends" we're so blase about it? All of those Game Of Thrones, Harry Potter and Disney character surveys were just personality test! That data was shared with tech companies working for politicians and helped jam up our process. At the time I felt like I was taking crazy pills because no one else seemed to notice it. Delete that shit off of your phone!!!
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Yes the negative thoughts have to go. I agree. I believe our thoughts are such a huge part of life, we don't even know how huge. Gigantic! lol. Included in my routine for the month is time for myself as soon as I wake up. Time to just sit and think, maybe even sit outside. I love to be outdoors.
Wake up, before coffee, before vaping, phone...Just go outside and sit for 30min lol. That sounds so relaxing and it's something I crave but never do it and I have no idea why I don't do it. So weird
sit for 30 mins outside on your phone. that helps me alot.
I will schedule tweets, write out what i need to get done for that day, edit videos, edit photos, check email, check all website stats.:P
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Marina Starr
Did you already get mace and taser, sis? Always stay ready so you don't have to get ready. #readyhoes #violenthoes
I have pepper spray and I need to get a taser.
I love how you made my quote pink and large. I'm very flattered sis.
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And what about hoes that post shit for drama then blamed Facebook? Don't blame Facebook for shit that you've created.
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PhatGirlDynomite!!!
I only use FB for animal rescues and occasionally I pop my head in for some of the niche groups that I'm in. I used to LIVE on FB, but things started to get real weird around 2015 leading up to the presidential election. It got even worse in 2016 and it pissed me off how so many of my "friends" we're so blase about it? All of those Game Of Thrones, Harry Potter and Disney character surveys were just personality test! That data was shared with tech companies working for politicians and helped jam up our process. At the time I felt like I was taking crazy pills because no one else seemed to notice it. Delete that shit off of your phone!!!
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Your quote is truth, sis. It belongs on shirt. I have pepper spray in my purse and have it turned to the spray position so all I gotta do is take it out and spray.
Stay extra ready!
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I have pepper spray and I need to get a taser.
I love how you made my quote pink and large. I'm very flattered sis.
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Coolbeans
So I have some things that are on my mind and I'm finding myself super scared thinking about all the negative outcomes that could happen. Long story short I'd say I need to make 10k this month of July. like my life depends on this. I worked 15hrs yesterday and I'm on my 7th hour today. Splitting 2 sites. I plan on doing this everyday this month at least 12+ or my minimum amount needed daily. Putting burnout aside because I have no other choice. I do not have the option to be burned out so I will need to do this.
I find myself very sad right now. I'm not depressed or suicidal. I'm just lonely and sad. I guess I'm just wanting to see if anyone has doubled down with this many hours in a month and was able to get through? Do you think the money is attainable with this many hours everyday? Reading through these forums I know that it is possible but I keep telling myself negative thoughts and it is killing me/my state of mind I need to be in, which is hustle hustle hustle!
I'm not looking for anyone to give me exact numbers because I know the state of things right now, my brand, sites I'm on all have a correlation on how the outcome will be. I just want to know some opinions on how obtainable it would be to make 10k putting in 12+ hours everyday for a month on 2 sites. Do you think YOU would be able to do it? Not necessarily wanting an answer if I could do it but if its obtainable in your opinion. If that makes any sense.
Now I'm on my 8th hr today lol took me that long to write this because I was actually busy!
It is attainable. Try to leave the negative mindwset away. I know it's hard, but think about the goal. Think about the feeling of accomplishment you will get, when you realize you did it! If there's anything magic about camming, is that it does give results for those who put the hard work in!
Make a calendar and check every box that you completed your hours number. Don't look at the numbers, don't panic on slow days (or weeks you may have a really slow 1-2 weeks, then really good weeks), just be faithful at the end of the month you will have the money.
Go on robot mode, train yourself to just do your schedule. Don't think about where you could be right now (when I was putting long hours I was taking that out of my mind, there was no mall, no family, no entertainment, no vacation, no outdoors, nothing... it was just me, having to complete my hours goal), think about what's in front of you.
In 1 month the mall won't leave from there, your friends/ family will still be there (altough you can take a day off once a week and see your family this week, friends next week or work with no breaks till your period comes and take 3-4 days off while on period and see them then, or whatever, you know better...). I am confident you will make it.
It's just a month, it will go by in a blink. You have to be disciplined and drag your ass out of bed (it happened to me), click broadcast and do what you gotta do. Then take a well deserved break in august!
Set a treat... a prize, for when you achieve your goal. Even showing up for a month, all disciplined, you deserve a to treat yourself. Use that as your motivation!
Good luck!
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Wondering how the rest of the summer will go. I have been staying available longer than my daily goal to take a chunk out of the next day's goal in case it's slow and I'm liking the idea as it takes a bit of the stress off. Kinda like a get it while it's good attitude. Usually I'd log off early. Hoping this month goes by fast and I make all my goals so I can finally take time off. Missing Europe and my bed, my friends, too. My grandmother's estate is finally having another hearing in court so that means I'll at least have a time line of the beneficiary payments which will help as well.
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kortneykay
Wondering how the rest of the summer will go. I have been staying available longer than my daily goal to take a chunk out of the next day's goal in case it's slow and I'm liking the idea as it takes a bit of the stress off. Kinda like a get it while it's good attitude. Usually I'd log off early. Hoping this month goes by fast and I make all my goals so I can finally take time off. Missing Europe and my bed, my friends, too. My grandmother's estate is finally having another hearing in court so that means I'll at least have a time line of the beneficiary payments which will help as well.
