Damn. He must be one hell of a looker.
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its so awkward to me to just ask someone to meet up after a couple messages. i know its too much work for such a thing to happen with these guys even tho they are the ones asking.
but still, like i wouldnt ask some random from ig or twitter to come to my house, why ask some random chick u met on a "online dating" site??
men are so reckless lol.
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that was after he asked me to facetime him and i rejected it... :P
And whenever I post ads its so funny to me these guys think I will send them nudes for free...ummm hello????? in what world???? as if! go to a soulless tube site if u want a free body to jack off to lol.
i also suspect that the guys who don't get what they want from me for free flag my CL ads because they are cheap and petty lol.
yeah i'm always straight up with them and bust their bubble lol. when they start going on about "why should they pay," i always remind them that if they didn't want that personal connection they would just go to a tube site and watch free porn.
like where else are u going to meet a pretty ass exotic girl who will talk to u however u want/get sexy cute af nudes/do sexy phone and video chatting ASAP, all u have to do is pay.
for example, u want to feel up some tits without having to court the chick (like going to a bar and chatting up a girl, hoping to take her home) where do u go? the strip club! u pay the pretty girl and get tits in ur hands lmao.
men act like we cant read them. :p besides not trying to be rude, but the average man has a time where he can't get pussy for "free" anymore.
I had one guy talk to me today who talked to me once before about a month ago. He goes on to say how some guys are just after one thing. I told him I have no issues sending naughty things as long as I'm being spoiled with gifts. He sends me balloons and is like balloons doesn't even get me a video? Uh no they don't. Then he goes "Oh I thought you were different blah blah blah." I was like apparently I am since I am asking for more than just balloons for a vid :D
Thank You for taking the time to offer up that helpful tip.
Guys are messaging me back on Ok Cupid, that they would prefer to chat on there. Nope.
Sidebar: A new guy messaged me on phrendly last night, and offered his Snapchat. To which I answered that I only use phrendly.
But, phrendly sent back a reply to me saying that the guy was interested in a video chat.
I guess phrendly has a bot system that defaults back to the rules of what their site is about.
This wacko . Another psycho thay Google searches our images so he can fin out where we live our fb etc watch out
They would say that this proves it doesn't matter what page you are on. (but we all know that isn't entirely true!) Page 13 out of a couple hundred really isn't bad you are in the top 10% of pages. There must be something guys view in your photo that is more sexy to them than other photos or you have the right facial measurements. ( i don't know which photo is yours)
I am into Psychology a lot and I saw an actual event where guys chose women based on a certain hip to waist ratio. It didn't matter what the women looked like.Women with that ratio are more favorable for making the right baby for them! :-)
Oh and women were given sweaty tshirts that they thought belonged to guys standing in the room behind them. Some were actually sweaty tshirts their BROTHERS had worn. Every single woman turned down the guy based on the smell of the tshirt when it was her brother and not one of the regular guy's tshirts in the room. Nature's way of making us not be attracted to our siblings!! LOL
If you're interested in making a date work, make sure you choose an activity like bungee jumping or something that is a bit dangerous. When you do that you release oxytocin a bonding hormone and you end up really attracted to each other. (the same hormone you release when you have a baby) We're nothing more than a bunch of chemicals!!
LOL at "How about a pic for the road?" How about you send me a virtual $ gift, and then I'll send you a pic? Smh.
This is why I like the dudes who are much older than me. These younger dudes be on some "Send me this...let's chat on ____...etc." nonsense. I just had a 60-year old man send me my first virtual gift on this site, for a pic. Then he sent me another. I want more of these polite, older men, please...and less of these entitled, cheap young dudes...
If you get a 63 year old guy named TomS. don't talk to him. He doesn't want to gift for anything and rips you off by asking for a sample and then basically not following through on the gift. (and it's not because my sample pics are bad, believe me)
Why are men such assholes?? I don't get it sometimes. Seems worse than usual today or this entire week! Even yesterday! Or maybe I'm stupid to send a sample??
