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Originally Posted by
Marina Starr
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I'm gonna get this off my chest. This is my
PSA-Public Slut Announcement:
I wish that people who like to whine would ask me if I'm in the right state of mind for them to whine and complain.
I'm not here to be anyone's therapist. I'm usually a very happy and upbeat person but I have gloomy days because I am human.
I don't need your sad stories to weigh me down.
If you're not happy with things but keep talking about them without doing anything about it then you're just looking for attention. I don't want anyone to message me on here, skype or any social media without first checking if it's okay to do so from now on if you need to vent or share sad stories. I will extend that same desire. I am holding people responsible for the energy they bring into my life.
I have a friend who acts like that. She would get upset if I or anyone else did not "like" or respond to her facebook posts. She whined and complained constantly and kept me on the phone for hours. She drained my energy so bad that it interfered with my work. She wanted me to go out with her on my busiest work day because it was her day off. I keep her at a distance now.
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Re: The Official 'What's On Your Mind?' Thread!
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Originally Posted by
Marina Starr
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I'm gonna get this off my chest. This is my
PSA-Public Slut Announcement:
I wish that people who like to whine would ask me if I'm in the right state of mind for them to whine and complain.
I'm not here to be anyone's therapist. I'm usually a very happy and upbeat person but I have gloomy days because I am human.
I don't need your sad stories to weigh me down.
If you're not happy with things but keep talking about them without doing anything about it then you're just looking for attention. I don't want anyone to message me on here, skype or any social media without first checking if it's okay to do so from now on if you need to vent or share sad stories. I will extend that same desire. If you can't honor that, I will block you on all venues. I am holding people responsible for the energy they bring into my life.
FINE!!! I'll just keep my obsession for red trucker hats and ice cream to myself from now on ;)
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Who's gonna watch the Puppy Bowl tomorrow?
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=dQmKhzPM-bY
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Speaking of red trucker hat, I saw a silver daddy this morning at Publix, I asked him has anyone ever told him he looks so much like Mike Pence, LOL!
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PhatGirlDynomite!!!
FINE!!! I'll just keep my obsession for red trucker hats and ice cream to myself from now on ;)
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When it gets to that point people should pay a therapist. (Or petty annoyance thread for free lol) It's one thing to have occasional vent to a trusted friend but going overboard and constantly bringing in heavy baggage can ruin a friendship.
I found this out the hard way when I was younger. I ruined a few relationships when people ask me how's it going - that's not the time to unload. But I told them the truth about my hardships. Low and behold they gossiped behind my back and quit answering my calls.
Never again. Now I know if things get super rough I'd only go to a licensed Therapist first.
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Originally Posted by
Marina Starr
http://i66.tinypic.com/14aas5v.jpg
I'm gonna get this off my chest. This is my
PSA-Public Slut Announcement:
I wish that people who like to whine would ask me if I'm in the right state of mind for them to whine and complain.
I'm not here to be anyone's therapist. I'm usually a very happy and upbeat person but I have gloomy days because I am human.
I don't need your sad stories to weigh me down.
If you're not happy with things but keep talking about them without doing anything about it then you're just looking for attention. I don't want anyone to message me on here, skype or any social media without first checking if it's okay to do so from now on if you need to vent or share sad stories. I will extend that same desire. If you can't honor that, I will block you on all venues. I am holding people responsible for the energy they bring into my life.
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I get it girl, sometimes when we're going through hardship it's hard to think straight, it's hard to empathize. I am also guilty of that. My point was, if you know people online or in real life who are always happy and upbeat, don't assume that they're not going through something, or they may have a rough day but choosing not to broadcast it. It's important to be mindful.
Now, I will never gossip about your hardships behind your back but I will let you know when it's too much for me or distance myself. I can't deal with the constant 'whoa it's me' or it's always a sad story.
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miss.a.p1600
When it gets to that point people should pay a therapist. (Or petty annoyance thread for free lol) It's one thing to have occasional vent to a trusted friend but going overboard and constantly bringing in heavy baggage can ruin a friendship.
I found this out the hard way when I was younger. I ruined a few relationships when people ask me how's it going - that's not the time to unload. But I told them the truth about my hardships. Low and behold they gossiped behind my back and quit answering my calls.
Never again. Now I know if things get super rough I'd only go to a licensed Therapist first.
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Originally Posted by
PhatGirlDynomite!!!
Who's gonna watch the Puppy Bowl tomorrow?
I didn't know that was a real thing! It might be fun to run a gold show or something where guys can watch me watching the puppy bowl. Supposedly my delight with cute dogs is highly visible and sometimes entertaining. I squeal and stuff.
I'd probably get a ton of "K9 bb?" requests afterward though. >:(
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I think it's time to learn to sew and make my own clothes. I can't stand anything I find in stores and that goes double for kids clothes.
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victoriavein
I think it's time to learn to sew and make my own clothes. I can't stand anything I find in stores and that goes double for kids clothes.
Ha! I was just about to post something similar. I have a lady near me has an African fabric store and she sews dresses for me and my daughter. I get one every week and she really doesn't charge that much. I just picked one up and had my dog with me. She's gonna make a dashiki for him lmao she fitted him and everything :hyper: :hyper:
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Any man, really but ugly men are often the most vocal. How ironic, lol!
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PhatGirlDynomite!!!