That's what I did last night. It was supposed to be my night off but I hopped on for a little bit to get a head start.
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Do y'all ever go out and wonder, "Hmmm, is she a camgirl? She's giving camgirl vibes."
I only ask because where I live you can't throw a rock without hitting someone who's worked in a strip club etc. And I'm not saying that they have a trashy look or whatever, but sometimes I just have this feeling of knowing when I come across some women. Does this happen to any of you? Maybe it's tied to their confidence and there body, idk?
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PhatGirlDynomite!!!
Do y'all ever go out and wonder, "Hmmm, is she a camgirl? She's giving camgirl vibes."
I only ask because where I live you can't throw a rock without hitting someone who's worked in a strip club etc. And I'm not saying that they have a trashy look or whatever, but sometimes I just have this feeling of knowing when I come across some women. Does this happen to any of you? Maybe it's tied to their confidence and there body, idk?
Definitely. At least here, I spot the camgirls immediately: long lashes, long nails, boobs with implants, hyaluronic acid lips, long and high quality hair extensions, really fit, skin glowing, all of it looking really high maintenance, that only a Dubai escort or a camgirl can afford to have them looking that perfect. Also, all driving Audi, BMW, Mercedes or Porsche.
But usually, the difference between a camgirl and a vanilla woman is definitely the quality of her investments (hair, nails, lashes, etc).
Especially at 6 AM, you spot the camgirls immediately, because they are the only ones that wear glam makeup and look like that, in a fucking grocery store :))) Because they are done with the night shift :))).
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I do my makeup at 6am morning at Starbucks. It's very therapeutic for me. Beside looks, hoes carry ourselves very differently no matter how we dress. It's the confidence, the posture, the walk etc without even trying. Confidence attracts :)
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Definitely. At least here, I spot the camgirls immediately: long lashes, long nails, boobs with implants, hyaluronic acid lips, long and high quality hair extensions, really fit, skin glowing, all of it looking really high maintenance, that only a Dubai escort or a camgirl can afford to have them looking that perfect. Also, all driving Audi, BMW, Mercedes or Porsche.
But usually, the difference between a camgirl and a vanilla woman is definitely the quality of her investments (hair, nails, lashes, etc).
Especially at 6 AM, you spot the camgirls immediately, because they are the only ones that wear glam makeup and look like that, in a fucking grocery store :))) Because they are done with the night shift :))).
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Thank you ladies! The reason why I asked this question is because I was at a grocery store where I saw two "vanilla" women criticizing another woman. She was wearing retro gym shorts and a crop top. Very little makeup if any at all? Homegirl wasn't glammed out or anything, BUT she was also wearing a $2000 necklace from Van Cleef & Arpels and a Chloe handbag. I overheard one of them say "Wow, she came out the house looking any kinda way."
She had a little boy in her shopping cart and yes her little cheeks were poking out of her gym shorts, but barely! She was giving hot girl shit with confidence that I rarely see in the vanilla world. It was funny to me how they were hating on her while not being able to identify the quality/relevance of her items.
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Cutie101
Definitely. At least here, I spot the camgirls immediately: long lashes, long nails, boobs with implants, hyaluronic acid lips, long and high quality hair extensions, really fit, skin glowing, all of it looking really high maintenance, that only a Dubai escort or a camgirl can afford to have them looking that perfect. Also, all driving Audi, BMW, Mercedes or Porsche.
But usually, the difference between a camgirl and a vanilla woman is definitely the quality of her investments (hair, nails, lashes, etc).
Especially at 6 AM, you spot the camgirls immediately, because they are the only ones that wear glam makeup and look like that, in a fucking grocery store :))) Because they are done with the night shift :))).
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Marina Starr
I do my makeup at 6am morning at Starbucks. It's very therapeutic for me. Beside looks, hoes carry ourselves very differently no matter how we dress. It's the confidence, the posture, the walk etc without even trying. Confidence attracts :)
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PhatGirlDynomite!!!
Thank you ladies! The reason why I asked this question is because I was at a grocery store where I saw two "vanilla" women criticizing another woman. She was wearing retro gym shorts and a crop top. Very little makeup if any at all? Homegirl wasn't glammed out or anything, BUT she was also wearing a $2000 necklace from Van Cleef & Arpels and a Chloe handbag. I overheard one of them say "Wow, she came out the house looking any kinda way."
She had a little boy in her shopping cart and yes her little cheeks were poking out of her gym shorts, but barely! She was giving hot girl shit with confidence that I rarely see in the vanilla world. It was funny to me how they were hating on her while not being able to identify the quality/relevance of her items.
Hahaha, when I see women criticizing another woman, I automatically asume they wished they were her. I can't stand when women are bitter towards a good looking one. The least elegant thing in a woman is jelaousy and bitterness. It stains the soul and it shows on the face. You can see it in their skin pores. I don't get it, when I see a gorgeous upkept woman, I'm like "damn, I gotta step up a little! if she can, I can!". I'd never look down on another woman.
What I dislike is when women are dressing too revealing and because I can't stand men getting free glimpses when they should pay for it :))) Other than that... I always admire and learn.