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I am not surprised that a lot of people are not close with their families. I'm one of them. I learned that my sisters were telling people that I do sex work. I am a proud sex worker, I am not ashamed of it but I have the right to my privacy. We have not spoken in months and I have no desire to.
Although there's no excuse for what they did, I understand where that came from. It came from a place of jealousy and inadequacy. They are not happy and feeling powerless in some aspects of their lives and by doing so gives them a sense of "power" and "control".
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Mistress X as the child it isn't really tour place to judge & inform your parents. You should respect them. You haven't lived life through their eyes. There must be something they did well to raise such an intelligent person as yourself. There is a way you can respect someone without agreeing with them. Put yourself in their shoes. For example, when you have a daughter of may push education instead of sex work. But you did it. Don't we always want better for our children though? It would seem like you were a hypocrite to your daughter but you may not want her to go through bad things you have gone through. It's not place to judge you or give you advice. I'm just giving you another opinion. I too have parents that have done thing that I could've held against them but I'm glad I didn't and made peace with them before their death.
My personal belief is that this election doesn't matter and won't change anything for any of us. My mind is much broader than just my country. I see the bigger picture. The world view. I personally only have maybe 20-30 years left of my life. I worry more for my children but I try to raise them strong and adaptable. To think for themselves and trust their gut.
Neither candidate represents people like us, sexworkers. We are renegades. People who go against the establishment. I don't look for a government to lead or do anything for me. I live my life the best I can and take it day by day because that's all you can really do. All this arguing over the election shows limited brain capacity to me. It's like people can't see the bigger picture.
Look up cognitive dissonance and Stockholm syndrome.
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Gosh that last post of mine had a lot of spelling errors. Anyways, as much as I've done whatever the hell I've wanted in my life, I live like a sovereign entity, as I get older I start to become more and more conservative in my beliefs. How did this happen? Maybe it's having kids. It does something to you. Before it was me, me, me. Life started and ended with me. But now that I have them I've started to flip flop on some of my beliefs. In fact I think I'm turning into my Mom. How did this happen!
For example last night my daughter told me they discussed in school that a Trump sucks because he wants to take away abortion. Ummm, that's how she said it. I don't even know if he said that. First, I'm shocked what the school is allowing to be discussed in school. The day before her PE teacher was complaining about LGBT rights and they may be taken from her and her wife.
Now as someone who has had many abortions and dalliances with women I'm all for both with my lifestyle. What I have a problem with is boundaries. I want to influence my daughter how I want. I want to be the person to first talk to her about abortion. But they beat me to it. Now, God forbid religion is spoken about in school but you can talk about being gay and abortion? My daughter didn't even technically know what the abortion was. Now I had to explain it in our kitchen. She just turned 14. Doesn't even have sex and I'm forced to discuss this while I'm making tacos to circumvent what thes people are telling her at school.
So there in lies my problem. I believe you have the right to live your life how you want, I have. But I want to teach my children what I consider the right way and if they choose another way they do.
What I don't want my son or daughter thinking is that having same sex relations is the now my and if you get pregnant just have abortions.
So here I am with a conundrum, I'm camming in my room to pay the bills but raising my kids like the most right wing person.
Being a parent is hard. Figuring out this life is hard. Making financially is hard. The more I think I study and know the more things come up and I realize the less I know. The more I start to understand my parents also.
End rant, I gotta show tits bb
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^^^Good points but in my mind once you're over 18-25 - you're no longer "child" and you're more on equal foot with your parents.
Parents in my opinion should respect their kids as well. How hypocritical is it of parents to demand their offspring respect them but they can't do the same?
Wise family will not tell you who they voted for. Especially if they know it will create tension or if they want you to think on your own of who you should vote for and not just vote same as your family just cause they're your family.
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And never ask your friends, families or associates who they voted for, LOL!
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Wise family will not tell you who they voted for. Especially if they know it will create tension or if they want you to think on your own of who you should vote for and not just vote same as your family just cause they're your family.
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Mistress X as the child it isn't really tour place to judge & inform your parents. You should respect them. You haven't lived life through their eyes.
It's one thing when you're a child and actually don't have a choice, and have to live with parents like this. But Mistress X is not "the child" anymore, and she's at an age where she should be able to voice her opinion...without being called (or implied that she is...) "the devil" or whatever else they may be saying to her. If it gets to the point where you can't even have a civil conversation without your parents making negative, judgmental, fear-mongering statements to you ("You're going to Hell!" or "The Bible says that..." or "You should be ashamed of yourself," etc.), that is really fucked up, and for your sake it probably is best to distance yourself from that, because you DO NOT deserve that at all.