Ha! I was just about to post something similar. I have a lady near me has an African fabric store and she sews dresses for me and my daughter. I get one every week and she really doesn't charge that much. I just picked one up and had my dog with me. She's gonna make a dashiki for him lmao she fitted him and everything :hyper: :hyper:
That's awesome! I wish I knew a good tailor. Lucky!!!
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victoriavein
That's awesome! I wish I knew a good tailor. Lucky!!!
I bet you've got them right around the corner from you. Google your area for fabric stores. All those people who work at them know how to sew. And they have sewing classes too. I don't have the patience to learn.
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Originally Posted by
Marina Starr
You can say this again!!! I had one "man" try and body shame me talking about some oh you could stand to lose a little weight. In my head I'm like b*tch do you want a skeleton or do you want a woman? I have 15% body fat and I look 1000 times better than you heaux. I didn't feel like arguing with a loser because I KNOW my body looking good. I don't fall for that body negging shit. That's what insecure weak "men" do to keep a confident woman feeling down about herself.
That trick was sadly disappointed when my pussy denied him access. Hahaha. These dumba$$es better think twice before they open their mouth to body shame.
He was ugly on the inside and out. I believe he was the human personification of the devil.
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I'm sure you look great so you don't even have to justify. As Jane Fonda said 'We're not meant to be perfect, we're meant to be whole'.
I feel it's important to love and embrace your body and not let men tell you what your body should look like. If you're a small girl, FABULOUS. If you're a big girl, FABULOUS. If you're a skinny girl with a hidden thickness, that's FABULOUS too.
No pussy, no cookie for assholes-EVER!
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Originally Posted by
miss.a.p1600
You can say this again!!! I had one "man" try and body shame me talking about some oh you could stand to lose a little weight. In my head I'm like b*tch do you want a skeleton or do you want a woman? I have 15% body fat and I look 1000 times better than you heaux. I didn't feel like arguing with a loser because I KNOW my body looking good. I don't fall for that body negging shit. That's what insecure weak "men" do to keep a confident woman feeling down about herself.
That trick was sadly disappointed when my pussy denied him access. Hahaha. These dumba$$es better think twice before they open their mouth to body shame.
He was ugly on the inside and out. I believe he was the human personification of the devil.
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^^^so true.
I'm flabbergasted...gene Simmons FINALLY married Shannon??? They put the pressure on his a$$.
Happy for them though.
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Yeah I once had a guy make a particularly horrible comment to me as a creative way of telling me I'm fat yet keeps trying to get laid by me? How fucking stupid do you think I am?? Mind u this is a really fat guy himself-compared to him most people are toothpicks.
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I want to frame this and put it on my front yard.
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Today I'm thankful for:
Free Starbucks coffee
My health
A roof over my head
Food
My beauty
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What a pretty day it is. I hope you guys are out there taking advantage of the sunshine. Its 57degrees here. I'll take it! I'm off to Panera to do some people watching.
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Today is -21, feels like -28C... I guess thats -18F
I am going home from work and hibernating.
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Originally Posted by
PhatGirlDynomite!!!
What a pretty day it is. I hope you guys are out there taking advantage of the sunshine. Its 57degrees here. I'll take it! I'm off to Panera to do some people watching.
Its beautiful here today too, i just got back in from going out for awhile what a refreshing break. Hope you had a great time.
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I am sad that I cannot even hardly have fun with my sister since she has been visiting for the last 7 days... I have tried to be very accomdating to her as I love her so much like a mother.. she is 11 yrs older than me.. and I treat her like a queen.. the way she deserves to be treated.. she has been terribly abused her whole life and her kids treat her like shit and always in trouble.. ( adult children).. One of them even in prison.. (gasp)... she keeps flying off the handle getting triggered.. as she did the last time she visited.. I fedel so heart broken and at a loss of what to say or do.. I already expressed very clearly she is not expected to do anything around the house or even pay for anything I have planned to do .. so not to worry.. she is on limited disability income and frets about that as well.. I am so depressed.. this is my sister whom I plan on getting a 4 bedroom house to come live with me but I am not even sure if I can deal with that.. .. naturally things would be different.. .it's so upsetting.. I feel so alone as she is the only person I talk to IRL .. when she's not here.. I understand all she has been with it.. but I am shocked at the amount of lil things that are triggering her.
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Britney spear 8 year old niece needs prayers. I found myself tearing up when I read this today and I don't evem know these broads personally. But yeah she had an ATV accident and was trapped under water and is in hospital now. I've seen many instances where losing oxygen like that permanently damages the brain so hopefully she'll make it through.
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yea that's terrible, I know someone personally who was drowning in a pool when they were like 3 and now as a young adult in their 20's permanently brain damaged.
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miss.a.p1600
Britney spear 8 year old niece needs prayers. I found myself tearing up when I read this today and I don't evem know these broads personally. But yeah she had an ATV accident and was trapped under water and is in hospital now. I've seen many instances where losing oxygen like that permanently damages the brain so hopefully she'll make it through.
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as much as i don't want to work, i am going to push myself to put at least 3 hours in. i need to somehow climb out of this burnout stage and get back at it.
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PhatGirlDynomite!!!
*googles queer undercut* brb
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PhatGirlDynomite!!!
Okay I've had that before. :) Just never heard it put that way?
Is it something like this? Because it's kinda sexy with long hair.
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