Re: First night last night!
Congrats on your first night girl ! I'm a newbie as well. I won't sit on someone's lap just by them merely calling me over, I see it as it is not a free for all haha. Usually I'll say some stupid little joke..something like, " haha hey now that would be a boring lap dance if I was just sitting!! :) "!
Re: First night last night!
As far as the sitting on the lap thing, that is very club-by-club; sometimes even within the same city. If the other girls were doing it it probably seems to be the norm. As far as the guys asking you what you were doing later, etc. if it's a small club with a lot of local regulars they know you are new and are trying to test your boundaries. If not, they are just being typical strip club custies. You need to learn to control the convo and turn that into small talk/banter then to a closed sale. Bring it around to having fun right now. The maybe later/ come back thing you will deal with every single shift until you hang up the heels. They are either politely rejecting you or did in-fact, just get there and are trying to settle in, scan the room. There is no way of getting around this except experience.
Re: First night last night!
I'd tell them my rapper name and bust out into a freestyle "time is money and with you boy I ain't makin a dime"
Kidding lol!!!
But yeah sounds like you're doing the right thing. It could just be the customers happen to be weird that night.
I usually don't sit in their lap (cause too many cheap pervs take advantage and try to slick feel you up for free) but on the off chance I do will sit on their thigh not on the area where their penis is and only if they're tipping me and/or seem ready to go for dances right away.
Re: First night last night!
I notice I make more when I'm buzzed but that's because I'm not acting like I have a stick up my ass and am more flirty. Are you being flirty? Or are you acting smart? They probably sense you're new and are taking advantage of it. Lots of dudes will do that. Also, lots of dudes don't like "smart" strippers from what I've seen. Some do! It works for some girls and it's great! But from what I've personally noticed guys come in there and wanna feel like gods so if you act too smart they get turned off. I notice the more ditzy I am, the more I bank. Be flirty. Touch their arm a bunch. Maybe squeeze their butt. If they're moving to the music say stuff like "oh wow you look like you'd have some moves! You should show me!" They'll say yes or no, and after whichever be like "you should see MY moves in the back*winkwink*" stuff like that! Good luck though boo. It takes a lot of girls a long time to get the hang of it.