I'm still waiting on the pics. Bet they are great!
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I don't send pics for free, you have to click Send a Gift above and at least gift me a rose
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i can send a sample
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That will work, then we can do gifts.
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This is interesting because I have the exact opposite experience. !9-21 year olds have spent the most on me and thanked me at the end. And come back. The older guys won't gift me very often. All they want to do is meet and fuck. Or talk off site. Or lie to you. lol
If y'all get a guy named Josed don't even talk to him. He asked for nudes, and when I asked for a gift he started sending me other girls nudes asking if mine were as good as there's
How are you guys getting folks to talk? I keep staring people, and I get people staring me but thats about it..I'm also a little sad to read things have slowed down a bit, but if it brings an $$ Im good.
It's hard, trust me. You kinda have to manipulate and play into their fantasies. You will start getting messages eventually, it's just a waiting game really. Market yourself on craigslist and places like ashleymadison, okcupid, sugardaddymeet. It's a hustle and a hassle lol
Don't give samples ever. If a guy asks you for a sample, he's a fucking dick that's using you. A guy literally just asked me this morning and I told him i'm not a fucking asian cuisine establishment. The fuck. These pathetic losers can get off on a pic of you just standing there so fuck that. If you jerk it to me, you're gonna fucking pay for it.
Also, report him and send screenshots to Jamma to see that Phrendly follows through on ridding of this trash.
Today does seem like the day of the cheapskates. They have the wrong one.
i think i will have more success from this site if i bring guys over that explicitly know that i want gifts in return for nudes and videos.
i know some don't want it to come off as a hardcore cam site but holy shit, i'm tired of these guys thinking they get to see me naked for free.
this one guy thinks he's getting MULTIPLE videos for a box of chocolates? LMAO. i told him one box = one video (5 mins), and he said i was stingy...LOL. i told him to go to a free porn site then.
but yeah you gotta hustle on this site.
I just wanted to touch on this for a second. There are men who like EVERY type of woman. I'm almost 40, bbw and still do very well at this kind of work. As long as you are fun, nicely groomed and comfortable in this line of work you can absolutely be successful.
Can I just say I spoke to Jamma privately, urging him that Phrendly should not be marketed as a dating site but as a site with sex workers on it so people don't feel deceived. His response indicated Phrendly has no intention of doing this. So we are gonna have to do what we have to do. Also, placement doesn't matter for us gals pulling 700 a week because apparently, Phrendly thinks we are scamming men to get that kind of money by making it seem like we will meet them. That wouldn't be the case for many women if this was NOT marketed as a dating app. Girls will do what they have to do to get the money we need. They don't want to meet us in the middle. If you don't help me, how can I help you.
There is a fine line to be crossed with the guys not knowing it's the same thing, however. They feel entitled on a higher scale. They think we want their dick pics sent to us without gifts. They think it's a more free environment and that's the issue. They think we want to meet them, they think we are just there to please them for free because it's what we like to do. I make good money on the site, but I could be pulling a lot more and so could most other girls if this wasn't being marketed on facebook as basically Tinder 2.0. Either way, it's not gonna change. I even suggested they start using their twitter which is still on the vanilla side but was completely disregarded on that. If they handled their twitter daily by promoting girls based on whatever algorithm, they would also get more of a following and could cycle through promoting girls on the site that are hard workers while also gaining customers as Twitter is a large marketing platform for this industry which can still be very discreet. The issue that Phrendly primarily needs to fix is that they are giving these guys a way to be cheap. Why not let models set rates on their profile so it's clear as day (example: 1 rose = cute selfie)? We can barely put anything on our profile to begin with. Don't get me wrong, I love Phrendly, but there is so much potential they are losing out on. Plus I'm still not okay with girls losing their placement that needed this income despite being hard workers.