Re: My boyfriend won't let me cam? Am I bad for doing it behind his back?
I always love reading these threads about the abusive boyfriends. All the girl power going on here just gets me wet! You all Rule!
Re: My boyfriend won't let me cam? Am I bad for doing it behind his back?
If he is this controlling in a long distance relationship, I wonder how bad it would of been being close to one another. Never settle for anyone..lesson learned after my previous ended in a similar situation and they came out being the unfaithful whore. People will do anything to tear you down in forcefully making you think otherwise from their perspectives. When you do find a man that is not only incredibly understanding, loves to hear about weird sessions and can laugh with you and be supportive of hustling it will form into strong trust.
Re: My boyfriend won't let me cam? Am I bad for doing it behind his back?
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Missmaddi
He just threatened me about numerous things... now I really know what I need to do... I'm running for the hills, here's to the single life �� Feel so free already, thanks all for your help. What a delusion I was in. Am I bad to get rid of this loser by text?! Haha
This is why paying attention to red flags is soooo important!! As sex workers, most of us have witnessed or even lived this scenario. Stay safe, my friends!
Re: My boyfriend won't let me cam? Am I bad for doing it behind his back?
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Marina Starr
Men if you want to call them that usually slutshame when they know you do sex work then wanna fuck you because they assume you're easy and got rejected then all of a sudden you're a hoe with no moral very quickly, LOL!
This. And look at all the "men" IRL who get butthurt when we turn them down nicely. They throw mini tantrums ("Damn, that's fucked up...") because they think they're entitled to the pussy.
Re: My boyfriend won't let me cam? Am I bad for doing it behind his back?
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TheBrownFox
This. And look at all the "men" IRL who get butthurt when we turn them down nicely. They throw mini tantrums ("Damn, that's fucked up...") because they think they're entitled to the pussy.
right?!
So over men right now--just buy me a drink, tell me I'm pretty then go away. LOL I'm joking.
I decided not to date for a few months, I need to not let a guy come in and disturb my life right now. I love men, but I have some things to do.
Re: My boyfriend won't let me cam? Am I bad for doing it behind his back?
The only thing that blows my mind in all this is that he is OK with you dancing and would rather have you be naked face to face in a club then have you be clothed at home on the computer.
If there is no kids and he's not your husband, fuck him. Plenty of other guys out there.
Re: My boyfriend won't let me cam? Am I bad for doing it behind his back?
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Originally Posted by
Missmaddi
He just threatened me about numerous things... now I really know what I need to do... I'm running for the hills, here's to the single life �� Feel so free already, thanks all for your help. What a delusion I was in. Am I bad to get rid of this loser by text?! Haha
You don't owe him anything. You don't owe him an explanation, or any smoothing of feathers, or any good manners, or a conversation. Block his number, mute him on all social media - and poof, he may as well not exist.
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I'm glad you made the right decision in getting rid of this prick.
I just read an article about a mother of two who was beaten to death by her boyfriend and his friend because "she would not submit." It was stated that the boyfriend was controlling and was "punishing her to try to break her" since she wouldn't submit to his authority. OMG.
Re: My boyfriend won't let me cam? Am I bad for doing it behind his back?
I feel like if you have to sneak & tip toe around your significant other as an adult then maybe you shouldn't be together.. Just depends on what matters to you the most.. Your money or your relationship