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Re: Phrendly.com, a new GFE option to consider
I know that this may sound like a stupid question, but do the guys have the same ability as us to have messages go to their phones when NOT on the site on their computer? I usually do 80% of my messages on my phone, NOT using an apple phone, just through sms messaging.. so you never see the guys photos, and if you go on a browser on your phone, it seems like it takes forever to swap back over once you log out.. and I seem to miss messages. They always seem dumbfounded when I say I am on my phone and can't see their pictures... I would assume they have that same capability that we do
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They have the same capability but I don't think they all understand that. I've had guys freak out when I messaged them after a long time because it went to their phone and they didn't know who I was. I've also had guys text the number that displays at the top (the custom number they give to each person you talk to, not your real number) thinking it was my phone number.
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naomi_doll
They have the same capability but I don't think they all understand that. I've had guys freak out when I messaged them after a long time because it went to their phone and they didn't know who I was. I've also had guys text the number that displays at the top (the custom number they give to each person you talk to, not your real number) thinking it was my phone number.
Yep this! I've had numerous guys ask who is this when I've done the long lost phrends thing.
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Me and another girl didnt get paid today :(
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Okay to the girls that are older over 40 (like me haha) why does it seem like when I am staring the guys that are 18-23 I feel like a fucking perv :O... but I have no problem camming with them??? Maybe because camming THEY are seeking me out?
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Jupiter77
Me and another girl didnt get paid today :(
i didnt get paid either
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"Message me so I know it's real" Yeah right! Like i'm going to pay him hahahaha Some of these headlines are so funny
Omg so he tries to be slick but I got some chocolates out that fool :p
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Jupiter77
Omg so he tries to be slick but I got some chocolates out that fool :p
Haha nice! :D
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Jupiter77
Me and another girl didnt get paid today :(
I didn't get paid yesterday and I got 2 payments today.
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But perhaps better to err on the side of caution if it seems odd to you. How does the site verify the men's age?
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strawberrysweetie
I think it'd be the same way with the women... government issued photo ID?
I asked about this awhile back and didn't get an answer, either, but I'd really like to know. My profile is complete but not live yet (partially because I'm nervous about this aspect). I haven't been age verified in any way. Have any of you?
Do they age verify us via SSN? Do they age verify guys via credit card?
Also, if we suspect a guy is underage, how are we supposed to handle that? Do we have to wait until he *says* something indicative of being underage, or should we report them if they simply *look* too young to be on the site? If someone gets reported just for looking underage, how does the site handle that report?
Sexting with a minor can be prosecuted even if the minor was on an 18+ site, clicked "I'm at least 18 years old," and claimed to be older, so it's rather important. Normally, I think they'd go after pedo men and let it slide for a woman who was approached by a younger male and was deceived about his age. But we're sex workers - we don't get the benefit of the doubt like some "nice woman who did it by accident and most likely will never do it again." Since they haven't gone after MFC or other token sites, I don't think this would be a priority, but it's good to know what we're dealing with. Don't want the wrath of some mom who thinks I turned her angelic baby boy into a pervert.
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Re: Phrendly.com, a new GFE option to consider
the few times its happened that you can just tell theyre underage not by looks persay but the way they text/talk i tell them theyre getting blockedand reported
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Magical_Hoohah
I asked about this awhile back and didn't get an answer, either, but I'd really like to know. My profile is complete but not live yet (partially because I'm nervous about this aspect). I haven't been age verified in any way. Have any of you?
Do they age verify us via SSN? Do they age verify guys via credit card?
Also, if we suspect a guy is underage, how are we supposed to handle that? Do we have to wait until he *says* something indicative of being underage, or should we report them if they simply *look* too young to be on the site? If someone gets reported just for looking underage, how does the site handle that report?
Sexting with a minor can be prosecuted even if the minor was on an 18+ site, clicked "I'm at least 18 years old," and claimed to be older, so it's rather important. Normally, I think they'd go after pedo men and let it slide for a woman who was approached by a younger male and was deceived about his age. But we're sex workers - we don't get the benefit of the doubt like some "nice woman who did it by accident and most likely will never do it again." Since they haven't gone after MFC or other token sites, I don't think this would be a priority, but it's good to know what we're dealing with. Don't want the wrath of some mom who thinks I turned her angelic baby boy into a pervert.
I look kind of young so my original gif didn't get approved because of the age thing, so I had to send Phrendly age verification.
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strawberrysweetie
I look kind of young so my original gif didn't get approved because of the age thing, so I had to send Phrendly age verification.
I really don't like that policy.
Every single person using the service should have to submit age verification, period.