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Thank you Starbucks for being kind to Transgender people. I also get free Starbucks coffee all the time because I'm a #starbuckswhore.
From another Transgirl on Facebook:
http://i65.tinypic.com/ibc3v9.jpg
#kindness #kindnessmatters
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So happy that I got the Starbucks Red Cup for free, yesterday when it came out.
#MyHeartBelongsToStarbuck;D
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You know, whenever I see people making racist, homophobic, transphobic comments or shaming women and etc on Facebook/social medias, I don't argue with them.
I just report them to the companies they work for. Reason being: violation of Code of Ethnics.
Meanness and cruelty never made anyone a winner.
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miss.a.p1600
^^^Good points but in my mind once you're over 18-25 - you're no longer "child" and you're more on equal foot with your parents.
Parents in my opinion should respect their kids as well. How hypocritical is it of parents to demand their offspring respect them but they can't do the same?
Exactly, respect is a 2 way street. Just because someone is your elder or your parent doesn't mean that you automatically need to excuse their behavior and owe them respect no matter what.
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Haha that's awesome!
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Marina Starr
You know, whenever I see people making racist, homophobic, transphobic comments or shaming women and etc on Facebook/social medias, I don't argue with them.
I just report them to the companies they work for. Reason being: violation of Code of Ethnics.
Meanness and cruelty never made anyone a winner.
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They always act tough and say 'report all you want' then take down or hide place of employment.
http://i158.photobucket.com/albums/t...pskdr0lzkb.gif
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Haha that's awesome!
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Dave Chapelle is hosting SNL tonight. I almost forgot. Off to get some cookies and chardonnay
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On the plus side, I've been doing well enough on cam that I was able to take all my shark days off. On the minus side, my cam room today may as well be on top of Everest. Sigh.
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I can't get money out of my mind because it's SUNDAYYY! The one day of the week that it feels like men are throwing cash and begging for you to take it off their hands by the numbers. Here for it!
Also, 7 more weeks of working every single day. I'm actually not burnt out because if I don't feel like doing every single egg, I just do the less taxing one, haha. Don't wanna cam? Turn on arousr and other texting/pso gigs and veg out for the day. It still amazes me that you can make your daily goals without getting dressed for cam.
Going on vacay for 2 weeks NYE week and I still need to focus on my eating, hustling, and exercise. Blahhhhh. I just wanna look hawtttttterrr and have more cash. Thank fuck for determination because I'm making Nov and Dec my bitch!
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Just peeped Dave chapelle most resent snl/his thoughts on the election. He's baaaaack. And it was funny as hell!
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I always mistake him for Rupaul when not in drag. They look so much alike!
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Just peeped Dave chapelle most resent snl/his thoughts on the election. He's baaaaack. And it was funny as hell!
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I always mistake him for Rupaul when not in drag. They look so much alike!
What? How DARE, you! You know good and well Dave Chapelle has lips Ru'paul would only dream of! Also, Ru has that FACE, Dave... well...he's Dave, lol :D
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But girrrrl, you know Ru can work magic on Dave. I'd like to see him in Drag doing that sissy walk! sashay, shantay, sashay shantay-Chappelle you stay!
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What? How DARE, you! You know good and well Dave Chapelle has lips Ru'paul would only dream of! Also, Ru has that FACE, Dave... well...he's Dave, lol :D
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Black chyna popped that kardashian baby out. Ca-Ching $$$$$.
Pink is pregnant
Kim zolciak b. Daughter is adorbs and a lil model.
Katy Perry donates 10k to planned parenthood.
Stay safe I think they are still protesting.
And why that pic of omerosa and d.trump remind me of Scandal?
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^^I feel like I am the only one who likes Rob and Chyna's baby name; Dream.
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I've been on my feet all day + the walk home just now (approx. 50 minutes). Where are all the foot guys when I need them? Haha. I could use some pampering. :P
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This spoke to my soul. I'm sure it will to yours too!
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=2-tRINcwSbE
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I just wanted to share a short story about what happened to me today. So my landlady forgot to call me and tell me maintenance was coming over to close the windows in the attic today. I had just washed my big black dildo and left it on the counter. I was in my office listening to music when he walks in with my black dildo on the counter. Says nothing about it. Closes the windows in the attic and comes back downstairs with a WTF look on his face and says nothing then leaves. LOL fuck my life that was pretty embarrassing. But somebody here will get a good laugh!