How RUDE!!!!! Bahahaha!
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Are you guys still having issues with video chats on the android app? I just downloaded it to my phone last night & am getting my messages on time & quick so far.
It's working now? Maybe I'll try downloading it again. I've been having to use my computer to see and respond to any messages.
Ugh. $1.75 so far today..... why is it so dead??
I wish I had a whole bunch of mysterious guys messaging me. I've been a member for a bit now and still only three guys at all in the last month lol I hate the way this site is set up.
I just did a video call lasting 3 minutes 11 seconds, and got this message.
"Hope you enjoyed your Video Call with _____. It lasted 3 minutes and 11 seconds and 16 sips have been added to your account. Part of this call was billed at the audio-only rate, see your transaction details for more info."
Audio only rate...huh? It was a VIDEO CALL. Dude showed me his hard cock, and started running his mouth about how he wants to come fuck me in person (Nah). Lol.
Dead dead dead,for me too. I did just figure out how to view younger guys though. They had my age range set at like 35 to 55 . I'm like, whoa, young dudes are my core audience. So I've been starring them and drummed up a few but yesterday I didn't even get likes. I did a new gif but I'm gonna switch back to my old one cuz even though I like it better, I haven't been getting as much luck and u can really tell I'm a cam girl by my fabric wall and fairy lights lol
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We are currently having a discussion of how he thought this was a site to meet in person, not just online.
He didn't read the fine print, I guess.
I equate this to guys who come on a cam site to buy an escort, or meet up in person.
Oh, well.
I used the suggest button for my Long Lost Phrends, and didn't realize it had a typo in it. So I just sent out a mass text saying "how have yoou been?" lmao.
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@TheBrownFox , I sent you a DM when you get a moment.
How do you get a guy to do that on here? Also did you read the new rules that come up from Phrendly in a hyperlink at the top of the page. It says that people can't give out emails and things or they lose their accounts.
And it says we are not allowed under any circumstances to ask for a gift. So are we supposed to send photos out for free? Do you ask for a gift for sexting?
Um, we aren't allowed to ask for a gift???? What???????? Phrendly, you have some explaining to do. How in the fuck do you think we make YOUR money in the first place?
LOL LOL, don't let these guys fool you!!!! He said the exact thing to me the first few lines. I spent half of July with this guy.When I ended things because he said he was going to leave the site that night if I didn't feel anything more for him, he ended our "Phrendship" with this: How many guys have been between those big tits of yours. And:I should have known you were a porn star with a name like yours. (didn't even get the name right) This is after getting to know me and saying I was one of the only women on this site with no agenda. (because I wasn't trying to get more money out of him ) He is manipulating, abusive and he knows what's going on on the site. When he first messaged me he said he was tired of a bunch of women who only wanted to talk dirty.
He's one of those angry men who hate women and blame them for his problems. But can't live without them. I would get texted at least 2 to 3 times a day: "you there" Even 3 AM. He also said a girl ripped him off for $2000 on another site. He's far from stupid. I was very nice to him. I even phoned him twice at my expense ( to use up a credit i had) to give him a break on his money (he was texting me 3 times a day but spent very little. He spent the phone call money right back on me.If I was at the grocery store and hair salon one day and he got abusive to me because I couldn't talk right away. He apologized the next day. He is so draining.
Oh I guess you are getting rid of me were his words the day I did cut him loose. I told him what I thought of him in a nice way. I'm too caring of a person and told him he was a great guy but needed a tuneup and counselling might help him with his anger issues. He wrote back: What do you think, I'm a jerk. I thought we were getting along just fine. Yes after he was abusive the third day he texted. (He wanted to take things to another level off the site - no mention of my breasts then! lol)
It taught me you can only be so nice, in the end they will move on or be abusive and you get burned out from people like this. I don't think $5-8 a day when you average the total out, is worth someone abusive and this negative. I was wondering who he'd end up with. LONELYDAD is another one I really wonder who got him. He's a nice person but I had to stop talking to him as he got grosser and grosser. After numerous photos that would make you gag every AM when you get up, it progressed to a live video and his email address , I couldn't look at it anymore!! He wrote paragraphs knowing I'd have to read it for 35 cents. It's best to move on and cut the guy loose when it starts to get to you. It's not worth the amount they are paying on here. Stay positive so you can talk to the next one!
I do not see the link for the new rules. Can you post it?
UGH wtf no asking for gifts?! That's how I make a huge portion of my money off here! What's next we can't ask for them to initiate a video chat with us? LOL
LOL sorry about that! But for me they need to make this clearer. Who knows if their grammar rules are the same as ours reading other things they've written. I read this as : asking for gifts is not permitted AND continuing a conversation under false pretenses is not permitted. (for example saying you are going to meet them) Could Phrendly please comment on this sentence. I'm sure you're right I just want to be 100% sure because I have hinted for a gift for a video or certain photo. :-)) And I saw someone put on their profile page send photos for gifts to travelers or something like that and it's gone now. So that suggests we can't ask for gifts to me.
what do u guys say/do when guys give u there number?
ignoring it is what i usually do but right now i have a guy who is being super persistent....i told him "let's stay on here" but he keeeeeeeeps going. do u tell them its against the rules because i feel like that would scare them off the site???
edit: this has got to be one of the most awkward convos ever...hes literally typing his number after questions and im just pretending its censored or something lol
Hey guys so I've been on Phrendly for about 3 weeks and I've consistently been on the 5th page in the browse section. Well overnight, I dropped back to the 26th page. I respond to all messages quickly and am very active on the app. Well now I'm getting no traffic 😔 does anyone know why they might move you back so far? Did I maybe do something wrong and if so, can I fix it?