I do not want to have to worry about getting in trouble because some older looking underage kid is sexting with me.
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Do u guys have "exchange messages before calling/videoing" checked or unchecked? does it make a difference? does it matter?
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Do u guys have "exchange messages before calling/videoing" checked or unchecked? does it make a difference? does it matter?
I have it unchecked because sometimes guys dont know whats up and call you and use their free credits
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Suggestion: the word snapchat should be banned/censored
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So I had a whale that fell off the face of the earth 2 weeks ago. Like I would message him and it would say the carrier pigeons shit lol
well today he messaged me and was like I just needed a break and i was like
YUSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSS
This kid seriously will vid chat with me while he plays video games its a blessing
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strawberrysweetie
Suggestion: the word snapchat should be banned/censored
lol I usually tell them I don't have it because I don't know how to use it. It usually at least gets me a few more messages as I "try to download it" and ask questions on how to get it set up.
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this site is really coming thru for me this week. i'm impressed, thanks jamma & company!
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this site is really coming thru for me this week. i'm impressed, thanks jamma & company!
Right? I'm almost to $600 today im blessed! Thanks too!
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I just got done with my first video chat on Phrendly and I am pretty stoked! The guy I just did the video chat with spent $42 on me including the texts leading up to it. I pulled a "oh man the video chat isn't working try again, is it working now? Ok try again" i did that a bunch of times to get my 35 cents worth lol. When I finally decided to accept his call, I changed my pricing to $2.00/ min and accepted only to find out it really wasn't working. I guess the video chat isn't compatible with Safari so I opened Chrome instead and it worked fine. I played the shy girl card and teased him and chatted him up. It was actually fun! I have now made a little over $100 in a week without putting too much effort into it. I read how some girls on here were advertising on CL and BP but I only got one guy to sign up for it from CL before I was flagged..I found it to be pretty difficult to advertise that way. Guys that did email me wanted to talk on Kik or email. Maybe my wording wasn't the best, I am not advertising goddesses like you all :)
Phrendly rocks and this thread is insanely helpful! Also, I posted on my Tumblr since I have a large amount of followers and that seemed to help bring in some new members. Cant wait to see how much more money there is to be made on there!
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Wonder_Bra
I just got done with my first video chat on Phrendly and I am pretty stoked! The guy I just did the video chat with spent $42 on me including the texts leading up to it. I pulled a "oh man the video chat isn't working try again, is it working now? Ok try again" i did that a bunch of times to get my 35 cents worth lol. When I finally decided to accept his call, I changed my pricing to $2.00/ min and accepted only to find out it really wasn't working. I guess the video chat isn't compatible with Safari so I opened Chrome instead and it worked fine. I played the shy girl card and teased him and chatted him up. It was actually fun! I have now made a little over $100 in a week without putting too much effort into it. I read how some girls on here were advertising on CL and BP but I only got one guy to sign up for it from CL before I was flagged..I found it to be pretty difficult to advertise that way. Guys that did email me wanted to talk on Kik or email. Maybe my wording wasn't the best, I am not advertising goddesses like you all :)
Phrendly rocks and this thread is insanely helpful! Also, I posted on my Tumblr since I have a large amount of followers and that seemed to help bring in some new members. Cant wait to see how much more money there is to be made on there!
I can't even figure out how to put the site on CL. My ads never even get published because they contain a link.
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ChubbyCherub
I can't even figure out how to put the site on CL. My ads never even get published because they contain a link.
I havent had to use CL anymore and you cant put links.
I always used to do
blah blah blah hit me up on phrendly my names jupiter
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I'm still waiting for them to approve my gif...
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Regarding the age verification questions, I think I saw earlier in the thread (I know, it's a massive thread and hard to look through it all lol) where Jamma said that since they're only providing a communication platform for a "non-adult site" and they don't monitor or police what goes on in our chats, they don't require age verification for anyone. At least I think that's what he said. I'll see if I can find it.
Edit: Found it! It was on page 4 in case anyone's interested. He answered a bunch of questions in that post.
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Question: Is *everyone* on the site confirmed to be 18+?
- No, just like they aren’t confirmed 18+ on Snapchat, Instagram, etc. There is no nudity on the site and we just facilitate communications. Having said that, we do ask that users confirm they are 18+ when they register and we do review all profiles and will ask for age verification for borderline pics. A few people have reported users claiming they are underage, and we immediately shut them down. After all, we have kids too, and are very sensitive to this issue. Fortunately, this hasn’t been a big issue and we intend to keep it that way. BTW, if you start to make money camming, we’ll ask for appropriate 2257 info.